I wish women would give me a chance
I had to make another thread just so share these:
https://twitter.com/expsnghghtsm
https://twitter.com/heightismwatch
Women might not be so straight forward in real life. They just call you creepy or cute. Not cute as in hot, but more like puppy cute. And they wont even notice you, unless you’re sitting down and they can’t tell you’re short. Those comments hurt me a lot. ;_; Imagine if men had standards like women. And demanded girl to have at least a C-cup in breast size. And saying girls with B-cups are evil and sub human monsters.
All I wanted was a chance. Girls do like me, I am genuine. I don’t lie. I am nice. I am Mr Perfect. But they only want tall men.
This post was submitted by R2D2.
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I didn’t read your post because you are short and creepy.
>>They just call you creepy or cute. Not cute as in hot, but more like puppy cute.
Ok.. again I have to ask how old are you. You havent answered my previous requests.
Mind you, I could understand if you are talking about 15/16 yr old girls..
“Imagine if men had standards like women. And demanded girl to have at least a C-cup in breast size. And saying girls with B-cups are evil and sub human monsters.”
Actually a lot of guys do demand things like that.
Anyways, you’ve gotta stop feeding yourself with negative stuff like that. It’s just going to make you feel worse. Look up some good things about short guys.
Here are some good comments I found about short guys on another website. I would give you the link, but I wouldn’t want you to pay attention to the negative “woe-is-me” comments that may be there.
-”Tom Cruise is better than those tall jerks. Short guys rule!”
-”I’m a 5’10 woman, and I’m completely attracted to short guys. Height has never been an issue for me. Most of the guys I’ve liked were shorter than me. I think that may be my preference. Height’s only a problem if you make it a problem.”
-”I dont think that height should be a problem for people.I have made the most of my lack of height and made up for it in different ways.Okay it took me longer to find the right person but it is no problem now.I have been married for 25 years now and i appreciate my height i may only be 5’0 and my wife is 5’4…”
-” A few of my close friends are in relationships with shorter men. I don’t see anything wrong with this. If you love someone, you see past their “flaws” – if you want to call it that.”
-”I dont know what the problem is with women not wanting to date a short man.I have been married for 30 years now and my husband is 5’2 and i am 5’7…”
Blaze-I’m so glad you posted that. I wonder if r2d2 will stop complaining now.
*sets violin down
I doubt it, he seems to use the site moslty in write only mode.
I had sex with my short neighbor lastnight. I’m 5’4 he’s like 5’6. He’s very talented if u know what I mean! Maybe you should improve your bedroom skills if you haven’t already…
Your paying customers don`t count.
Are we just going to ignore btm1′s hilarious 1 liner?
Do some girls not like dating guys that are short? Absolutely. Everyone has preferences in what they prefer. I’m 5-6 and I honestly never had a girl not date me because of my height. A lot of the time, even if they dislike me being short, they like my personality and our chemistry they don’t really care.
Ideally I like girls that are shorter than me. But I usually end up w/ a girl as tall as me and sometimes a bit taller.
But you need a reality check. You really think that you are this perfect complete package outside of your height? Come`on. Girls aren’t something you just fill the guidelines and based on how you fit the guidelines they’ll love you. Its not just about being nice and honest. I’d even argue what some may consider my faults makes me more desirable for some. I’m a bit socially awkward and shy but I joke around and some respond to my awkward charm. If you are this perfectly nice honest never doing anything wrong you likely are predictable and boring. Don’t just blame it on something you can’t control. They might not like your personality and find you predictable, boring, or just way to insecure. I was friends w/ a girl that wanted a relationship but she was way to insecure about everything and it was to the point it was a deal breaker. Girls that give the you’re to nice or any dumb excuse like that is just trying to soften the blow and won’t tell you the harsh reality.
Humans have preferences for what they want. I don’t think either sex is worse than the other and most people will constantly change those preferences.
Hi genius, If you didn’t get that, the first liner I posted was my way of saying to r2d2; “Your post is full of shit”, but it was also a way of giving him exactly what he wanted, not to prove him right, but to make him even more insecure.
Sounds mean? Well, ignoring the fact that women have had every single square centimeter of their body criticized and discussed over and over again, a discussing that usually ends up in “how women could and SHOULD improve the way they look”, is even worse.
I wouldn’t have written any of that if it wasn’t for the “Imagine if men had standards like women. And demanded girl to have at least a C-cup in breast size”.
Dumb shit.
Waaaaaah, Waaaaaah, waaaaaah. How many times are you going to make this boring, lame rant about how you can’t find a woman? In addition to your short body, did it ever occur to you that you can’t find a woman because of your whiny, insecure personality? Maybe you should forget about women since you obviously can’t get one and be gay and go find a man. Women do like confidence in a man and apparently your lacking in that area as well.
@foxy: With all due respect… how is this any different to your own posts?
@btm1
don’t get too upset when people criticise your comments, yours was obviously not the most efficient in helping R2D2. A.N.F.’s wasn’t bad but i think blaze had the best advice. it just seems that you took the first possible chance you got to put him down, showing him that women like you shun men who are shorter than others. if you were to say his argument was over indulged then no one would argue with you.
What makes you think I wanted to help r2d2? That was my last intention. I thought I explained that clearly in my previous comment. I also mentioned the reason for not wanting to help him.
What upsets me is not having someone criticizing my comments, it’s the lack of understanding and empathy men in general have for women – even here.
Many of them seem to have some serious reading comprehension difficulties as well.
(And by lack of understanding and empathy I mean (in case you haven’t thought this through), men who visit a man-bashing site, share their insecurities or hatred towards women, expect women to feel sorry for them and agree with them while blaming women for what they’ve been through (some women-blaming arguments men have used, example: r2d2 and Invisible)).
“What makes you think I wanted to help r2d2? That was my last intention. I thought I explained that clearly in my previous comment. I also mentioned the reason for not wanting to help him.”
i never thought you were, just saying that your comment encourages confrontation, as does your last one. if that was your goal then you did ok i guess.
“What upsets me is not having someone criticizing my comments, it’s the lack of understanding and empathy men in general have for women – even here.”
you want understanding and empathy when you show the OP none….
“Many of them seem to have some serious reading comprehension difficulties as well.”
examples, please.
“men who visit a man-bashing site, share their insecurities or hatred towards women, expect women to feel sorry for them and agree with them while blaming women for what they’ve been through.”
i haven’t noticed a man on here saying “feel sorry for me and agree with me.” they do blame women for what they’ve been through though, just as women on here blame men for what they’ve been through.
Well look at this, we have another genius here!
“you want understanding and empathy when you show the OP none….”
I don’t where you got that from, I never wrote anything about ME related to understanding and empathy. I was talking about other women, since many of them did nothing wrong. I, on the other hand, know that my comments were provocative and might upset men.
Those who have reading comprehension difficulties includes you, muzolf (he has misunderstood my comments completely before, and so have you) and 50 cent. And yes, it’s only three men, why would I say “many of them have…”?
Now, from what I know, there are around six men who’ve been pretty active on this site. The other three are: r2d2, wilson and invisible. That gives us 3/6 men who have had trouble understanding my comments, 50% in this case, and to me, is a lot.
(None of them have complained about the way I try to explain, so I guess that that’s not the problem, the problem lies with them).
Example of “feel sorry for me”: Those comments hurt me a lot. ;_; Imagine if men had standards like women. And demanded girl to have at least a C-cup in breast size. And saying girls with B-cups are evil and sub human monsters.
“i haven’t noticed a man on here saying “feel sorry for me and agree with me.”
Well guess what, I haven’t seen any woman here blame men for what they’ve been through. We notice what we want.
An example of a situation where you COULD think that women have blamed men, is when short men have complained about womens demands, and got responses from women where they said: maybe it’s your personality. This could be considered blaming, but it doesn’t have to be.
When we’ve had women (girls), on the other hand, who state that they’ve been abused and raped, there were some men who said that it happened because those women were only after the best looking or bad guys.
1. Rape and abuse have nothing to do with some mans looks. Even short and/or ugly men rape and abuse.
2. Who are the “bad guys”?
Since that was a serious situation, and those men received some ridiculous and not thought-through responses, I consider that to be blaming, on a higher level.
And no, I won’t be digging any examples up since this was posted a long time ago.
Sorry forget the “Example of “feel sorry for me”: Those comments hurt me a lot. ;_; Imagine if men had standards like women. And demanded girl to have at least a C-cup in breast size. And saying girls with B-cups are evil and sub human monsters.”
I don’t how it got there.
genius? i’m surprised you think so highly of me.
“I don’t where you got that from, I never wrote anything about ME related to understanding and empathy.”
let me help you out then, what you “wrote” was “it’s the lack of understanding and empathy men in general have for women – even here.”. i just assumed you’re a woman and you hadn’t excluded yourself. so that’s where i got that from.
as for the “reading comprehension” thing, the only one i see having such extensive issues is you so i can’t help but think the problem lies within your dialogue. by the way 50 cent wasn’t here very long and i believe he’s been banned.
“Well guess what, I haven’t seen any woman here blame men for what they’ve been through. We notice what we want.”
fair enough but there are posts where women complain about what a man has put them through and in some of those situations the man should be blamed.
“When we’ve had women (girls), on the other hand, who state that they’ve been abused and raped, there were some men who said that it happened because those women were only after the best looking or bad guys.”
so you’re saying there are posts on here where a woman says she’s been raped and a man has replied with the comment “it happened because you were only after the best looking or bad guys.”? i don’t remember seeing that.
“2. Who are the “bad guys”?”
was that a serious question?
Shazz, with all due respect, are you a man? Because you sure as hell seem to be sticking up for these men a lot. I know this website is open to both men and women so I want to clear that up before you jump down my throat. All I’m saying is R2D2 is off-topic. If he wants to whine about not getting women he should go to a woman bashing website and whine. This website is for man bashing and that’s what I’m doing and I’m not doing anything any different than what all these other women on here are doing.
@foxy: No I am not a man. I am a mother and a grandmother. Im also the Admin.. responsible for allowing both sexes to have an equal say on this site.
>>This website is for man bashing
And thats where you are wrong. This site is not for ‘man bashing’…
Share your relationship experiences, worst date stories…even word of wisdom to others out there reading I HATE MEN.
@BTtm1
I called it a hilarious 1 liner because I thought it was clever and I understood it and thought it was funny. I said are we going to ignore it because no one else mentioned it and it was funny.
I didnt think it’d be such a controversial statement to give credit but apparently it is. I don’t see why I’d be insulting a comment mocking someone’s post, a post that had me tell the person that they need a reality check…
Well, lol I’m sorry. It seems like I misundersood your comment completely.