At least you women can get DATES
This will be brief. I’m a man and not a very attractive one. I used to approach women since…like 6 years old. Only a few times has the girl felt the same way. In my 20s, I’ve been on less than 4 dates. I get one message a year on online dating sites.
Women like my personality and my confidence is NOT A PROBLEM. So what is?
My looks. Women are just not attracted to below average looking or even average looking guys.
I introduced myself to one girl (not in a nightclub by the way) and she stopped me in the middle to say: “Sorry, you’re not my type”. Which means “Sorry, you’re not in my looks range”.
I’ve been rejected ON SIGHT. I’ve had girls say “EWW” when I say HELLO, or walk straight past me and ignore me.
I did an experiment. I used an unknown male model on a dating profile. And you guessed it. I got like 5 messages a day and I didn’t need to even be confident or have a “good personality”.
My better looking friend gets more women than me. I’ve seen how girls treat goodlooking guys. The problem is, good looking guys have so many options that they can afford to f*ck a girl around, cheat on her, treat her like shit. But a girl would prefer to be treated like shit by male model looking guys until she finds one to treat her right, than to settle down with a homely looking guy.
Another this is MONEY. How many guys say: “I can’t date a girl who still lives with her parents, who has no car, who xyz”? O RLY? Women want resources for their potential offspring, so they seek out guys with good looks = good genetics and “good” money = “good” resources.
Women have a laundtry list that men have to meet:
- He can’t be BALDING
- He can’t be under 5’8.
- He must have a good midface (i.e. nice nose, eyes, mouth).
- He must have a decent masculine chin, jaw, etc.
- He can’t live at home, despite the economy.
- He must be funny, confident…
A man just wants a girl who is attractive and who he gets along with. Women are Looks and Money Hypergamous. Women spend their youth fucking top tier genetics guys who pump and dump them (probably give them 2 bastard kids that he won’t care for), then the woman, once used up and looking past her best, at 31, will now be open to a homely looking guy to provide for her. She will never truely get wet for him, but the cock carrousel that she rode in her 20s moved town.
I made a fake dating profile of a woman and the chat window that came up were too many to sort through.
So the next time you’re on one of your 17 dates per week, spare a thought for the guy that hasn’t had a date since 2011.
Women reject non-male model looking guys ON SIGHT. At least you women still get dates, boyfriends and sex. Most men these days are INCEL (involuntarily celebate), have to date single mums, etc.
This post was submitted by Invisible.