So I ended a (2 year) relationship, but I still stay in touch with my ex. We hooked up and would hang out from time to time. I always believed we would be together forever, even after we broke up, I thought we would get back together. He used to tell me he loved me, and told me (even after we broke up) I was the one…and I felt the same way about him. A few weeks after we slept together, he proposes to another female. I found out about his marriage through pictures on facebook, he didnt even tell me. When I confronted him about it, he kept saying its not what I think. Supposedly he marries this woman because she needed citizenship (I don’t believe him, cause I’m not retarded). So I end it, and walk away from him. A year and a half goes by, and I don’t talk to anybody. Not because I don’t want to, I just have bad luck with men. Until I meet this other guy.

We start off real casual. And I thought he was really cool because he approached me, and sought after me. He did some really sweet things, like drove out to see me for like 5 minutes. I thought we had chemistry, so we slept together and he expressed he liked me and wanted to see where this would go. And I was really convinced he was the breath of fresh air I needed….but he wasnt. He only texted me, and would never call. A month of knowning each other, and we never went on a date or had a phone conversation. We would set up dates and he would just flake out…but keep hitting me up through texts as if nothing happend….I don’t understand his motive….what do you think?? I’m trying not to let my heartbreak with my ex affect my decisions on how to deal with this guy, but I’m not a fool. I don’t wanna be played.

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