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Addicted to a Loser

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Here I sit complaining about the same man who I swore I would never speak to again. I was doing well, actually went three months without any contact, but as soon as he made contact I was off to see him again. This man has a lot of problems, intimacy, delusional you name it but at least he has an excuse.

What is my problem? This man got me pregnant and dumped me like a piece of garbage, has played all kinds of head games and yet I can’t stay away from him. I know what you ladies are thinking….that I am completely crazy and deserve better. I would like to think that I deserve better as well. Here’s the thing, if one of my friends was experiencing the same thing I would be all over her to stop. He plays the biggest games. An example for those of you that are curious…..the last game involved coming to my house when I asked him to be quiet because my roommate was asleep he said he was going to the store and never came back. Now he won’t even return my texts or take my phone calls.

I never know what is going to set him off. He is so unstable and unpredictable, has a lot of aggression built up and thinks everyone is out to get him. He truly thinks women are second class citizens and clearly treats me as such. I just don’t know why I keep going back for more. It’s not even a sex thing…he holds back sex sometimes to play games.

Is anyone else in the same boat? Keeps going back for more pain and suffering from a loser like the man I described. OR has someone overcome a similar situation? I would love to hear about it.

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The two faced jerk

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My ex, he is white and I am black.. He is hearing and I am deaf. He married his new black over weight girlfriend of two years last V-day. What gets to me if I don’t think about it, is that he insulted black people and their personalty, deaf people and their dumbness, insulted me complaining that I was too fat for him and I am a size 7.. His new wife is a size 11-12.. His new wife is very dark skinned, he has no respect for successful woman of color. He insults Oprah, Beyonce, A. Keys and many other women of color. I spent and wasted almost 8 years with him. He once said to me that he would never marry me in front of his mammy, and she thought it was freakin funny. His momma life aint doing too well either, she lost one son due to marriage. His wife cannot stand his family.. He once insulted my deafness, he took the time and effort to write in the snow he hate having a deaf girlfriend. The list can go on forever. He was indeed verbally abusive. After I decided to pack up and leave his mean nasty hateful azz, he found a new dark skinned black woman and marry her two years later.. She is the total opposite of me, it shows that he is a true hypocrite… Now I sit here saying two things I sure as hell feel sorry for her and he shell reap what he sow… Pay back sure is going to be a true bitch…

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