How are there not more members??

Well. Just had to ask. Seems there would be 100,000,000 members :-) I don’t know what to say or why I’m saying it. I can’t understand why the vast majority of men seem to lack the basic human decency you would expect everyone to possess. You know…not lying, not cheating, not concerned about their own needs to the point NOTHING and no one else matters… Is it really to much to ask that your partner not lie and not cheat?? I don’t think so. However, I have had no luck in finding a “man” that meets even this most basic criteria. Surely someone else reading this is in a similar situation. And if you are, I guess I just want to support you and encourage you not to settle for less than what you deserve. That’s all I want to say. I guess it’s a reminder for myself too. Good luck. May you find happiness with yourself to the extent that you no longer rely on some dumb man for fulfillment.

This post was submitted by christyrep.

8 Responses to “How are there not more members??”

  1. shazz says:

    @christyrep: We were recently banned from FB due to the ‘violence’ in the posts.. so its a case of starting again.

  2. PearlEWhites says:

    I am a 90s child, and I get the feeling guys born in the 30s/40s were brought up with a little more decency. I AM ALIVE IN THE WRONG ERA, YO. Seriously, though. The best person I’ve ever known (in terms of honesty, self discipline, respect for others) is my maternal grandfather. He is “the anti-pervert”. He can comment on womens’ beauty in a normal way, but he is all about respect and a creepy word has never been uttered from this man’s mouth. It’s hard to believe but it’s true ; he may act emotionally stunted in some other ways (putting himself in someone else’s shoes type deal) but he is honest and righteous almost to a fault; people see that in him and he is easily manipulated. He told me a story once about this one time when he was younger when he went with some guys he knew from work back to one of their houses. They were having drinks I guess and the one dude is like “let’s watch a blue movie!” or something similar to it, and my grandfather got the heck outta there. He went home to my grandmother, and he was like “they wanted to sit around and watch porn, eugh”. And he always told me never to put up with a guy acting “perverted” for a second, and if a man isn’t honest, he isn’t a man at all. He may have raised my bar too high ; it’s nearly impossible to find somebody like that today. But my grandfather is still just the same. If more men were like him, I think this site might not exist. Everyone has their faults. But so many men strike out across the board!

  3. Muzolf says:

    “Seems there would be 100,000,000 members”

    That would be only 1.6% of the population of earth. Even considering the number of people who live in third world countries or belong to lower classes, therefore, do not have internet access, allso divided by 2 (We are only talking women here.), lets see…

    Of course there is allso the fact that not everyone will find this site, yeah, it should still have several thousand active members, IF what you say woukd be true.

    Now, lets check how many regulars we have. I is what, 10, 20 people? Currently at least 3 of them are men and disagree with you. And there are some women who allso disagree.

    Draw your own conclusions people.

  4. Pearlewhites:
    Your grandfather sounds like a wonderful gentlemen. Very few men are like that today. Nowadays they view it as normal and their brthright to objectify women.

    It should be of little wonder why so many women view men in a negative light.

  5. Muzolf says:

    “It should be of little wonder why so many women view men in a negative light.”

    You mean those 20 i meantioned? :)

  6. CoyFemme says:

    Wow, this is the 1st time I searched for other posts and I’m already seeing this hate-filled troll AGAIN. Everyone, beware of this loser Muzolf. He is trolling all over the place. The 1st day I posted something he attacked me, not once but twice and he doesn’t stop. It’s obvious no female wants him so he comes on here bashing women to get attention. LOSER =)

  7. CoyFemme says:

    PearlEWhites – I totally agree with you…

  8. Muzolf says:

    Oh my, she called me a loser again, what ever shall i do? I guess i will have to crawl under a rock and cry.

    What i wrote was at least relevant to something someone said you moron. What are YOU doing throwing around random insluts? Of course with your mental capacity i guess it is impressive that you can write at all.

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