This is why I hate men
I noticed a lot of guys on here are wondering why so many women are hating on men. Well this is why I hate men, I hate men because…
-I was sexually raped and abused as a kid
-I was told to go to stay in my place in society because I’m a girl
-I was forced into prostitution at 13
-A bunch of guys beat the shit out of me and gangraped me when i was 8
-Incest at 11
-I live in a society where guys at school can make rape jokes and I was raped
-I live in a society where many girls went through the same shit I went through and in many other countries this is a normal lifestyle for many girls and society doesn’t give a damn and question why women are feminists
-I live in a society where many people are misogynists and no one really cares or talk about it yet they come onto ihatemen.com and question women for being misandrist when we all know we live in a society where women were historically oppressed and still are
-I live in a society where women clearly don’t have equal rights and treatment and many people fail to see this and try to dismiss what I have to say
I’m 15 years old in high school I went through all this and guess what? I HATE MEN!! Now you know why I hate men, Do you want to change my mind? Will you have the slightly human decency to leave me alone and to stop trying to change my mind? I had enough!! Stop trying to question misandrists on why they hate men, we have our reasons you know what kind of a world we live in, you know women don’t have equal rights, you know women are oppressed and still are. This is why I hate men and you know what? I have every right to hate men; I was f/ked over again and again and again!! You don’t understand what I went through you never will so stop trying to justify my hate!!
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I am so sorry you were abused so horribly. I was also an incest victim and child abuse victim at the hands of men. I’m almost 29 now. What you went through is even worse than what I experienced and I think you are a strong girl to still be here and not giving up on life. You have every right to feel the way you do. All I can say from experience is that with time the hate will turn into indifference. You will realize that men aren’t even worth getting upset over. Always protect yourself, get a licensed weapon once you are of age if you need to, get a taser and a pepper spray (these are legal) and prosecute legally anyone who has harmed you. Most men aren’t rapists, but most seem to be bad in one way or another. You are very young, pursue your dreams, and don’t allow the pain and anger to hinder your life. You don’t need a man, but you need to be at peace within yourself. Best wishes and hugs:(:(
I’m extremely sorry that this happened to you. It’s just sickening how women still aren’t treated and considered to be human beings.
Don’t listen to those who blame you for hating men, you have all the reasons for doing so. In fact, there shouldn’t be any woman at all who get blamed, we’ve all been abused one way or another, just not on the same level.
I do however find you to be very strong. You’re too young and have already been through more than enough, so just don’t waste your time caring about what men think. Just get protection and focus on your education.
I’m just so disgusted by men right now.
What part of the world do you women live in? ‘Cause most of the women in my life are normal, if you know what i mean like that
@star_180 If you feel that way, then would you want us all dead or something?
It is really unimaginable the amount of sufferings you have been through. You are really very very strong girl , u know.
@ Wilson : get the hell out of here . If some body will cut your dick then you ll know the pain. All men are assholes and with that i mean All. Nobody is asking you to be dead , but showing compassion wont hurt. The society is truly misogynist and its because men are born misogynist and women who raise to power do not do anything about it.
“You don’t understand what I went through you never will so stop trying to justify my hate!!”
I dont think you know what that sentence means. Because “we” sure as hell didn`t try to justify your hate. Thats what you yourself are doing in the above post.
@Diamond_ash: wilson has high functioning autism.. please make allowances for him. He is trying to learn (and learns fast) but tends to get stressed easily. I will deal with him.
@Diamond_ash But I’m a gender-neutral indidvidual male and I must say that most other men should start acting that way too. But hating me, an individual you don’t even know, isn’t totally unaccceptable. You’re no better than your male opposites. Not only men are bad. Humanity, as a whole, is bad AND GOOD, as well.
Thanks for your support!! I’d glad theres people out there that understand!! btw do any of you have skype/email or tumblr, I need to make new friends similar to me, if you do let me know =)
As for the guys(wilson and muzolf) I’m not surprised you don’t give a damn about my problems, you clearly don’t feel sorry for me. If you didn’t step in my shoes don’t tell me how to feel, I can hate men all I want, don’t bother commenting or trying to talk me out of it, you obviously come on here to change our minds so leave, get into a teenage girls body and get raped,beat and abuse then tell me how I should feel, then tell me if I should really stop hating, I’m done talking with you men don’t bother replying to me
@star_180 would you kill or castrate me if youhad the chance? Beacuse you sound like you would. God, I’m really getting angry right now, but I’m trying to maintain composure. It hurts. It hurts so bad. I didn’t even do anything to you or any other woman! God! Please don’t be hostile like that!
@wilson: Time for you to take a break.
@star_180: You do not have the right to dictate who does and who does not post here.. this site is open to both men and women.
I hatemen.org does not discriminate, and is open to post from men and women. Share your relationship experiences, worst date stories…even words of wisdom to others out there reading I HATE MEN.
Wait a minute…star, you’re on FIFTEEN. You’re young. You’ll probbaly grow out of it when you’re an adult. Bur right now, please keep a cool head. Only be mean when someone is being mean back. I’ve done nothing to you, so don’t snap.
We have a 15 year old girl here who has been through some very, very horrible things, and the only thing men here are talking about is themselves and the hatred expressed towards them.
It’s just so sad.
@btm1 Speaking as a male individual, I’m 200 percent fully aware of waht’s going on and find it extremely sad what this 15-year-old went through. My heart really goes out to her. I hope Star does get over all her issues and find absolute happiness and peace in her life. But punishing all men over a few is NOT an option.
Sure, I’ve heard of the say “One (maybe two or three) apple(s) ruining the rest, but, um, why make innocent individuals suffer beacuse of a certain few empathy-lacking ones?
@btm1: Yes I understand she says she is only 15. The list of abuse is so large I have to ask how she managed to survive it intact. Very few of us do.
I also understand that she has been reading the site without posting and her anger has built up.. so much so that her first posts are aggressive towards the men already here. But that does not alter the fact that manners will get her a lot further than aggression.. from everyone here onsite.
@Shazz Teenagers, though I’m still one myself. Note: I’m nineTEEN.
@wilson
“But punishing all men over a few is NOT an option.”
i don’t think she wants to punish men, wilson. i think she’d rather them leave her alone. hate can come from anywhere and be caused by many things, such as psychological trauma from the abuse that this person has suffered. she may not want to hate but her experiences give her no other choice. being around men might make her feel uncomfortable or unsafe. i’m not sure you understand but it’s probably better to leave your sex out of it and just give advice if you have any. i’ve noticed you giving good advice a few times, just be patient in your comments and replies and consider how the other person is feeling.
After all the shit men have put me through I now have a stalker. I’m buying a gun today. Police told me I’m alllowed to have one at home, and I can carry it about town once I have a permit. Good luck stalker cuz you’re gonna need it!
Most of “Us Women” don’t want anything more to do with men once we’ve been used, abused, played, whatever. It’s simple, every single person has a LIMIT. Allow us our limits, and our anger, if you don’t like what we post here, that’s just peachy keen. However, if you have to troll, don’t expect that we’ll just sit here and take it, for most of us here, we’ve taken as much as we’re going to, and in poking us, you’re likely to draw back a nub, no matter how figurative it is.
The young lady in this post rightfully hates men, as she has been victimized repeatedly by them. Respect her anger and pain, or just leave her alone, the latter would be your wisest course. If you can’t be wise, I guess you can suffer the consequences, whatever they may be, that her words cause you.
@bitterbitch Do you like Justin Bieber/
Ok what everyone should be asking is:
are you ok honey? star 180?
Are you out of that situation?
you know wilson you need to take a step back. you have no place telling this girl what she can and can’t feel.
she’s 15. she’s telling the world what she’s going through and explaining why she feels what she feels. she’s getting everything OUT. her feelings are justified. stop trying to impose your opinions on her.
take your judgment and negativity elsewhere.
star 180:
If you need somewhere to run, run to God. He will give you strength. He loves you, the Lord of the heavens loves you.
That means everything.
Proverbs 24:20 for the evil man has no future; the lamp of the wicked will be put out.
I encourage you to run to Him, and if you are still in these situations, go to somebody at your school, a teacher you trust. Even just to talk at first.
You can and will move forward honey, soon this all will be behind you.
@niz Sorry if you though I was being negative…I feel bad about this girl, though you may think I don’t. I just easily get offended, like, by the harsh words and all. I don’t mean no harm whatsoever.
wilson
I understand that our emotions can get away from us, but remember we control them, they don’t control us. thanks for replying
If you want to defend your gender, just say so! but don’t do it by lashing out at a young girl who has been abused beyond belief. I’m not sure what you were offended by, she was just being honest about what she knew from her perspective, but try to feel with what she’s been through, and all that it has taught her about men in the world. Then re-think your resentment.
What she’s been through.. it’s unimaginable! The least she deserves is some compassion. And she deserves no judgment.
Just try and think before you speak and hear what you’re saying. you can either help this girl or hurt her even more. it’s your choice.
Hi. I am so sorry to hear what happened to you. It was unfair, unjust and you didnt deserve any of that. I am sorry you were in those situations and no one was there to protect you.
You are a beautiful and loving little girl, what is worse than what happened to your body is what can happen to your heart. I know from experience that holding on to hate will only darken your heart and your life. holding on to hate is allowing the abusers to continue the abuse. its letting them win. They harmed your body, dont allow your heart to be full of hate. I know that there is love for you and you deserve it. What I wish for you is that you experience amazing loving experiences from men and from all people you come in contact with. Love always heals. There is alot of healing you require and I am only saying this from experience that hatred delays healing. Love heals. Believe in Love. You deserve to be loved, your body, your mind and your soul and I believe that you will experience so much love that all the bad experiences you have had will be healed. I hope that to the extent of abuse you suffered , that to the same degree and more you experience love. From men, from all people. Those men were evil. Evil can come in all forms. you have the right to hate, but I dont think, based on my own experience, that it will help your healing. I just wish for you and declare for you healing Love to wash away all the darkness. I am sorry that happened to you. I know you can heal, you can love and you will be ok. I believe in this. There is Love for you. I hope men come into your life that are your angels, and bring you love and joy like you never experienced. Dont let the abusers take away that chance for you. You deserve joy and Love, a prince and a hero and an angel. Most of all be loving to yourself. Be kind and focus more on loving yourself than anything else. I send you Love. I love you! and I know you will be healed!