Why are women so picky?
It’s like 80% of women date 20% of the men. Those men are all tall and attractive. Everything from “all men are pigs” to “all men cheat” can be linked to this. When an attractive and tall male college student wont date, but only have sex with a woman he is a pig. She won’t even notice the other 80% of the males that might be under 6 feet tall that are balding. When women choose tall and attractive men they can assume he would cheat.
Why is this, why are women so picky? Does it have to do with society telling them that they deserve better? That they are all princesses?
This post was submitted by R2D2.
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What is a womowen?
Okay, more seriously. It cannot be helped. Their instincts tell them to go after the more atractive/rich guys, who in turn, can milk this for all its worth.
We can talk about it all you want, but in the end, they have no more control about who they find attractive as you do. At the same time most guys go for the best looking girls, and only when that doesnt works they go for the less attractive ones, stepping down each time until they realise that really, nobody is interested in them.
As luck would have it, if you can put enough effort into it (Unless you are really hidious, or a midget, in that case, tough luck.), you can improve your looks by working out.
Women rarely can, since what men find attractive on women are usually not subject to how they live, unless we count plastic surgery.
So go lift some weighs, or if you are too lasy or just doesnt find the whole matter worth the effort, learn to be comfortable being alone.
All things said and done, the whole thing is rather overrated, relationships, and sex too. I would suggest leaving the whole matter alone, helps avoid a lot of unnecessary complications and grief.
@R2D2: Fixed your typo..
Hmm…I suppose men only care about a womans personality and care nothing of how she looks! This is definitely one of those areas where men shouldnt be talking…
So are you saying that the other 80% of men are faithful, wonderful loving men who would never do a woman wrong? If so that is HILARIOUS!
Most men cheat, it has nothing to do what he looks like. Tall, short, fat, skinny it doesnt matter. Its biology. Most men don’t want to be with just one woman.
Heres a question…Why do fat, ugly, and broke men lust after hot, young attractive women? Why do they feel like they deserve a 10 when they are a 2? Why do overweight men talk down to overweight women? Is it entitlement?
“When women choose tall and attractive men they can assume he would cheat.”
What he meant to say was
“When women choose men they can assume he would cheat.”
There, fixed it for you!
Muzolf:
IA. Men do have it easy when it comes to looking good. Just go to the gym. It wont make you taller, but it can make you look better.
As far as women, there is not much she can do besides surgery. For a woman its all about winning the genetic lottery.
Honey, about the part you adressed me: Isnt that exaclty what i said?
“Heres a question…Why do fat, ugly, and broke men lust after hot, young attractive women? Why do they feel like they deserve a 10 when they are a 2?”
Here is a counter question, is what you find attractive something you can decide, or is that a thing that you have no control over?
If you answer that question, you will have the answer to yours.
Lusting after someone does not equals thinking you have a chance with her/him.
As for those who go beyond just “lusting” as you say, it is often the “what the heck” confidence of the hopeless. When you cannot reach anything, you might as well try reaching for the stars. At leastyou can say you failed because your standards were too high. It beats admitting that you couldnt get a date to save your life.
Muzolf:
Lusting after someone does not equals thinking you have a chance with her/him.”
There is a very, very fine line between what men lust after and what they pursue. I’ve had fat, balding unattractive men come up to me. I’ve had men up to 70 (that’s right 70!) hit on me, try to take me home, etc. In short, men think they deserve a hot woman even if they are fat, ugly, and broke, and have no problem going after what they want.
Its not hopelessness, it’s arrogance and entitlement.
I’m so glad I’m a nice l looking guy. I’m no Timberlake but I get my share of lookers.
3D men are horrible anyways they aren’t as pretty as men in manga and anime if i had my way only anime men would be around. sisters, let me present you an alternative to the 3Ds you have to put up with to feel fulfilled; get yourselfs a husbandu. I reccomend the expenseive body pillows, the cheap ones loose there coloers fast
Honey, who is feeling entitled here exactly, the one who just tries, or the one who feels offended because someone who didnt met her standards approached her?
So they hit on you. And your reaction? “How dare they, i deserve someone better hitting on me!” It is a shame you cannot see the irony in your post.
Muzolf:
Are you implying that I’m shallow and entitled because Im 25 and dont want to date a man who is several times my age, fat, and balding? If i was an older overweight woman I wouldnt hit on young hot men. So no, *I’m* not the one who’s feeling entitled. Typical male!
See ladies…Men have all this standards, but when it comes to them, they expect you to look deep, deep down inside their souls and love them for what’s on the inside.
“How dare they, i deserve someone better hitting on me!”
Yes, I do deserve something etter than fat balding 60 year old man. Do you have a problem with that?
No, i am implying that you are entitled because you are offended by someone hitting on you.
How about just saying “no” and moving on? No, you have to take it a personal insult that someone you consider ugly dared to talk to you.
Nobody said you have to date anyone you dont want to, but why piss on the poor guy whos only fault is that he probably still buys into the “woman care less about looks and more about inner beauty” bullshit.
Muzolf:
How about just saying “no” and moving on? No, you have to take it a personal insult that someone you consider ugly dared to talk to you.”
And what do you think happens?
I dont ever tell them to go fuck themselves. You said that what men lust after and what they chase after are different…I’m saying that’s not true by a long shot.
And the point remains, that you are offended by them hitting on you.
Sex entitlement, yeah sure, why not go the entire way and claim it to be molestation? Or better yet, put this into the ever expanding definition of sexual harassment, and make it a crime. Look up R2D2-s youtube video linked. For a while beleived it to be an overstatement for the rule of funny. But i see now, that it is 100% accurate.
Muzolf:
I wasnt offended. Im just noticing men want women who are a 9 when they are a 2. If I was a 2 I wouldnt hit on men who are 9s. Ever.
Like hell you wouldn`t. Maybe you would be less willing to try, but if the opportunity arose, you would take it no matter if you are a 1 2 3 or whatever.