I agree. Something like a man leaving up the toilet seat can be totally ignored, when he has so many other great qualities. I mean who would get rid of a truly great and wonderful guy just because of something silly.

As for relationships, I feel that it’s best to be completely honest, even if it hurts one’s feelings. If it bothers you, then say it! If you’re called a bitch, it will only mean one of two things:
1. The man cannot handle hearing what you’ve said, and is responding out of anger. Depending upon how upset he is, and how much you care about his flaws, the relationship wont work.
2. You really are being too picky, and perhaps him calling you a bitch is really just him informing you of one of your flaws. Perhaps he does have bad breath, a hairy chest, and a small..; but then again, it’s also possible that you are, indeed, a bitch.

I’m not trying to sound rude with this, I’m merely stating that bitchyness is just another flaw, if your man calls you one, there are two responses really….