Beaten For the Truth?
so I was dating this guy every since high school and were planning on getting married. he has his faults (a lot of them) but everyone does. well,he left his phone upstairs and it rung. so i anwsered it. …and it was my best friend.she hung up but i got curious. so i looked through the phone and i found naked pictures of her…when i confronted him he beat me. by the end of the night i had a black swollen eye,a knotted head, and a busted lip because i shouldnt have been going through his phone…this wasnt the first time hes cheated and this wasnt the first time he hit me. it was just never as bad..i just didnt get it.and i still dont.why?why hit me.any insite?
This post was submitted by Bitter Smiles.
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Leave….and leave now before anything else happens. Then dump your best friend. They have both betrayed you.
That’s horrible :/
I hope you get through it alright, nobody on earth deserves treatment like this.
What Shazz said. Leave. Otherwise, how far will he go next time?
I’m sorry you’re going through this. But you have to break away from both of these people. Good luck, and let us know how you’re doing.
Leave him ,as you should have the first moment he layed a hand on you.
As for your friend, tell her she can have him, they deserve eachother.
I agree with all of the above. One time is one time too many.
I had a sister who went through this. She divorced him finally, and one day he murdered her. They had three kids, and thank goodness, my mother got custody of them.
Don’t let him do this to you and don’t do this to yourself. <3 <3 <3
I really hope you get out of your situation and fast. Don’t tell him you are leaving, just GO!
Guys don’t like it when you go through their phone bc the truth is there for you to see.
He beat you because you found him out and he wanted to terrorize you into submission and humiliate you, to make you realize that no matter how bad he treats you you’ll still stay with him. He views you as a possession. Your “best friend” and the others he’s cheated on you with are his conquests. Hitting a female is wrong and the second it happens you should get out of there. He’s probably counting on you being dependent on him in some form or other – financially or emotionally.
Leave him now. He is abusive and he wont change. HE will beg and plead you to stick around. He will make all sorts of promises. call the domestic abuse hotline and get counseling. But first get out of the relationship.
THank all of you so much. im going to take all of your advice and cupcake,im sorry for your lost and i wont let it happen to me i promise you
Leave him. And change the type of man you love. If you keep falling for him (or similar unfaithful types), you’ll be deadlocked in an abuse cycle – battered women syndrome they call it. If your in the US, all it takes one easy phone call.
- I’m A Man.
Leave him and you should have called the police and report him for having beat you! Take care in the future and try not to have anything to do with guys like him any more!
Please leave him. He has hit you before and it was worse this time? Trust me it will keep getting worse. He isn’t going to change no matter what he promises you. You really need to leave and have absolutely no contact with him because he will promise you everything just to get you back and then he will “teach you a lesson”. Been there – finally left – and it isn’t easy. Its really hard. I am sure you love him but would you treat your pet that way? No one deserves to be beaten, especially for looking at a phone. And your friend is not your friend. Be prepared for her to try and get information from you if you leave – she will tell him. Please be safe. Let us know you are allright
I agree with the others, run as if you hair is on fire. It won’t get any better. No one deserves to be abused. Of course he is blaming you and justifying his behaviour, this is classic. And dumb this “girfriend” too.