pumped and dumped. | I HATE MEN

So this guy flirted with me, IM’ed me, texted me, sexted me whenever he got the chance for pretty much 3 or 4 months straight. I didn’t form a crush on him because I knew all he wanted was a quick lay; good for me for not getting attached right? So we finally had sex a few days ago and guess what, he hasn’t talked to me since. I knew all he wanted was sex but I didn’t expect him to be a bigger douche than all the other guys I’ve met that just wanted sex. I’m so furious, and I feel terribly embarrassed because the sex was kind of bad but honestly that was his fault. He squished me, was too rough, didn’t get me wet enough even though I told him I needed to be really wet for it to work. I just feel so damn used, so ashamed. Now imagine if I had real feelings for this guy, where would I be? I’m pretty young but I’m glad I’m learning to play the game and not get myself hurt too badly. But fuck, I hate men and their stupid fucking games and “conquests” and notches in their belt. I deserve better than that.

This post was submitted by OneFish TwoFish.

Full_monty

So…you are mad that you had sex with a man that you knew only wanted sex. Makes sense. Chicks are retarded.
Full_monty

“the sex was kind of bad but honestly that was his fault” – depends. Were you any good at giving him head or being nailed in the mouth from above? Were you any good at riding/servicing that cock?
Full_monty

“the sex was kind of bad but honestly that was his fault. He squished me, was too rough”
Sounds like the sex was pretty damn good. Rough sex or no sex. Were you a virgin or almost, prior to it? Are you that delicate? Check out how most men masterbate (trying to rip their cock off) so you have an idea how sex really is.
Full_monty

“Check out how most men masterbate (trying to rip their cock off) so you have an idea how sex really is. ”
…Unless a man is some middle aged white suburbanite that is a lame lay to any woman with fire in her eyes. I think the best is mixing a combo of both hardcore and passion though. “Lovemaking” is rarely even done cuz nobody enjoys it, and TOO hardcore can make delicate women cry i dunno, not into it as much. Best a combo of both.
Twinkle Fish

Haha okay full monty, why are you being so sarcastic and condescending, buddy? Who are you to comment on my sexual prowess? No I was not a virgin, and no I’m not that delicate but I AM very small. And I give a hell of a good blowjob (yes, he came). Just because a guy pounds a woman to bits does not mean that she enjoyed it; a woman has to be wet for it to be pleasurable and did he do his job and make sure I was? No.

I’m not mad at the fact that he used me for sex, I’m mad at the fact that somebody could be so shallow and blow someone off so completely as soon as they are done using them for whatever purpose.
Jeebo

you’re the typical whore, fucking with a man who u know just wants to thrust in your filthy cunt until it bleeds, and then complaining because he treated you like the filthy fucking-hole that you are, you’re just a cunt to stick it in, and nothing else. that’s all you exist for, so go be a streetwalker and make some use of yourself, service your customers and hey! make some money while you are at it to tighten your loose cunt every now and then with a surgery, or you will be out of work.
Jaycie

Jeebo, what a horrible sick thing to say, you clearly have issues…work them out!

Twinkle Fish, I am not surprised that the guy just blew you off after he was done using you, because that is all he wanted you for in the first place, so he was bound to do that once he got it. For guys like him, women mean nothing, so once they get what they want, then what else will they stick around for? They won’t bother try to end things cordially or anything, if they are low enough to use us like that, then they are not going to have the decency to end things on a nicer note…they will just ditch you, needless to say. I think that you made a mistake giving him what he wanted, but nonetheless…we all get caught up in the heat of the moment. Nonetheless…I hope you will find better!
cohip

you do deserve better than that. you at least sound like someone who is honest about what they’re looking for sexually and this guy couldnt even accept that. ie it couldnt be just about sex, which really should be enough, it had to be about him hurting you. which is what he was about, it sounds like.

I think its good to have an understanding of the game. and i think even really decent people have to protect themselves eventually. its not a comprimise it just is. I’ve stoped thinking or at least am trying to stop thinking about this men women devide. I’ve been reading boards like this for a project im doing and im starting to think its more of a shitty people good people devide. we want each other, men and women, so badly its so much easier for asshols (men and women) to sneek in. try not to hate men, it doesnt help, and you could end up hurting a really decent guy, who could in turn end up hurting a really decent girl, ect. akujunkan… wish you the best.
Jeebo is a Gay S&M Porn Star

Jeebo are you gay?
Full Monty is Stupid

So your blowup doll likes it rough, huh?
Twinkle Fish

Jaycie (and Jeebo is a Gay lol), thank you for sticking up for me! You are absolutely right, some people just have no decency. That’s the part that got me most, the leaving me hanging. How hard could it be to say, “hey we had our fun but let’s move on”?

Thank you I know I can find better.
Full_monty

You’re so talently cool.
Full_monty

So,ya aint mad that he “used” you for sex…mad that he still isn’t…using you for sex.So, had he secured you as a repeat long term screw buddy and didn’t “completely blow you off as soon as he was done using you,” you’d be more fine with it? K – gave up caring…now!
suck it monty

hahaha i bet youre prolly one of the douchebags that does this to girls, thats why youre gettin so worked up bout it. id like to see how your chauvinistic ass would feel if someone pulled this shit on you. give the girl a break asshole.
gunboy

full monty u are fuckin stupid man. read some o her other comments and u’ll know waht shes really worried abt.
Twinkle Fish

Thank you. That’s exactly what the situation is. I’m glad someone understands. And that’s really interesting, what you’ve been finding, I can see how that would be likely.

Thanks again and good luck with your project
Full_monty

And I’M the stupid one? I repeat:
“So,ya aint mad that he “used” you for sex…mad that he still isn’t…using you for sex.So, had he secured you as a repeat long term screw buddy and didn’t “completely blow you off as soon as he was done using you,” you’d be more fine with it? K – gave up caring…now! “
Full_monty

I mean, i based this on what she said is all. Pretty much just threw it back at her. Her being confused makes us (or those who read her post(s) atleast – that excludes you – but probably be for the best.) confused.
Full_monty

“I’m not mad at the fact that he used me for sex, I’m mad at the fact that somebody could be so shallow and blow someone off so completely as soon as they are done using them”

Oh,pussy boy/bitch whatever you ar -why do i need to give that bitch “a break”-she needs to TAKE a break from confusing the hell out of normal ppl,in which normal people question her “problem.”She SAID in her own words she didn’t care about being sexually “USED”…yet does (and the sex not being so hot either). See what’s going on? She basically SAID she is not mad at being “used” for sex,but is MAD that someone would EVEN do that?
Full_monty

Her: “I’m not mad at the fact that he used me for sex, I’m mad at the fact that somebody could be so shallow and blow someone off so completely as soon as they are done using them”

Me: K…ya aint mad that he USED you for sex, but you ARE mad that he used you for sex and QUIT using you for sex…so completly.

Gunboy: I still don’t get it, Monty. But you are an asshole, and give that scatterbrain female a break!
Kasey

I think he is…