I HATE MEN

First I want to say I DON’T hate men just like the creator of this blog doesn’t. I do thing some men are pigs though. For instance, there was this guy that I had hooked up with, in the beginning it was definitely just a physical attraction. The more we talked the more I disliked him and the more he liked me. When I first met him we were talking and he mentioned that he had slept with 28 people in his 25 years of life. Personally I thought that was a lot.

About three or four weeks after our “hooking up” he came up to me telling me that he really liked me and could see himself falling in love with me. And that he would love me like no one has ever loved anyone before. He started to tear up and walk away after I politely told him as I had told him time and time again that all I felt was a friendship. The next day I was have a girly day at the mall with my best friend and her boyfriend who is really good friends with the guy I hooked up with and told her something that I needed to know.

My initial reaction was fear of course because I had no idea of what news I was going to hear. My best friend told me that the number that I was told was way off…28 people he slept with turned into 62!

At that moment I felt sick to my stomach, tears filling my eyes, and complete betrayal. I thought to myself, “Could someone be that disrespectful?” At that moment I walked out of the store I was shopping in picked up my cell phone called the guys phone and left an assertive message telling him he needed to call me back. My friend and I hopped in my car as my cell phone rang. I sat in the driver’s seat parked in the lot infuriated and completely torn apart.

The first thing I said was, “ You lied to me about how many women you slept with.” The next thing he said is where I completely lost it when he said, “Now you know what it feels like to be hurt.” I could not believe someone would be so ignorant enough to say that, especially someone who the night before spilled all their feelings to me. I told him that how I hurt him and how he hurt me are irrelevant. His whole demeanor over the phone was cocky and proud of his track recorded. He even had the nerve to say to me, “what is the difference between what I told you and what it really is?” I yelled, “34!”

My best friend and I switched seats and she drove my car home. She called her boyfriend and told her everything that happened and his reaction was, “Love hurts.” At that point I felt all men are pigs even though it’s not all, but at the time I was hurt so badly. Later that night around 11:00pm my cell rang. I look at the caller ID and it was the jerk. I couldn’t believe it, I didn’t want to have anything to do with him, but I answered.

I said, “Hello?” He responded with the same and said that he regrets a lot of things in life, but doesn’t regret what him and I had. I told him that, “ I was just another check on your list and you happened to fall for me to your surprise and now you feel like an idiot and that the apology meant nothing.” He then had the courage to yell at me and say he didn’t have to defend what he did. My response was, “I’m not the one who called, I didn’t even want to hear your voice again.”

The arguing continued for a little while, then I got sick of it and did not have to put up with it. I told him I had to get up early for work and didn’t need to get upset again before I go to sleep. So ladies and gentlemen when you think someone is being honest and genuine think twice you could get hurt.