so im super annoyed with my boyfriend right now because he is such a fucking man. hes not the romantic type of guy, hes more of the funny kind of guy and hes always busy with school and work and we hardly spend time together these days. i dont mind because i am also in school and trying to lose weight before bikini season. but one thing thats really bothering me is the fact that valentines day is right around the corner and i know that i cannot expect anything from him. one, because he gets paid after valentines day, two, because he will probably have to work that day, and three, because i havent mentioned anything at all about what i want or anything like that. okay, im not saying i want a freakin bouquet or roses and chocolates and jewlery or anything but like, especially bc we havent spent a lot of time together, i would think that he wants to do something special,like, make me dinner? buy me dinner? write me a poem? a letter? SOMETHING to make me feel special. but no, i cant expect that from him bc he has a history of letting me down. for our 1 yr anniversary, the only thing, the ONE thing i asked for,(3 months in advance) was a letter from him. a letter saying how he feels about me, about us, just write. i wrote him a 3 page letter, which i condensed to 1 pg because i didnt want him to think i exagerated… i didnt get anything. he said he forgot, it slipped his mind, blah blah blah. to be honest, i was so hurt, i honestly didnt think it was so much to ask for. he made it up to me by taking me to olive garden,, but like what the fuck. he could have saved his 60 bucks and written me the letter. im seriously just hurt and angry about the fact that i cant rely on him. its not about materialistic stuff, its not about him spending money on me, its about him making me feel appreciated, and special and loved. if i had the fuckin money i would take him out on dates all the time. like, why cant he do that for me? I feel like a dusty ass diamond.

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So I’ve always had this issue ever since I was a little girl with the inequalities amoungst women and men. Once I took Sociology in my freshman year of college, my hate for men increased by a longshot. The funny thing is, I have a boyfriend, and I love him very much. But after realizing all the little things he does that signify things beyond simple acts, we cant stop arguing and fighting about the littlest things because i am such a feminist. First off, my problem is that men get to intiate and terminate sex. Thats complete bullshit. We cant have sex if his penis isnt erect, and we cant continue once he blows. Thats bullshit, thank god for my dildo. Second, women are so concerned about others for example their man. I can go to the store and buy something for myself but ill call my man to ask if he needs anything. Would he do that for me? Hell no. If its not food for me to cook for him, hes not interested and thats so unfair. I give so much of myself out of kindess and dont get half of that in return. Third, this double standard thing drives me fucking nuts. The fact that men who sleep with a whole bunch of women are praised, yet women who are just as premiscuous as those men are looked down upon. People always say “oh its because a key that opens a whole buncha locks is the master key, and a lock that opens to a bunch of keys is a shitty lock” Well that may hold true for OBJECTS. Why does that have to apply to human beings? What the fuck is that? And another thing. Im not saying teen girls should be having sex, but why should a teen girl of appropriate age be looked down upon for acting on her urges to have sex and a teen boy is seen as freakin king of highschool? why do we encourage young boys sex is a good thing, and sex is dirty and a guilty thing for girls do to. Thats BULLSHIT.
Thats all for now, im already pissed. ♥

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