No Hate From Me..
Hi, I’m a young Godly Christian man,and I’m sorry so many women are having issues with men folk. But I want to say, that men and women are actually more similar than different. Even our physical design, and when they studied anatomy they discover actually more similarities. Yes, that means our ugly male bodies really aren’t that different from lovely female ones, only by a few bones here and there. The ideal shape of a man is similar to that of a woman. We both share the same hormones basically, only the dominant ones are in reverse. And if it weren’t for a father, you wouldn’t be here. It takes two to make a baby.
ANYWAYS, I think the biggest problem some women have , is unrealistic expectations of what relationships are supposed to be. They have this idea of a “Prince Charming” man that has to be perfection in their ideals. The irony is, women complain that men are shallow, but I notice actually that is more from women. They have a whole laundry list of what their “ideal man” must be like. He must be tall, he must be charming, he must sweep them off their feet. Have a great job, be responsible, make them feel like a Queen, be attentive, etc. Men are simple, and we don’t put such expectations on that. Other than she have a great sense of humor, a good personality, and be attractive in our eyes. Thats all. Seriously, some women that couldn’t be more than 4 ft tall, won’t even consider dating a man under 6 ft tall, he must be like their favorite Actor or whatever their ideal is. The truth is, until people learn to let go of unrealistic ideas about love and marriage, they will never be satisfied with who they are with. I think above all else, trust and honesty are most important. I love women and I wish them all the best. But before you blame a man again for something wrong in your life, just remember it was a man who invented the very computer you are using to do so.
This post was submitted by RVAgent.
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You are young indeed as is your analysis. I don’t think women are looking for ‘Prince Charming’ (unless you consider a mere 5″6 somewhat rotund man to fit the bill). Women want loving, caring men in their lives and we do not ‘blame men for something wrong in our lives’. We dislike what men do to us. If you read most of the posts you will notice that we are protesting against the verbal, emotional and even physical abuse that a lot of us suffer. I don’t care how angry or upset a man is over any given situation – there is simply no excuse for abuse.
I love how you say that men and women are very similar, then go on to say that women are much more shallow and unrealistic and men are much more simple and reasonable…
“Men are simple, and we don’t put such expectations on that. Other than she have a great sense of humor, a good personality, and be attractive in our eyes. ”
I don’t understand why you criticise women for being shallow in that case. You say that men only want someone who’s ‘attractive in our eyes’…Well, so do women. They’re hardly going to find a man who’s attractive in someone elses eyes. And if that means a woman chooses a tall, handsome man rather than a short, average man, so be it. It’s what’s attractive in her eyes.
You say you love women…But I don’t believe you. Any man who comes to a site called ‘I Hate Men’ and tries to make abused women feel small by saying, “Just remember, WE invented that device YOU’RE using”, isn’t very nice. And yeah, we get that a lot.
Who gives a damn about a invention? You men always want to bring up inventions when women call out the stupid actions of men. Totally irrelevant.
http://www.topsecretrosies.com/
“In 1942, when computers were human and women were underestimated, a group of female mathematicians helped win a war and usher in the modern computer age. Seventy years later their story has finally been told. ” (It’s on Netflix Instant Queue)
Dear “Godly Christian Man”–GO FUCK YOURSELF! Men like you keep this country (and this world) from progressing to where it needs to be in a modern age. So go educate yourself about where computers REALLY came from and shut the hell up.
“And if it weren’t for a father, you wouldn’t be here. It takes two to make a baby.”
Because if there’s anything that we know is hard for a man to do, and that they’re never interested in, its having sex with a woman. Bravo to them for mustering the strength to impregnate someone.
“But before you blame a man again for something wrong in your life, just remember it was a man who invented the very computer you are using to do so.”
How does that dismiss infidelity, cruelty, violence, and dishonesty? It doesn’t. As 1smartgirl said, its totally irrelevant.
I agree with you on some points. I think things like “he has to pull out my chair for me/open the door for me/massage my feet” things of a chivalrous nature, are ultimately at the bottom of the list- unimportant. Trust and honesty are at the top. But being responsible? Financially stable? Attentive (aka being able to listen without watching the game over your shoulder?) I think those are pretty reasonable requests too.