Why do guys always treat me like crap? Honestly. I’m a nice, pretty, smart woman but every relationship that I have been in I just get hurt in the end. Whether it’s being cheated on or just disrespected and unloved.

I liked this guy for like 8 months and we were really good friends and after a little while I came clean and told him how I felt and flat out said it’s ok if you don’t feel the same, I don’t expect anything from this I just felt that I should let you know because I’m not the kind of person that just sits around twirling my hair wondering how it could be. He responded weirdly: too soon sorry. When I asked him about it he said that he really liked me back but he had just broken up with his girlfriend and didn’t want me to be a rebound. I accepted it and thought he was a great guy for doing that and 2 months later he asked me out. We went out for about 2 months and then he just called me up and said that he just sees me as a friend and never really had feelings for me. And when I asked him why he even asked me out if he didn’t have feelings he said that he just thought he should go for it. When I told him that he shouldn’t have even asked me out then he responded with I know I’ve learned my lesson now. Glad I could have been a teacher to him. If you don’t truly have feelings for someone you shouldn’t kiss them first, ask them out and ask them to be your girlfriend. He made all the first moves and didn’t feel anything for me and then just dragged me along all this time only to leave me crushed and heartbroken… again. And what confuses me is that his actions and what he said and the way he made me feel was anything but “friendly”. Once again I have been treated like crap. Why does this keep happening to me? I don’t deserve this!

This post was submitted by Krystina B.