A week or more later, it’s all over?

When the storm is over and the sea is calm, it's like there was never a storm. You forget how much the lightning scared you or how the thunder made you cower in the corner. It's the same with an argument with "the man." It's like it ...

Relationship Advice…from who?

No matter where we turn it always seems like someone is trying to give relationship advice, from friends, to mom to ex's that we have kept as friends...but now 9 years old are giving relationship advice. Alec Greven, a nine year old from Colorado, is the author of How To Talk ...

Valentine Tips from Greg Behrendt

Don't pick at your partner, play nice Sometimes your insecurities can ruin a perfectly good relationship, be confidant in your skin Amp up the romance, fun fighting...playing nice Show an interest in each others hobbies Have no fear, compromising is key Does perfume say i love you?  Remember, try not to change your partner, love ...

What we do for the ones we love…

When we think of the ones we love, we often thing of our partner, or our family, but what about "man's best friend".  While some of us have the privilege of having children to call our own, other find love and companionship with a pet.  So when our loving companion ...

How Many Chances Can You Get At Love?

I have been driving myself crazy the last couple weeks, so I finally did something about it. I got up the nerve to tell him ????????exactly how I feel, and what is bothering me. We went from being together, to not being together and just friends, ...

Can I Forgive Him?

Continued from Why did he lie? So he calls me the next day...I thought twice about answering, but I did really want to see him again to talk to him about why he lied. I listened to him talk on the phone, but I didn't say a lot back...I was ...

Defining and Sustaining a Relationship?

The Eskimo have hundreds of words for snow, and we've invented three times that many words for relationships, but the more words we invent the harder it becomes to define. In a world where you can date without sex, screw without dating, and in the end keep most of ...

He Owes It All To Our Ex-Boyfriends

Taking Time To Heal After A Relationship

As I sit and watch Sex and the City, Carrie proposes an odd analogy, "I got to thinking about relationships and partial lobotomies. Two seemingly different ideas that might just be perfect together - like chocolate and peanut butter." So, I got to thinking about relationships and partial lobotomies...as with victims ...

Eliot Spitzer – Spotlights Stupid Men In The News

I have decided to start a new category on I Hate Men...most appropriately called "Stupid Men in the News". I have decided to create this new category after reading of the abashed Governor Spitzer who apparently dropped up to $80,000 on sex with prostitutes. He is a married, 48 year ...

Hard To Hate Men On Valentine’s Day

As I sit and stare at my computer screen, I am completely stumped about what to write on ihatemen.org today.  As I look to my right, I see a dozen beautiful roses and a fun Valentine's Day card...it is hard to hate men on Valentine's Day.  Actually, the man that ...

DTV Romancin…Disney Take A Shot At Explaining Love

Valentine's Day is closely approaching, and I am sure each one of us has our own feeling about this holiday that is considered the "most romantic" day of the year. Maybe you hate Valentine's day, hate men, or hate everyone... Regardless, I'm sure this was not the case when you were a ...