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		<title>I just read an article that said the woman who pulled all her ex&#8217;s teeth out was a hoax O_O</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whilst i&#8217;m glad to know that there really wasn&#8217;t some monster pulling someone&#8217;s teeth out, i&#8217;m a bit perplexed as to why someone would make up such a hoax O_O *This is the articel I read: Revealing what appears to have been an example of global journalistic malpractice — and misogyny — involving some of [...]
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									</div></div><p>Whilst i&#8217;m glad to know that there really wasn&#8217;t some monster pulling someone&#8217;s teeth out, i&#8217;m a bit perplexed as to why someone would make up such a hoax O_O *This is the articel I read:</p>
<p>Revealing what appears to have been an example of global journalistic malpractice — and misogyny — involving some of the world’s most esteemed mainstream news outlets, msnbc.com reported Tuesday that its own basic investigation into the “teeth-pulling ex-girlfriend” story has revealed the story was a hoax.</p>
<p>Apparently, Britain’s Daily Mail first printed the story without bothering to perform even cursory fact-checking; regardless, the story was picked up and circulated by Fox News, the Los Angeles Times, the San Francisco Chronicle, Huffington Post, Yahoo! News, MSN, the New York Post, and The New York Daily News and Australia’s Herald Sun and New Zealand Herald among others.</p>
<p>Msnbc.com reports,</p>
<p>when msnbc.com contacted police in Wroclaw, Poland, about the supposed criminal case, a spokesman said they had no record of such an incident.</p>
<p>“Lower Silesia Police Department has not been notified about such an event and is not investigating such a case,” Pawel Petrykowski of the Provincial Police Headquarters in Wroclaw said in an email that was translated into English.</p>
<p>A legal adviser for Poland’s Chamber of Physicians and Dentists, which handles disciplinary matters, said the organization is not investigating and has never investigated any such case, and added that there is no dental practitioner named Anna Maćkowiak listed in Poland’s central register of dentists.</p>
<p>“No information about this kind of misconduct has been provided to the Supreme Chamber,” the legal advisor, Marek Szewczyński, said in an email. “The Supreme Chamber is also not aware of any actions of this kind being taken by the Regional Chamber of Physicians and Dentists in Wroclaw, which would be the competent authority in case of a possible professional misconduct committed by a dental practitioner from Wroclaw.”</p>
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<p>The American Dental Association’s national spokesperson, David Johnson Jr., said the story of Maćkowiak’s revenge was highly improbable — not just as an unprecedented abuse of the doctor-patient relationship but because most dentists are equipped to administer drugs only for conscious sedation dentistry. That would mean the ex-boyfriend would know his teeth were being extracted as it was happening, rather than realizing it after he arrived home.</p>
<p>Why wasn’t this most cursory of fact checking and referencing performed before the story was printed?  Well, when asked that very question, the Daily Male staff writer under whose byline the story was originally written, Simon Tomlinson, said</p>
<p>he does not know where the story came from and distanced himself from it when questioned about its origins.  “I’ve drawn a bit of a blank,” he said in an email. “The (Daily) Mail Foreign Service, which did the piece for the paper, is really just an umbrella term for copy put together from agencies. My news desk isn’t sure where exactly it came from.”</p>
<p>This, after the story was shared more than 75,000 times on Facebook since it was first published on April 27, and after having spawned thousands of misogynistic comments on online news sites none of which have been removed, although most of the online news sources who reported this story have since issued retractions.  </p>
<p>*I cut the article a little short. The rest of the article starts to get into gender and false propaganda, which, as we know, affects men and women. But i&#8217;m trying to keep the article short and to the point. The article does point fingers, even though the reason for the hoax is unclear. You get the point! </p>
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		<title>Thare is no solution for that one</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 22:09:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some days ago i promised a solution in case someone could define the problem. The problem between the genders, if there is one, or dating and love life if you want. Due to a general lack of interest, there has been only one response, and that one basicly described how the whole human race should [...]
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									</div></div><p>Some days ago i promised a solution in case someone could define the problem. The problem between the genders, if there is one, or dating and love life if you want.</p>
<p>Due to a general lack of interest, there has been only one response, and that one basicly described how the whole human race should needto be better at getting along with eachother.</p>
<p>I am sorry to say that i see no solution there.</p>
<p>I try to best describe what i mean, and the reasons, but i am afraid my english is not really good enough to express it in a way that wont get it misinterpeted.</p>
<p>This is a consumer society, where the more and more individualistic is preferred, and the only mesure of value is material wealth, the only mesure of success, is the accumlation of said wealth.</p>
<p>The system as it is, will not encurage people to be caring or be overly social. It will encurage the ruthless, the unscupolous. Opportunism over virtue. Quick gain over stability. This does not favors the people who you would describe as pleasant or nice. This favors the assholes who would sell their own mothers if there was a gain from it.</p>
<p>And this kind of system reproduces itself, its mentality has crept into the minds and hearts of most people. You could try to educate people all you want, the very core of what humans today value would fight off any attempt to make them care about their fellow people. And no anmount of faked &#8220;niceness&#8221; will make up for genuine goodwill torwards your enviroment.</p>
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									</div></div><p>Mankind is a species that searches, conquers, and destroys. Don&#8217;t believe me? Pick up a history book. History will show that these instincts that man carries is based on three things: Money, Sex, and Power. This attitude and motive does not change when it comes to relationships. As a women, it is okay to let a man seek you, but he is ONLY to be a &#8220;tourist&#8221;, whether it is for 1 year, 5 years, or even 20 years.  If you allow him to conquer you, your heart and spirit will eventually be destroyed&#8230;and he is on to the next territory. </p>
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									</div></div><p>I&#8217;d give them a taste of their own medicine. I&#8217;d reverse the roles. See how they like dem apples.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d send all the hot dudes to a compound where they live &#8211; just like a harem or a sex slave den. They would study how to be wonderful to women, stroke our egos and our bodies (same way women are trained to do this for men). We&#8217;d have hidden cameras so they had no privacy (like all the creeps that sneak hidden cameras into womens homes and bathrooms &#8211; you&#8217;d be amazed how often that happens) and we could order them out of a catalog when we want company, sex or to go dancing etc. Then send them back to the compound when we were tired of them. Order a different one any time we want.</p>
<p>Men would have absolutely ALL RESPONSIBILITY for contraception. They would wear a condom or they wouldn&#8217;t get any sex &#8211; period, instead of women having to take the pill or just get pregnant when they don&#8217;t want to.</p>
<p>The bars and clubs and all the fun public places would be for women and men would only get to go if a woman takes them or they are sent there from the harem to make women feel good. No other reason. </p>
<p>If men got drunk or disorderly in pubic they would be sent home in shame. Repeat offenders would be banned from public life because no women would be seen dead with them.</p>
<p>Once men had given us an orgasm we would roll over and snore and they would get the hell out of bed and go back to the compound frustrated (like too many women and all the hookers have to) expect the men would not be paid. They would be fed and clothed and housed and have pin money to get their hair cut or a manicure or whatever they need to look good for us.</p>
<p>The men would dress the way women tell them to dress.</p>
<p>The women would have all the high paid interesting  fun jobs and 93% of boards of directors and most managers would be women. Men would be subservient.</p>
<p>All the fugly difficult attitudinal pricks would go live in a compound and only be let out to work in physical jobs women don&#8217;t want to do. WOmen have babies so it&#8217;s only fair men do what they are build for &#8211; like digging ditches. There would be no high paid white collar jobs for men. All great ideas by men would be stolen by their women friends and bosses and all patents would be filed in womens names. Men would not be allowed to. They would not be allowed to vote. They would get no women and no breeding rights unless a woman chose them. They would get dumped when the woman was tired of them.</p>
<p>Women would have plenty of money and men would have almost none. So some women could have a man stay a few years with them if they could support him but he would not be able to support himself without her so he would be her slave. He would do all the domestic drudgery and do all the ass wiping of the babies and cleaning up puke, snot, piss, shit, blood and sleep in the wet patch after not being allowed to come and he&#8217;d have to launder the sheets and change the bed before she gets home after a few boozy drinks with her gal pals after work where the women letch hot dudes that work in the bars. There would be no female wait staff. They would all be very polite and flattering men who are well dressed, hot and eager to serve. The men would make minimum wage.</p>
<p>Women would take credit for all the good and intelligent acts in the world.</p>
<p>Men would be second class citizens. There to serve women only.</p>
<p>Only a few men would be in politics and that would only be as assistants to the women in power.</p>
<p>All cops would be women and we wouldn&#8217;t need that many because men would not go out after dark alone and during the day they would only go to work and straight home to cook dinner and do chores.</p>
<p>Men would do all the childcare unless the woman felt like it occasionally but the woman would do all the fun stuff with the kids and buy all the presents and take the kids on expensive trips while the man tags along.</p>
<p>Men would only drive if the woman was too tired to do it and let him.</p>
<p>Women would make decisions without consulting with men.</p>
<p>If men work they would get harassed constantly and nobody would protect them really although, there would be laws, but they would rarely be enforced.</p>
<p>If a man was violent to a woman he would get sent to a work camp and not be seen of again for maybe forever.</p>
<p>Murderers, rapists and molesters would be put to death, slowly and painfully and publicly. SOme might be burned at the stake. Unfaithful men would be stoned.</p>
<p>Men would get paid minimum wage or nothing at all.</p>
<p>Doesn&#8217;t that sound like a great world.</p>
<p>Entertaining or sporty men would be allowed to do those things but only so far as it interested and entertained women and not when they are old and fugly.</p>
<p>There would be no war, very little violence and businesses would prosper.</p>
<p>SLovenly men would be ridiculed.</p>
<p>Now all I need to do is go jump into that parallel universe so I don&#8217;t have to put up with all the contemptuous, entitled, violent, repulsive, inappropriate, harassing, vulgar, greedy, corrupt, selfish, irresponsible, users that I&#8217;m forced to put up with in this man&#8217;s world.</p>
<p>Oh yeah and all men on TV would be hot. Fugly men would get the odd character role but not many and only when necessary to explain the story. Men would wear a lot less clothes on TV too.</p>
<p>Well that&#8217;s it. This has made me horny so I&#8217;m off to help myself to myself now.</p>
<p>Good night and it&#8217;s been a blast relating to all the men on here on my terms. Right back at ya buddy.</p>
<p>Oh and it&#8217;s April fools and I&#8217;m just kidding, We should all be equal and love each other and realise we are two sides of the same coin but that&#8217;s in another universe and I don&#8217;t rule that one either so&#8230;this is just they way it has to be. </p>
<p>Sorry boys (not).</p>
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									</div></div><p>Je déteste ce putain de connard de boss qui ne faisait que crier en agitant sa moustache énorme et frémissante. Je déteste ces travailleurs débiles qui ne pensaient qu&#8217;à boire et qui parlaient d&#8217;une fille violées comme si elle aimait ça, la salope. I hate all those bad memories that I have with them. Je déteste ce gros con qui m&#8217;a donné un coup sur la tête (sans faire exprès) et qui après me criait dessus parce qu&#8217;il se sentait coupable et faisait sa tite criss de victime. Je déteste mon père pour avoir dit que les féministes sont des connes et les gays devraient fermer leur gueule. Je déteste sa femme qui passe son temps à se dénigrer et dire qu&#8217;elle est conne. Je déteste mes deux frères qui sont fucking gros pis caves. I hate men.</p>
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<p><strong></strong>I hate this fucking idiot boss who did nothing but cry, shaking his huge mustache and quivering. I hate those stupid workers who thought only of drinking and talking like a girl raped if she liked it, the bitch. I Hate All Those That I Have bad memories with &#8216;em. I hate that fat jerk who gave me a blow on the head (not on purpose) and after shouting at me because he felt guilty and was its tite criss victim. I hate my father for saying that feminists are idiots and gays should shut their mouths. I hate his wife who spends his time denigrating and say it&#8217;s bitch. I hate my two brothers who are udder fucking big cellars. I hate men.</p>
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									</div></div><p>I don&#8217;t know how I allowed myself to get in this situation. Maybe because at the time I was going through a hard time myself and I just didn&#8217;t care. I met a man a few years ago while I was out. He seemed nice enough. We talked for a while and I asked was he single. He said &#8220;yes&#8221;, so then I asked was he married. I asked that even after the single question because men tend  to tell you a lie and then say you didn&#8217;t ask the right question. I was covering my bases and his answer was &#8220;no&#8221;. We decided to exchange number and plan for a date. The day of our date he calls and says I need to tell you something. I&#8217;m thinking already I know he lied and he is married because that was just to good to be true. So he hemmed and hawed and I was like &#8220;look dude I already know what you&#8217;re going to say so just say it&#8221;. Sure enough he said it! He was married and he wanted to tell me the truth because I appeared to be a nice lady and he didn&#8217;t feel right lying to me. My thoughts were &#8220;here we go with the b.s&#8221;. </p>
<p>Needless to say I went out with him anyway. Yes I know it was probably wrong but like I said in the beginning I was going through my own problems (not male related) and hell I could use a free meal and some drinks. Plus I figured we would just go out have some fun and that would be it. How wrong I was. That one simple date has turned into years of &#8220;what the hell have I gotten myself into.</p>
<p>They say you can&#8217;t help who you love and I am really beginning to believe that it is true. I&#8217;ve been through so much unnecessary drama with this man because of it. Within the first few months his wife called me. The first time we talked it was a civilized conversation. After I spoke with her. I immediately called him to say he needed to leave me alone. Of course we argued because everything he had told me was a lie. Plus she had told me that she had been through this with him with another women and that relationship had went on for at  least 6 years. I wanted to ask her why she put up with it but I figured she had to be an idiot for letting him do the same thing to her again.</p>
<p>A few months passed after that and here he was showing up on my doorstep saying he &#8220;just wanted to check on me&#8221;. Dumb me opened the door and let him in. We talked about what had happened. I said it was water under the bridge and we were cool. Not cool as in I wanted to get back together but cool in oh well she is the one that has to deal with you and not me. Boy was I wrong. That one encounter led me to be right where I am today. Whining in this blog about this.</p>
<p>Fast forward to right now. I know it&#8217;s totally wrong that I&#8217;m in love with him. He keeps promising me that they are getting a divorce (which several years ago he said that too) and that he is in love with me too. I want to shake him but my heart won&#8217;t let me. I curse him out, break up with him, block his calls, ignore his text and still I get sucked back into the b.s. He works on the road and his home state borders mine so it&#8217;s not like I have ever ran into his family. He comes off the road and we stay together for days. I don&#8217;t allow him at my house because I don&#8217;t want my kids to know I&#8217;m seeing him again for the umpteenth time after saying it was over. I don&#8217;t know what he tells &#8220;her&#8221; but we have gone on vacation at least 10x in the years we have been together and we are always gone for days. </p>
<p>He keeps telling me that things are over with him and her and he just need to get his money right so that he can make it legal. I want to believe him but I can&#8217;t. A lot of things he does I question like &#8220;how does she go for this&#8221; and could she really be that dumb not to know that he is still seeing me (I&#8217;ve been in several arguments with her since the first time we talked &#8220;civilized&#8221;). I don&#8217;t know if he won&#8217;t let me go or if I won&#8217;t let him go.  I have dated other people and he knows and he protest   but it&#8217;s like he knows it won&#8217;t last. It usually doesn&#8217;t because he stays in my ear, makes trips back from off the road to come see me and beg me not to leave him. Like a dummy I usually stop calling the guy and let him back in until &#8220;he&#8221; pisses me off and I dump him again.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like the craziest roller coaster ride I have ever been on. I love him but I hate him. To be honest when we are not arguing about his situation this is hands down the best relationship I&#8217;ve been in with a guy. He is very loving, caring, compassionate. He actually listens. We have a lot in common and we have a wonderful time together. It&#8217;s even comfortable being around him in silence. We never use to argue about anything or if we did have a dispute we would go to the bar and discuss it rationally over a beer. </p>
<p>I know my relationship with him is wrong. I don&#8217;t need anyone to tell me that. I&#8217;m just saying what&#8217;s in my head. I love him but I hate him. I keep hoping one day he will just call or text and say &#8220;I want out&#8221; but he hasn&#8217;t and knowing him he won&#8217;t. I have already tried to do that myself but in the end I just go right back. I&#8217;m not some women that has blinders on and I&#8217;m not just taking what I can get. There are plenty of single men that pursue me and I have choices of who I want to be with. I&#8217;ve been on a few dates, hung out with a couple different guys but none of them are like him in terms of actually understanding me. Him and I have this great friendship if nothing else and maybe that&#8217;s what I can&#8217;t let go of. Yea the situation is bad but we have always been able to be friends. That&#8217;s what I get out of being with and around him. </p>
<p>I want to walk away but it&#8217;s hard. I keep saying to myself if I walk away will I be able to handle the heartbreak? If you want to comment you can. Again I don&#8217;t need to hear about how wrong I am because he is married. Yeah yeah blah blah. It&#8217;s way past that now. I have been married before so please don&#8217;t say how would I feel if it was me. It happened already and I got a t-shirt for it. Despite the situation I&#8217;m not a bad person. I didn&#8217;t ask for this to be part of my life and I&#8217;m not blaming anyone for the choices I made. It is what it is. I just need to make sense of it so I can get out of it before another few years pass. I gave him until September to either shit or get of the pot. He says he is going to handle it so we will see. </p>
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<p>i feel really upset and think i deserve better than this but he keeps saying im the 1 being childish and selfish!<br />
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		<title>To All: Heed My Words!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 19:29:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ndrewblood</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So. I have a story to tell in response to the lady who posted D.I.V.O.R.C.E&#8230;My now ex boyfriend&#8217;s brother (will call him J) was in a serious relationship with a girl (will call her M). They were together for 5 years. She was smart, educated, Christian young lady. She was also one of the most [...]
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									</div></div><p>So. I have a story to tell in response to the lady who posted D.I.V.O.R.C.E&#8230;My now ex boyfriend&#8217;s brother (will call him J) was in a serious relationship with a girl (will call her M). They were together for 5 years. She was smart, educated, Christian young lady. She was also one of the most down to earth and sweetest girls I have ever met. She always made me feel at home whenever we use to go visit his family. Everyone thought &#8220;J is so lucky to have a girl like M!!&#8221; Also, J was the type a guy that every girl would want to be with. One of the good and nice guys that everyone keeps blabbing on about existing&#8230;At least he was on the surface. Anyways, these two were considered the perfect girlfriend and the perfect boyfriend. How lucky were they to have found each other that the rest of us so desperately are looking for&#8230;I even joked that I chose the wrong brother! (haha). Now earlier this year, J started taking dance lessons. During these dance lessons he met a very pretty girl, will call her C. C and J started hanging out. As friends. Well, &#8220;one-sided&#8221; friends&#8230;J actually started slowly hanging out with C more than M. It got to a point where he actually would hang out with his dance partner for 5 days out of the week, leaving only 1 day to hang out with his long time partner M. Hmmmmm? Well, it was one day that C profess to him how she thought that he was a handsome guy and that she wished she could meet a guy like him and that M was so lucky to have him. Well, J (like most men-weak) calls up M and dumps her. Tells her some b-s excuse about how he isn&#8217;t sure about her being a Christian and how he doesn&#8217;t know if he wants to marry a Christian or raise kids as Christians blah blah. M was confused. Her response was &#8220;Why did it take you 5 years to tell me this? You should have brought this up in the beginning-and besides, we can worry about that when it comes, that is IF it comes&#8221; He wasn&#8217;t really listening to her, and calls off the relationship anyways. Well, the NEXT day, J invites C over to hang out. He begins to profess how he would like to date her and take it to the next level. A was shocked. C&#8217;s response was &#8216;I am not looking for a relationship-and why would you dump you current girlfriend for me&#8217; She decides to drop him as a friend telling him to stop calling her (smart cookie don&#8217;t you think). And where does that leave J-alone. M won&#8217;t take him back. C dropped him and went to another dance studio. J decides to date one of C&#8217;s associates because he cannot handle being alone. WOW!</p>
<p>The moral of this story is a quote that one of my male co workers (and no he is not gay) told me about a year ago: &#8220;Never trust a Man because a Man is only as faithful as his opportunities&#8221;&#8230;J was thought to be one of the &#8216;nice&#8217; ones but it was only a matter of time when the opportunity presented itself to J and then he showed his true &#8216;male&#8217; colors.<br />
Peace&#8230;</p>
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		<title>EX wont stop contacting ME</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 20:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Long story short, me and my ex broke up twice. He claimed he wanted to be single again. Yet every once in a while I&#8217;ll see a text from him. And its really selfish of him to not let me move on and keep contacting me out of the blue. He wanted to be single [...]
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									</div></div><p>Long story short, me and my ex broke up twice. He claimed he wanted to be single again. Yet every once in a while I&#8217;ll see a text from him. And its really selfish of him to not let me move on and keep contacting me out of the blue. He wanted to be single so I told him, cut ties with me permanently, he can live his life and I will live mine. Im up to the point of saving every text he gives me, and reporting it to the authorities for harassment. Its been almost six months.</p>
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