Considering I am a man on a site named “Ihatemen” I was not expecting such a warm welcome :L
I have not come here to defend my sex, in fact, I do realize that infact quite a large majority of men are like those you describe. I believe that violence towards women, in terms of rape and oppression in the workplace, is a major world problem and one which should not exist in a “Developed” society.
Whether it is “In our Nature” or not is debatable, as both men and women have primal urges. Perhaps men require more self control and self discipline to control these urges, which can be the distinction between a “good guy” and a “chimp.” I realize that a lot of these posts are written in the fallout of relationships, by women who have been horribly hurt by men. However I still find that statements like “NO men can love” or “MEN HAVE NO FEELINGS WHATSOEVER” to be a little to generalized and slightly offensive, but I can understand how these feelings arise.
This post was submitted by maggio.