Comments on: Who’s Line Is It?

By: dallas

dallas — Fri, 23 Mar 2007 18:52:04 +0000

Ok, Robert, I never said women aren’t cheep. I never said they don’t lie. On the contrary, I know plenty that I would not trust farther than I could throw them. They spread easier than parkay! The problem is that I’m not dating women! My only concern with other women is how far are they willing to go to try and steal ‘my man’ and is he going to take the bait…. ‘Trust’ is a double edged sword. No matter what you do, you are bound to get hurt. I’ve come to the realization that those who are out for themselves are far more happier than those who are constantly trying to do the right and honest thing. Thus, I give my response to Judi…
Judi, he’s never going to change. I have been in your shoes too many times to think that you are going to take my advice. I refused to accept it when I was in your shoes also. However, I have to say he is NEVER going to commit to anything more. He is who he is and that’s all you’re going to get. You are going to either have to accept things EXACTLY the way they are with him or move on. I realize how hard this may be after investing this much time, worry and effort into the relationship and him but it’s what has to be done. You should never enter a relationship or stay in one with the intention of changing the other person. If you can’t love them for EXACTLY who they are, then you aren’t in love with them. You are in love with the person YOU WANT them to be. Which, may I add, is a non-existent person in that relationship. If you are not happy, totally happy and satisfied, perhaps you should momentarily swallow your pride and accept that this one is not the right one. Another thing that I want to point out, but only you can answer… if you have that many fears but no proof, maybe there are unresolved issues from your past that first have to be dealt with before you can find the right one for you. You first must love yourself for who you are before you will find anyone else that will do the same and trust them completely with your heart. This takes years of mistakes and self-discovery and realizations before you come to love yourself enough to not take shit when it’s not due. I feel this is when we find happiness. At least that’s what keeps me sane.

By: judi

judi — Thu, 22 Mar 2007 23:05:31 +0000

my boyfreind is british.He is rather unemotional he says due to the fact he was sent off to a boarding school at age seven.(yeah right) I have been involved with him for five years he is quite the intellectual and is into new age beliefs and off the wall ideas.I am frustrated at the amount of female (freinds) he says he has and that he denies they are any more than freinds.For instance last month he showed up at my work with a “freind” who he said he had to give a ride to because she didnt have a ride to a retreat at some stupid shamanistic event he was going to.He has also recently told me his asian hair stylist who he has been freinds with for 25 years has gotten married to a man who will not have sex with her.. (and of course he denies hes going to do her the favor) LOL and this is just the most recent attrocites of the past two months.How insensitive can a man be? well I think I know!! .He is also a cheap bastard Ive never gotten more than dinner and a motel room in five years and when I stated I wanted something after five years (just a cheap streling silver pendent) he said he would gladly get it for me but that was three months ago on our fifth anniversay and of course hes made excuses like he cant find something that suits me.He has money to go to burning man (yep the one where people do whatever in the middle of nowhere) and of course trips to retreats for whatever but yet he says he “loves” me….All I can say is “yeah sure” and hope someday he gets caught lying to me because then trust me Im going toi make his life a living hell.

By: Robert Tomkins

Robert Tomkins — Tue, 20 Mar 2007 20:35:34 +0000

And you think women dont do the same things, your freakin crazy!
You women do the same things, if not worse.
You know it, I know. Why lie about it.