I am so sick and tired of men who operate solely on their own terms, despite being in a RELATIONSHIP. This guy I’ve been seeing for the past six months started off pretty cool. He called everyday and texted everyday just to check in and see how I was doing.

Now he goes on these “phones off” periods where he turns off his cell phone, home phone and computer and sits at home and drinks. I don’t have a problem with it, except that he should let me know ahead of time so that I won’t think he’s ignoring me.

He’s now starting to let me know ahead of time. However, this past Friday, I was supposed to come over to spend some time with him. I had a previous engagement, but told him I would come over after I was finished. I called him as I was leaving my function. I called him cell phone and home phone with no response.

I decided to pick up something to eat, while still driving, and waiting on him to call. Even after I picked up food, he didn’t call.

I’d had a long day and was very tired. Since I didn’t hear back from him I went home. Once I got home, I pretty much crashed. He texted me some forty minutes later saying he was downstairs working out.

I woke up to the text but back asleep. I knew as I was driving that if I went home, I would pretty much be in for the night due to how tired I was.

I woke up about 4 am and saw that he texted me again at 1 am saying “I guess you’re not coming over or else you would have been here by now.”

I texted him back and said that I’d called him twice with no response and that I was very tired and went to sleep.

Saturday morning (getting ready for another engagement), I called him and got voicemail immediately (meaning phones off). I left him a message saying that maybe we could do something today, but I was very tired last night and tried my best to contact him before I went home, but with no success.

At my function I texted him “What are you doing?”, as we both often do. He didn’t respond to either. He still has not responded. This is so stupid.

You wanted to me to come over, but since I didn’t, you shut me down completely? How stupid is that? What kind of man are you that if a woman doesn’t do what you want, when you want it, you just disappear.

I know he’s going to contact me sooner or later and act surprised at my indifference to him (as he’s done in the past), asking “Why are you upset?”

Why? Because you’re a selfish, inconsiderate, butthole of a man. When you’re in a relationship, it’s not just about you. You have to consider the other person. I’m sick of it.

This post was submitted by SickNTired.