What’s the alternative to constant heartbreak?
I've just had my heart smashed again. I'm mid-twenties, attractive, smart & educated, social, and I do attract men. Yet for the past four and a half years, every "relationship" has lasted either a night or a month or two. Most recently, I started hanging out with this cool local bartender. ...
Last On His List of Importance
I am so sick of coming in dead last on my boyfriend's list of important people...truthfully, I wonder if I even make the list most days. Today is a good example. I spent this morning crawling around under my house in weather that was 4 BELOW zero replacing the electric heater ...
Should I keep this going??
I met this guy about 4 months ago. He's very charming, he is 34y/o and is 10 yrs older than me. He makes me feel really special and is great to me...BUT I goggled him one day...(I know) and all these blogs were saying that he used to be a ...
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September 14, 2009 | paulie.supakit
Former boyfriend/best friend, just GONE
I've been friends with this guy for 4.5 years. For the past 1.5 years we have been BEST friends. We became super close best friends, then went through a very short time of dating (like 2 months or less). I realized I wasn't attracted to him in that way at ...
How Many Chances Can You Get At Love?
I have been driving myself crazy the last couple weeks, so I finally did something about it. I got up the nerve to tell him ????????exactly how I feel, and what is bothering me. We went from being together, to not being together and just friends, ...
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May 20, 2008 | a better woman
Can I Forgive Him?
Continued from Why did he lie? So he calls me the next day...I thought twice about answering, but I did really want to see him again to talk to him about why he lied. I listened to him talk on the phone, but I didn't say a lot back...I was ...
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May 16, 2008 | a better woman
Rebounds & Hookups Create Drama and Confusion
Hi everyone! So I have come to the conclusion that boys - not men make life confusing. I broke up with my ex a couple months ago. We had been together for many years and were close to becoming engaged; anyways we grew apart and it was definitely ...
Why Lie…What is the Reason for Lying?
So my guy friend and I are laying on my couch watching a movie, and we end up falling asleep. His phone starts ringing at 1:30am...no one ever calls him that late. He woke up and answered it, and I woke up too. I was able to ...
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April 24, 2008 | a better woman
Why Do I Feel Like This?
I can't understand why I'm lying here crying...why can't I just tell him how I feel, why am I so scared? Is it because it is so real? I've done it again, I placed someone of a pedestal and I'm not sure it is where they belong. I need ...
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April 21, 2008 | a better woman
Defining and Sustaining a Relationship?
The Eskimo have hundreds of words for snow, and we've invented three times that many words for relationships, but the more words we invent the harder it becomes to define. In a world where you can date without sex, screw without dating, and in the end keep most of ...
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April 15, 2008 | a better woman
What is the difference between “dating” and “boyfriend/girlfriend”?
What is the difference between "dating" and "boyfriend/girlfriend"? As adults, it is so difficult to transition from one to the other. Personally, I think the term "boyfriend/girlfriend" can be kinda highschoolish. So, is there really is a difference? I guess for me it comes down to exclusiveness. If neither ...
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February 29, 2008 | a better woman
Heartbreak of the Cold Hearted
I received this e-mail from a visitor on my site... They all think I’m a pretty face without a heart. No matter what I do my heart gets yanked out, stepped on and thrown to the wolves. Today I vowed never to ever date another man again. Yes, it means I’ve ...
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January 31, 2008 | a better woman
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