I Never Had the Chance to Give Men the Benefit of the Doubt…

The 1st man I knew (my father) really loved me. But he screwed another woman while my mother laid in the hospital dying, and he was a mean drunk. The second male I knew was my brother. He molested me. The third man I knew was my grandfather. He molested me. Another boy I knew, a family friend, tried to molest me. My first husband…beat the crap out of me, lied, cheated on me, sold my belongings for drugs and told me they were stolen. My second was not mean but dishonest as well. The third, a misogynist and a liar. Actually, a diabolical liar from day one, literally, and a fan of disturbing porn that makes me question what he even ever wanted from me.
I don’t want to think of men as predators, but how can I not when almost everyone I’ve ever met is? Oh, forgot to mention the attempted break-ins and robberies…men.

This post was submitted by mirandalady.

8 Responses to “I Never Had the Chance to Give Men the Benefit of the Doubt…”

  1. wilson says:

    @mirandalady But it’s not like women don’t have their faults, as well. Though I do believe that men are more prone to evil, women can be as bad as men and have been worse before. I’m sorry for what you’ve been through with past experiences with the men who were in your life, but I hope you aren’t becoming one of those women who truly hate our guts, like honeybunch for example or menareevil. I don’t trust those two at all.

  2. Muzolf says:

    Wow, i mean… my sympathies. There isnt really anything one can say in these cases. Other then, lets hope your life turns out better then until now.

  3. mirandalady says:

    Wow Wilson, really? You read my heartwrenching post and the first thing that you thought was, “But it’s not like women don’t have their faults as well” WTF ????? Are you effing kidding me? Faults? Baby rapers just “have their faults” ??? Good lord son.

    Empathize much? Obviously not. Please read down to Muzolf’s post so that you can read an appropriate response to what was a very difficult post for me to write.

    I assume that you are either
    A. Very young
    or
    B. An idiot.

    My hope for humanity is that you are the former.

  4. wilson says:

    @mirandalady Yes, and I’m 19-years-old. Is that young enough? Plus, I was born with Autsim (special needs), which I’ve mentioned several times in past posts.

  5. mirandalady says:

    My apologies Wilson. I’m new here.

  6. mirandalady says:

    Did you get wilson from Cast Away?

  7. wilson says:

    That’s my last name

  8. mirandalady says:

    oh. I always think in movies. :)

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