men
Hi everyone!! I’m new to this site and am outraged by the behavior of men. I’m not sure exactly at what point they all became Neanderthals and wimps. But they sure do love putting us down to fuel their insecurities. I have read a few of the posts and notice that the men all have one thing in common. They love projecting their insecurities on us bc they believe we are weak. But the moment we stand up for ourselves we are “b#$$he’s ” . U can’t win with these guys. They only cause us psychological harm. So lose them and run as fast as u can. Be blunt with them. Tell them straight up ‘I’m not interested’ no message is more clear. Another thing about the projections. Ever notice a guy will call u crazy when he’s the one acting crazy? Or were the one with anger issues after he has screamed at u for an hour?
This post was submitted by menonlylovethemselves.
Related posts:
- Coward men Ever since I broke up with my boyfriend of a...
- Bad Behavior of a Jerk He acts like he hates me. like i don’t exist....
- He’s everything a woman wants… not Three wonderful dates, he’s attentive, thoughtful, funny, charming. We spend...
- My First Time… It’s very hard to say. I’m almost…. in shock. I...
- fell for it again…. so I fell way too fast for one more guy...
- What Is His Problem? Ok, so I told my friend/FBuddy last week that I...
“I’m not sure exactly at what point they all became Neanderthals and wimps.”
Well, you are not letting us much wiggle room here, do you? Hmm, i think i go with Neanderthal. You see, despite holywood displays, Neanderthals were not any dumber or more brutish then our ancestors, their extinction is still somewhat of a mistery, and it is beleived, that they might not have gone exctinct at all, but were assimilated into the more numerous other subspecies, the ancestors of modern people.
Now with that being out of the way.
“But they sure do love putting us down to fuel their insecurities.”
“I have read a few of the posts and notice that the men all have one thing in common. They love projecting their insecurities on us bc they believe we are weak.”
Oh really? Please, do explain how you came to that conclusion. Right now, i doubt you even know the meaning of that word. If you would, you would avoid it like the plague, you know why? Because you accuse the men here of things you yourself are doing.
You see, psychological projection mostly means denial of your own faliures, and putting the blame on someone else. Attributing this to the men on the site has one rather obvious problem with it.
The men arent the ones who are talking about the faliures in life.
You are! I am not saying all women on the site do it, or even the majoriy, but what you talk about it basicly imposible. The only who could project anything, is the ones who talk about their personal problems. Guess who does that here, it sure as hell wasnt me, or Wilson, or Zombies, or Bunnyboy, heck i havent even seen the male trolls (Hazz and others) do that.
In other words, you havent got the faintest clue what you are talking about.
I’m pretty sure she knows what the word “conclusion” means.
Muzolf what are you trying to proof? Are you trying to say that men are not like she descibed them?! Then why proof it here where the women are already on the heat? How did you even come here? We are all done with men. We don’t want to hear from them anymore! Don’t you see that your presence is unwanted?
I agree on what she’s observed about men. I see this behaviour in many men I know, only a few are decent enough to sepnd time with. No one knows if they’re all like that but why would any woman bother trying to find that out if she sees so many douchebags?! I mean at one point or another you just don’t wanna play this game anymore even if there MIGHT be a decent guy waiting at the end of the tunnel. We can live without them, it might not be what we really like to do but its okay. If that means not having to talk to stupid guys who say stuff that just depresses you THEN FINE!
“they sure do love putting us down to fuel their insecurities…they love projecting their insecurities on us…”
A lot of females do the exact same thing, usually out of insecurity or jealously (or just pure hatred).
Ellasale, fair enough. If you want your women only club however, i have to dissapoint you.
This site is on a public system, and wordpress will not allow you to discriminate. You want a women only place? You can have it, If you pay for the space on the web!
Right now, right here, i have the same right to be here as you.
Now, for your observation. The guys you have known might be like what the poster described, i dont know, and i dont care anymore. However, the original poster made it look like she was talking about the male posters on this site. And i called her out on her bullshit.
You dont wanna play “the game” anymore? Well then, don’t. I dont wanna play games either, not that game anyway. If you come here to rant, ok. Thats what the site is for. Its fine if you are wenting about some douchebag who hurt you. You will have no trouble from me.
However, accuse either “all men” or just the people here, then make sure you know what you are talking about, or i will call you out on it, like it or not.
lol well…. ellasale, i think muzolf was talking about the word “insecurities”. menonlylovethemselves, that’s along name. i promise i won’t “scream” at you mostly because you won’t hear me anyway. i don’t intentionally try to make people feel bad unless they verbally attack me or others. i also try not to show my insecurities so hopefully you won’t be dealing with that nuisance.
Men are stupid. Period.
Thank you for the well tough out and carefull crafted argument miss Even. Care to share any more of your unlimited wisdom, oh enlightened one?