Men just stop!

Men, stop letting me get close to you only to snatch the rug from under me by saying that someone else makes you happier. Stop telling me we’re just friends. That makes me feel like shit because I lay here with no one to talk to while you’re somewhere being happy with somebody else. How is that fair to me? What do these other women got that I don’t? Men please tell me what the hell you want from me. I’m a good woman who deserve everything that these other women getting. That’s it! I refuse to give a man anything I have to give because apparently it’s not appreciated.

This post was submitted by iamworthy.

15 Responses to “Men just stop!”

  1. R2D2 says:

    You think you have it bad being a lonely girl? Imagine being a lonely man. A lonely man has no chance getting a girl cause he can be a sociopath. A lonely girl only needs to go out to a bar or something.

    You have this urge to have sex, women like sex too, but it is not an all consuming purpose. For instance, if they are perfect lookign they wont sleep with ugly men. Perfect tall dark and handsome men will sleep with ugly girls.”So

    So honey, don’t think you have it bad. You’re still a female. Easy mode in life.

  2. Muzolf says:

    Not helping R2D2!

    Especially since like she said, she want a lasting relationship, not a quick romp behind a dumpster in the alley next to some club.

    Thing is, that men are less picky when it comes to sex makes sense. For any male animal the only requirement would be that you have a working womb. (Your looks say you are a fertiloe female.)
    But when it comes to relationships, the whole, “being a self avare being” kicks in for a human male, standards go up, and for guys with lots of options, that means going trough the roof.

  3. KillThemAll says:

    ^ SHUT THE HELL UP.

    Are you kidding me? Woman have it more harder than anyone forever and ever.

    Do you know what is like to be second class? No you don’t. Your man. Shut up.

    That is bullshit about so called ” attractive ” people will always be able to get laid.

    Guess what? I’m really attractive and a lot of men won’t sleep with.

    Shut ur face. You know nothing and never will.

  4. Tony says:

    R2D2 – Maybe the reason girls don’t want you is because you’re annoying. I mean, really, this girl is complaining about her problems about not being able to be happy with the guys in her life and all you have to say is that men have it worse because they have a lower chance of getting laid than she does. What does that even have to do with anything?

    You seem to be rather sex focused, so let me try to explain something to you, this might sound crazy but not everyone wants to just have sex. Don’t get me wrong, these people still want sex, most of them do anyway, but they want that sex to be with someone that their in a relationship with, someone that they care about and cares about them, someone they trust and feel comfortable around, not just some random fucker at a bar.

    This girl doesn’t want a one night stand with any random person, she wants companionship with someone she cares about and she doesn’t seem able to get that.

    Also, since you seem convinced that you’re not getting girls because you’re unattractive physically, I should probably tell you that I’m a pretty good looking guy and I don’t have much luck with the ladies. You might want to consider that it’s your personality that girls have a problem with.

  5. Muzolf says:

    “Are you fucking kidding me? Woman have it more harder than anyone forever and ever. ”

    Sure, they had it soo bad, they had to stay at the home with kids while their husband were send down a mine/constripted and sent to the front/out to toil in the burning sun. But women had it soo bad. They had it worst then everyone else, even girls of nobility, who had it worst them say, males slaves. Especially them!

    “Do you know what is like to be second class? No you don’t. Your man.”
    You neither, your a western woman. Other then your own delusions, you are as far away from being second class as possible.
    “Shut up.”
    No

    “Guess what? I’m really attractive and a lot of men won’t sleep with. ”
    I wonder why, and thank you for revealing what your actual problem with men is. :)

  6. wilson says:

    @KillThemAll In some ways, women have it harder than men. In some ways, women have it easier, too. Same goes for men. It all depends on your individual character.

  7. cutiepie says:

    iamworthy-I understand you. I’ve been single 3.5 years because I have yet to find a guy who can get past “you’re sexy”. I want a relationship, not a booty call. Big difference.

    Tony-I’ve said that many times, but it never got through. I’ve resorted to playing a violin when he posts.

    Muzolf- I get what you’re saying, but you don’t understand the woman’s perspective. It’s not every woman’s dream to stay home and cook and clean. Many times, the man is considered superior to the woman, and she has no say in anything. Sure, he works long hours, then you find out that he wasn’t always “working”, if you know what I mean. They were slapped around, and calling the cops would do nothing. If her husband rapes her, it doesn’t count because they’re married. She has labor pains (pregnancy) and he tells her it’s not that bad, or cheats while she’s pregnant.

    I’m not discounting what men have contributed to the world, I’m saying I think it’s wrong to down play what someone else has gone through.

  8. cutiepie says:

    Muzolf- I like your 1st post though lol

    *plays violin for R2D2

  9. wilson says:

    Song: Grenade (2010)
    Artist: Bruno Mars
    Album: Doo-Wop and Hooligans

    [Verse 1]
    Easy come, easy go,
    That’s just how you live, oh,
    Take, take, take it all,
    But you never give.
    Should’ve known you was trouble
    From the first kiss,
    Had your eyes wide open.
    Why were they open?

    [Bridge]
    Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash,
    You tossed it in the trash, you did.
    To give me all your love is all I ever asked, ’cause
    What you don’t understand is

    [Chorus]
    I’d catch a grenade for ya (yeah, yeah)
    Throw my hand on a blade for ya (yeah, yeah)
    I’d jump in front of a train for ya (yeah, yeah)
    You know I’d do anything for ya (yeah, yeah)
    Oh, oh, I would go through all of this pain,
    Take a bullet straight through my brain!
    Yes, I would die for ya, baby,
    But you won’t do the same.

    No, no no

    [Verse 2]
    Black, black, black and blue, beat me ’til I’m numb,
    Tell the devil I said “hey” when you get back to where you’re from.
    Mad woman, bad woman, that’s just what you are,
    Yeah, you’ll smile in my face then rip the brakes out my car

    [Bridge]
    Gave you all I had and you tossed it in the trash,
    You tossed it in the trash, yes you did.
    To give me all your love is all I ever asked, ’cause
    What you don’t understand is

    [Chorus]
    I’d catch a grenade for ya (yeah, yeah)
    Throw my hand on a blade for ya (yeah, yeah)
    I’d jump in front of a train for ya (yeah, yeah)
    You know I’d do anything for ya (yeah, yeah)
    Oh, oh, I would go through all of this pain,
    Take a bullet straight through my brain!
    Yes, I would die for ya, baby,
    But you won’t do the same.

    [Verse 3]
    If my body was on fire,
    Ooh, you’d watch me burn down in flames.
    You said you loved me, you’re a liar, ’cause you never, ever, EVER did, baby!
    But, darling

    [Chorus]
    I’d still catch a grenade for ya (yeah, yeah)
    Throw my hand on a blade for ya (yeah, yeah)
    I’d jump in front of a train for ya (yeah, yeah)
    You know I’d do anything for ya (yeah, yeah)
    Oh, oh, I would go through all of this pain,
    Take a bullet straight through my brain!
    Yes, I would die for ya, baby,
    But you won’t do the same.

    [Outro]
    No, you won’t do the same
    You wouldn’t do the same
    Ooh, you’d never do the same
    Ohh, no no no

  10. wilson says:

    This is to all you ladies out there….

    Song: Beautiful (2002)
    Artist: Christina Aguilera
    Album: Stripped

    Spoken:
    Don’t look at me

    Every day is so wonderful
    And suddenly, i saw debris
    Now and then, I get insecure
    From all the pain, I’m so ashamed

    I am beautiful no matter what they say
    Words can’t bring me down
    I am beautiful in every single way
    Yes, words can’t bring me down
    So don’t you bring me down today

    To all your friends, you’re delirious
    So consumed in all your doom
    Trying hard to fill the emptiness
    The piece is gone left the puzzle undone
    That’s the way it is

    You are beautiful no matter what they say
    Words can’t bring you down
    You are beautiful in every single way
    Yes, words can’t bring you down
    Don’t you bring me down today…

    No matter what we do
    (no matter what we do)
    No matter what they say
    (no matter what they say)
    When the sun is shining through
    Then the clouds won’t stay

    And everywhere we go
    (everywhere we go)
    The sun won’t always shine
    (sun won’t always shine)
    But tomorrow will find a way
    All the other times

    ’cause we are beautiful no matter what they say
    Yes, words won’t bring us down, oh no
    We are beautiful in every single way
    Yes, words can’t bring us down
    Don’t you bring me down today

    Don’t you bring me down today
    Don’t you bring me down today

  11. Tony says:

    cutiepie – I like to imagine that you actually start playing the violin whenever you read a post by R2D2, if you do not do this then I am severely disappointed.

  12. KillThemAll says:

    Why are you on any of this site? Did you read the title of it? Was mommy not nice to and now you like coming on here to remind you of it?

  13. shazz says:

    @KillThemAll: (Just in case you missed this)

    I hatemen.org does not discriminate, and is open to post from men and women.   Share your relationship experiences,  worst date stories…even word of wisdom to others out there reading I HATE MEN.

  14. btm1 says:

    Tony I actually liked your first comment. That was the only good comment posted here by a man.

  15. Tony says:

    btm1 – Thank you, but to be fair, some of the other guys do have good posts and comments too, even if you may disagree with what they say, they do bring up good points that merit consideration and sometimes seem to post with good intentions.

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