i hate men

i hate men

Lazy, Self-Centered, Egotistical MEN

In all my years of dating hell, not once have I found a man that is willing to give of himself for ANYONE, let alone his woman.

I’m a self-reliant, self-sufficient woman that really doesn’t NEED a man to take care of her. All I desire is a companion, a best friend, someone who is there to laugh with me when I’m happy and be a strong shoulder to cry on when I need one. But all I seem to find are men who want ME to take care of THEM - emotionally, financially and in every other way.

When did the tides turn? When did this paradoxical shift in the way things should be happen? When did women take ALL the responsibility for running a household? When did it become ok for men to sit around all day, doing nothing, paying for nothing, eating everything in site and giving absolutely nothing in return? It bothers me to the point that I get sick to my stomach every time I think about it.

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5 Comments so far (Add 1 more)

  1. Would you rather go back to your traditional role as a woman? You want to be a housewife? Unable to vote? Dependent on the men you hate?

    You deserve a donkey punch to the mouth.

    erm u mean the man-made role for women? She never implied any of the above.

    and you deserve a dick on your ass. Or a dildo. Whichever you prefer =)

    1. PetulantPoetess on November 16th, 2008 at 4:59 am
  2. I thought this once. I had a bitter divorce from a man I took care of and pampered and still wasn’t appreciated. After that I encountered men who wanted to take care of me so they could have the control in the relationship. I gave up, I thought all men were selfish. Then I decided to just live my life for me and make myself happy. I am fortunate to say that I have since met someone who I feel is my equal in every way. From the beginning we both agreed that we were friends first and foremost. We did not want to be part of the typical dysfunctional relationships that we see everyday. So we made ourselves and each other a promise that we would not allow ourselves to be lost to the other. I support myself and control my own life. I do things for him because I want to, not because he expects me to. We both feel that we need to be our own person to be able to have and build a good relationship. We don’t take advantage of each other nor do we expect anything from the other. I call him my spiritual partner, I have never had this kind of relationship, but I know I will never settle for anything less again. Once I changed my attitude, I changed my life. I have no bitterness towards men, I realize that I am responsible for my own reactions and feelings, and working through that old belief system is the hardest part. I wish you well on your journey.

    2. aj on February 7th, 2008 at 12:55 am
  3. Well, Jack just proves what *most* men are like by his hostile statements. Actually, I personally would like to be a traditional wife as long as I had the *right* man. Sadly, there are no good men left. I don’t vote because I am a conscientious objector, but not a pacifist. Even so, all politicians are liars and will do the opposite of what you voted them in for.

    I’m just wondering why you didn’t delete his ugly post - maybe to prove a point?

    3. Trisha on May 20th, 2007 at 6:28 pm
  4. Would you rather go back to your traditional role as a woman? You want to be a housewife? Unable to vote? Dependent on the men you hate?

    You deserve a donkey punch to the mouth.

    4. Jack on March 8th, 2007 at 2:22 pm
  5. You are absolutely correct! It makes me feel so much better to know that there are other women out there who know exactly how I feel. You’re right, what happened to the traditional role of man as the provider? Why do men feel it’s OK to not only abandon their role as provider but to also take on the role of burden? You’re right, they will drain you emotionally and financially and still bitch about it. And they do eat everything in sight, LOL!

    5. Naomi on January 19th, 2007 at 3:32 pm

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