Comments on: Rebounds & Hookups Create Drama and Confusion http://www.ihatemen.org/rebounds-hookups-create-drama-and-confusion/ The Most Factually Correct Site On-line Mon, 06 Oct 2008 20:24:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Scott http://www.ihatemen.org/rebounds-hookups-create-drama-and-confusion/#comment-2721 Scott Sun, 14 Sep 2008 13:53:26 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=111#comment-2721 Can I just say THANK YOU You have no idea how much it annoys me when a hear chicks going out with cheaters. Now I understand why chicks go out with guys who cheat (long story that I won't go into). But the fact that you said no and went out with some worthwhile....great stuff. You have a strong sense of character. Can I just say THANK YOU

You have no idea how much it annoys me when a hear chicks going out with cheaters. Now I understand why chicks go out with guys who cheat (long story that I won’t go into).

But the fact that you said no and went out with some worthwhile….great stuff. You have a strong sense of character.

]]> By:   Can I Forgive Him? — I HATE MEN http://www.ihatemen.org/rebounds-hookups-create-drama-and-confusion/#comment-1831   Can I Forgive Him? — I HATE MEN Fri, 16 May 2008 20:26:24 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=111#comment-1831 [...] of getting hurt, and scared of hurting me. I am scared too, but I think I am going to take the advice of Erin, “Take a risk on the unexpected it might just be what you’re looking [...] [...] of getting hurt, and scared of hurting me. I am scared too, but I think I am going to take the advice of Erin, “Take a risk on the unexpected it might just be what you’re looking [...]

]]> By: a better woman http://www.ihatemen.org/rebounds-hookups-create-drama-and-confusion/#comment-1828 a better woman Fri, 16 May 2008 15:40:20 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=111#comment-1828 Hi Erin, I can totally related with your confusion of boys. I've also been in a relationship where I was "the other girl"...the guy I was seeing was separated, but still married. This relationship was on-and-off for about 2 years, but I always felt like I was second because of the ties to his daughter and his ex's family. And the fear of him cheating was always in the back of my mind... I think it is better that you moved on past this guy. I found relationships with so much drama and complications are often very draining, and require full commitment by both parties...something that is difficult when it appears you are already apprehensive about this guy. It sounds like the guy you chose has much more respect for you than the 26 year old did. Just don't make the mistake of putting this new guy on a pedestal because he seems so perfect. Keep him at your level, as you will get to see him as he truly is... I think I'd rather find the almost perfect, so close to being everything kind of guy versus the guy that seems perfect, only because he is doing & being what he thinks you want. Hi Erin,

I can totally related with your confusion of boys. I’ve also been in a relationship where I was “the other girl”…the guy I was seeing was separated, but still married. This relationship was on-and-off for about 2 years, but I always felt like I was second because of the ties to his daughter and his ex’s family. And the fear of him cheating was always in the back of my mind…

I think it is better that you moved on past this guy. I found relationships with so much drama and complications are often very draining, and require full commitment by both parties…something that is difficult when it appears you are already apprehensive about this guy.

It sounds like the guy you chose has much more respect for you than the 26 year old did. Just don’t make the mistake of putting this new guy on a pedestal because he seems so perfect. Keep him at your level, as you will get to see him as he truly is…

I think I’d rather find the almost perfect, so close to being everything kind of guy versus the guy that seems perfect, only because he is doing & being what he thinks you want.

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