Kinda twisted, I know, but your best friend should really do the metaphorical coyote ugly and go out with you once in a while without him. Her boyfriend sounds more like her really uptight dad…Last time I knew she was young, white, and free and could do whatever she wanted without anyone’s approval.

Now that my credentials are in good order, I have something to say to you. First off, when you wanna post something like that, make sure you put your name on it. You just automatically labeled yourself spineless. Doing that is like entering the Special Olympics…you may be a champion, but you’re still retarded….

Secondly, Anonymous (hahaha), you’re a selfish, self-righteous chauvinist dickhead. You probably don’t have a job, you have a shitty life, shitty house and you probably don’t think your mom loves you. You have absolutely nothing better to do than go around to different sites and spit your sexist filth on blind eyes, either because you’re cynical or just bored. By the way, we’re all laughing at you right now.

“Unfortunately women desire things that are not only unfun, but are also unproductive.” This is just funny. It’s guys’ sole desire to do nothing! We desire to be left alone with a beer, a football game, and a Playboy mag….It may be fun in the short term, but is that really productive? Most women (except the ones you’ve met along the way) enjoy creating homes, having kids, being mothers, being wives….Guys hate that shit because we’re selfish, most women are not. You need to seriously grow up, grow a set, and be a man. Stop being so self-centered. You, Anonymous, are the exact reason why a site like this was created. I actually love this site because I love making fun of guys that are selfish pricks like you! A word of advice: Stop chasing around the fast, loose, big chested, unintelligent barflies. Drop the ignorance, drop the fear, and find an intelligent, independent, smokin hot girl to have a meaningful relationship with.

Just because they’re independent doesn’t mean they don’t have feelings, douchebag….Stop being a useless asshole with nothing better to than sit in your dark room and waste your hate on harmless websites.

I’m assuming the reply to this (if you even have the nerve) will be “every girl assumes a guy is gay if they state their opinion.” Well I have your answer: Not True. But from your affirmative answer it sounds to me like you have relationship problems of your own. Hence why are you a man going onto a “I Hate Men” Site? You must have used the search engine for something…maybe someone is disliking you now? who knows.

Yes, I was venting - and a typical man would say “rambling,” but it got your attention didn’t it. I will agree with you, at 21 I have seen a lot of guys that just try to get into girls pants. And to your “clingyness” excerpt that you factored into my post is somewhat untrue at least for me. I go out frequently and have a good time with my friends. So if you were hoping I was some clingy, needy, whiny woman — very wrong, but I would hope that a guy I was in a relationship would want to be with me not just for the sex. If you think that’s something wrong to want than you have your own issues and are whining to me.

“Anonymous” I’ll be waiting for your reply if you are manly enough.

Let me tell you some

The world is a harsh, cold place. You need to be strong to make it on your own. Healthy men understand this concept. We are independent, we take care of ourselves. We don’t rely on welfare, spouses, parents, etc. for handouts. We take care of ourselves and we live our own lives.

Then this woman went on to ramble about not wanting to hurt anyone’s feelings, but not wanting anyone to take her friendship for granted. I have no idea how someone could possibly write that. Men don’t want a woman’s friendship. Men want sex. We want a lot of it and we don’t want to cuddle afterwards. We desire to spread our seed to keep the world populated. We don’t want to be friends with people who want to latch onto us. Friendship is supposed to be mutualistic. I have a mutualistic friendship with the people I drink beer with and watch football with. We enjoy something but we don’t rely on each other to do it. If women would be cool and watch football, drink beer, and back me up in a fight (and actually have the ability to back me up in a fight) along with not whine about emotions or demand I talk to them all the time, hell the world would be awesome.

Unfortunately women desire things that are not only unfun, but are also unproductive. If they expect me to be a part of it, they better start picking up the check at the dinner table and asking me for sex after the date. They get too much. Fill out a draft card ladies, then complain about 25 cent paycheck difference. I’m tired of the stupidity.

Men can be Jealous Idiots and can’t just let things rest. I made sure to point out the faults to the point that a restraining order was requested for stalking and raw fear of what I might do. In my mind, I was thinking “If it’s drama you want, check this out”.

To make a long story short, my previous relationship has now been over for a year and wow would I love to have some company within life. The bad part is that a year hasn’t even scratched the anger that I still possess. How could I ever keep from letting my damaged feelings pop up the first time something similar happens to my previous relation. I often wonder what the triggers could possibly be, maybe even a kiss. How long will the damages caused by trying to hold onto a relationship that was doomed affect future relations? What about the fear of love and caring being turned on you as a weapon. I can’t think of a single thing that hurts more than someone you love and care for turning against you in an all-out offense. I was hit at 30 MPH on a bicycle and spent many days in the hospital/rehab and that was like having a pimple compared to the damages I felt from my ex. This is the worst part, I didn’t just stand there and take it, I delt it right back. Talk about inviting more of it. I now look at the outcome. I am single and looking with hose/land/car/investments and the ex is homeless trying to dodge arrest for drugs.
I posted on plentyoffish.com and pretty much spelled out in the comments about myself that I am a destroyed man that still wants love…any suckers out there. I doubt this will be posted, but quite often there is a sword with a sharp edge on the front and back.