[22/m] My girlfriend (23/f) has dropped a healthy amount of weight and it’s bothering me.
Guys, I am head over heels for this woman.
When we first met she was 180lbs at 5'11. This sounds like she would be big but because of her body type and height, it actually suited her very very well. Also, she has always been athletic. She runs and strength trains but has maintained her weight (ranging from 175 to 185) and stamina.
She's always had a little bit of a tummy, a large ass and thick thighs (not just meaty/fat thighs, they're incredibly muscular) and in general was a bit thick, but not chubby or fat.
Our sex is fantastic. I was always hesitant about being in a relationship with someone who was a little bit bigger. I had terrible misconceptions and I was very shallow. She is so sexy and amazing in bed. I love how her body moves and I just adore her large backside and wide hips.
She was also incredibly confident, which made me feel more comfortable with it whenever I was hesitant. She knows she's sexy as hell and can do anything.
She decided to take up a new diet and drop weight. She's down to 150 now and I do not like it. I know I must sound crazy because her body is very conventionally beautiful and pretty toned. She has a flat tummy now and her thighs have thinned a lot. I hate it.
She's a fantastic woman, she has a great personality and I just fell in love with her body after thinking I hated it. Like I said before, no matter how big or how little she is, she keeps her confidence. It's an amazing quality of hers.
But I miss her body the way it was. I miss her curves. The sex isn't what it used to be, exactly. The way her body was just added something to the experience tenfold.
She's often reminisced about going back to how she was but she also boasts about her new body and how she feels even more confident. I'm afraid to say anything about it. I'm afraid of pressuring her into being something she's not really okay with.
Can anyone help suggest what I should do? I miss the way her body used to be. 
*oops, forgot this:
tl;dr: My girlfriend was thick and sexy but she's dropped weight and I don't like it. I don't want to risk offending her or pressure her into change. What do?
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If she isn’t so horrible looking now that your physical attraction has vanished then it is very self centred to expect her to change her body back just because “she was hotter before”. She is clearly much more confident than she used to be and I think you should be proud of her instead of making a mountain out of a mole hill and making your view of her more important than her view of herself. Gain some perspective.
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