[23/f] my SO [25/m] wants sex all the time. This used to be fine, but recently he hasn’t really been taking care of himself and it turns me off.
He will come home from work with messy greasy hair, kinda sweaty and just disheveled looking in general. I love him to death and I don't want him to think I find him unattractive. But I just wish he would care more about his appearance. I feel like I always try to be pretty for him and he just rolls out of bed. This morning we messed around but I couldn't stand his breath and got completely turned off. I feel like if I say something it will hurt his feelings and that's the last thing I want to do.
submitted by kdxsuper
Tags: relationship advice
if he really likes you then tell him what you find unpleasant or how you’d like him to better himself. he should understand but remember that there may be things he’d like you to change as well.
When he gets home from work like that..walk across the room and casually mention that you left a fresh towel out for him.. does he want something to eat/drink before his shower or after. That might give him a big enough hint. If he fails to pick up on it after a few times.. there may be something deeper going on. Is he depressed?
Have a glass of something to drink next to the bed. (on his side)