I Just Don’t Get Men

I’m sure you all have either said this to yourself or heard it a million times…but I really don’t get men.

I am at the point of total confusion and I really don’t know what to do. I must first say that I do not hate men, but there are those days that I become frustrated or upset over what they do or what they say, but it is no different when it comes to my frustrations with women, or children.

Here the situation…I have finally found someone that I really like, and I think that they really like me, but then it just goes all goofy after that. I love talking to him, and I love to see him, and I was sure that he felt the same. It all seems great and then he seems to fall off the face of the earth…no e-mails, no phone calls…I get so upset that I am debated to call hospitals looking for him.

So what should I do? This has been going on for a few years now and I am not sure how much more heartache I can take. I have tried to get over him, but I’m not sure that is possible…my feelings for him are so strong. Do I just let go and forget the last few years…I don’t think I can or maybe I just don’t want to. Every time I think of him a huge smiles comes to my face…he is really so great. We have so much in common, he is hard working, dedicated, energetic, fun, health-conscious, intelligent, a blast to hang out with…and who can forget those beautiful blue eyes and that laugh…i love it.

So why does he back off like this? Maybe he is just busy and I understand, but is a 10 second e-mail or a 1 minute phone call so difficult?

Who knows, but maybe one day I will “get this man.”

Share on Facebook

by a better woman