Hating school right now
In school, after gym class I found out someone stole my bra, so I just go to my next class and I see a group of guys that I don’t even know throwing my bra around “playing” with it like WTF?? so I ask them to give it back and they don’t instead they push me into the middle and start touching me, and my teacher is in the front of the classroom and he doesn’t say anything. It’s just me the group of guys and my teacher in the classroom. Then I go up to my teacher and tell him what happened and he takes my bra from them and puts it in his desk and says “problem solved” he never gave my bra back!! Then he starts to tell me how its my fault that all this happened and he says I shouldn’t leave my clothes lying around, he didn’t say anything to those guys he just let them go and he twisted everything and put the blame on me. Then after class I thought he would give my bra back but he still doesn’t and he keeps it, he’s such a fucking pedo!!
I can’t even go to school without dealing with issues, after this I didn’t feel like going to school for the past week!! and my teacher kept creeping me out, he starts to flirt. First he puts the blame on me then he acts like this and starts to flirt?? whats wrong with him?? why is he so effed up?? I wish I could switch out of this class.
Hate school!! Hate this society!!
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Go to your school counselor or Principle ….. now.
Explain what has happened and ask why your teacher hasnt returned your bra. This is your property and it was taken from you.. there is NO earthly reason it should not be returned.
How old are you? You should definitely complain. They cant just take your stuff like that.
Put everything in writing. Make a copy and keep one for your records.
i am SO sorry this happened to you! If you can, please tell your parents because I know if I had told my mom about that, she would’ve been up at that school ready to fight. That is unacceptable for both those students and the teacher for allowing that to happen.
And, as shazz said, at the very least, tell the counselor or principle. Don’t be afraid that they’ll take his side. The bra is in his desk still, so that’s proof. If it’s gone, that means he’s got even more explaining to do, and should be terminated.
There are some pretty cold people in this Godforsaken world! God! If people were less coldhearted, this website wouldn’t even have to exist.
>>Put everything in writing. Make a copy and keep one for your records.
Agreed… its important to have it all in writing. Exactly as it happened.
Hello, first time posting. And I am posting because I also want to say that you need to tell someone about this, and that I am really sorry to hear that this happened to you.
Thanks for your help I’ll try to fix this monday morning. =)
The bra isn’t even my main concern; the teacher flirting with you is. Report both things, as well as the inappropriate groping from the boys. And yes men usually twist things around on us to make it seem like its our fault, just so they can get away with doing what they want. I wish they still had all girls schools with only female teachers, it sounds like girls like you would really enjoy that.
Where in the nine hells are you living? Here someone would have called the police, and the teacher would be allready without a job, and the guys expelled.
I would suggest going to the media, the police, and the principal, in this order.
I live in Canada, and problems like this happen everywhere, in any country, all the time, very few problems actually get to the police cause usually most people will accuse you of the problem. It’s not easy to report to the police and people can just put it against you.
Anyway I went today to talk to my principle, but it didn’t help. Okay so long story short I found the principle and I told him what happened last week, then he called my teacher and me to his office, and the whole time my teacher denied it and said I’m lying,looking for atention. My principle kept taking my teachers side and said hes been working here for years and hes a very good guy, then my principle said the only way he can believe it is if theres proof, so we went to go check if the bra was there but it was gone!! so my principle took my teachers side and said I was lying and I shouldn’t look for attention this way, then he just ended it right there. Then when we were leaving my teahcer gave me this really dirty look like he was about to kill me, so I asked my principle if I could atleast switch my class and he let me, so now I don’t have to deal with this teacher anymore since I’m in another class.
My teacher got away with it, I give up, he probably knew he was going to get support. I don’t want to bring in the media or police I finally just got adopted by a nice family last year, finally started school, I don’t want to start a problem for them. I’ll just let it go and continue with school and stay away from that guy. I honestly don’t care anymore, this world is cruel, I give up. =(
I’ve been through a similar situation, and got the same outcome.
When I was 16-18, I lived with my older cousin and her boyfriend(33-35 years old). He tried to have sex with me 3 times. He actually whipped ‘it’ out and rubbed it on my ass…I told my cousin and of course he denied it and she took his side, saying “If you had been a normal 16/17 year old girl, none of this would’ve happened”. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 18 to my first boyfriend so wtf.
Also, he flirted with me right in front of her. We were outside playing softball, and he kept aiming and hitting my ass with the ball then saying “o I’m sorry that was a mistake”…and she saw it!
Not only that, he was more attracted to her MOM than her!. But, you know what she did? She kicked ME (and my cat) out on my last day of high school and married him (after like 7 years) a month later. A year later she had another baby. She begged him to marry her and said another (they already have 2, 1 from him) baby would bring them closer together. I hate women like that.
I would’ve suggested to you (and me if I’d thought of it 6 years ago) talk to him about it while your cell phone is recording, but you probably, like me, don’t care anymore. It’ll get better with time. Remember karma’s a b*%$#
@star_180 If you’re in Canada, but isn’t that country supposed to be less prejudice than here in America? Last i checked, Canada had less racism, though, but unfortunately, the sexism stays, no matter where you go? Or am I wrong about the “less racism” thing?
@star_180: your principal could have atleast questioned a couple of other girls in the classroom to see if there was any validity to your story. I understand your principal would side with the teacher, one complaint without any evidence isn’t exactly the best thing to fire someone over. What you can do is talk to the other girls who have or had this teacher and see if there were similar incidents. students don’t hold a lot of credibility, especially if there is only one claim, but if there are multiple complaints about one teacher, action will be taken.
Also, there are still all girl schools in Canada.
@ cutiepie wow thats crazy,I guess that shows you can’t trust anyone, and that cellphone thing is a good idea but I switched out so I don’t see him at all and honestly I’m too scared to go near him, I give up, I decided to just focus on school and just stay away from people like him, and yeah hopefully karma gets back at him lol
@wilson yeah they say that but it’s the same, no different, the racism is the same so is the sexism, but bad people can be found anywhere, anytime, I think it was just my luck that I ended up with this crazy teacher =/
@tony yeah I know my principle didn’t take it seriously, and I asked other girls that had this teacher but no one said anything, maybe they also had problems but they won’t say it, they just said hes sort of creepy and seems dirty but thats all so I dunno, I was thinking about all girls schools but then eventually I have to deal with guys so I might as well learn now and not avoid them
Anyway I switched out and I haven’t seen him at all, that look he gave me still creeps me out so I’m still sort of scared to go to school but I’m done with it, problems happen all the time, nothing new, I’m just going to focus on school and try not to think about it, thanks for your help everyone!! =)