You are not who I thought you were…

Okay so I was head over heels for this really stupid guy, he kinda liked me…but like my body better (I didn’t know till I couldn’t even be friends with him anymore…but anyway). I gave him my number nd he asked me out and naturally I said yes. The next day he says he doesn’t know if we are going out, so he asks out this other girl that I had a few conversations with and she is known for cheating on her boyfriends. So they break up after one of my (and his) friends convince him to. Then he goes out with his ex ex and tries to make out with her in the band hallway. He breaks up with her because she was spending the entire last day of school with his best friend. Guy friend. So I kissed my boyfriend good-bye and got on the bus. I texted a few people including him and the first thing he says is “Hey do you want to have phone sex???” I’m just like what the fuck is wrong with you!!! So he says sorry my friend took my phone and he acts all sweet and kind for a while then that night he says “So I heard you have a boyfriend.” I said Yeah and he said “So if I asked you out would you break up with him for me??? Because I Love You.” I cried that entire night (for a nobody ): ) Then he starts to harass me telling me he loves me and if I love him to I shoould send him nasty pictures and it got so bad he almost came to my house while I was sleeping. I was creeped out!!! So I told my brother (who, though he would never admit it, is VERY protective) and he told him that if he doesn’t leave me alone he would…1. Call the Cops 2. Beat him up personally and 3. Make his life forever a living hell…I don’t know if after that I could ever trust my heart to someone again…

This post was submitted by Alena Maxx.

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  • Mptob

    Read my post dear,

    Insider information

    Males are very manipulative….you have to accept that 99.9% of men only want to use you for sex and then they have ticked you off their list…..don't listen to their 'kind words' and don't let your ears accept what your heart wants to hear……be strong…have a backbone…and create your own island…….if someone truly wants you and loves you…..it will take much much more than just a few words to get you….they will realise how hard to get you are and they will keep at it until they day they die….if they don't…then theyre just not worth it.

    This way is the only way of phasing out the gross men on this planet….by not giving them what they want…..just be strong and make those who 'love you' really work for you….love ..is just a couple of letters stuck together….and most men know girls have a weakness for it…its just too easy to say

    I love you Alena

    See? Completely non genuine but i said it…..

    Be strong Alena and trust me I know I am a member of the male species and I have come across many many many males and i Know what MOST of them are like. Just be strong and a woman not a girl.

    Good luck!

  • Hazzmatt

    Great advice there babe. Whether you are a man or not, I'll still call you babe.

    “they will realise how hard to get you are and they will keep at it until they day they die….if they don't…then theyre just not worth it.”

    That aint gonna work for normal men, since normal men know better. “Keep up with it to the day you die” whatever that means, but it sounds like a MAN having to prove his worth to some chick? MAJOR no no. Not only does that make a man pathetic, and make himself ask “why am i even doing this? – I don't even worship God” – no normal woman would even want that.

    Guy/girl – you say men are manipulative – men are typically “manipulative” to the point a woman/women want to have sex with him – and women love it, or else they wouldn't even be having sex. YOUR hypocritial advice is fucking pathetic and demeaning and long term manipulation. You aint even saying anything about “WHY would a guy want the op for very long?” No, you just tag the shit on the man.

    Men have few expecations for in relationships and typically far less manipulative than today's women on average and real from within (outside of just trying to get laid and not commited) and dont have very high expecations. Just don't be a complete bitch, don't try to control a man through sex – and men like different kinds of sex – roughish sex for normal men and lots of normal women love it – or he'll dump you or cheat (cuz that's part of the relationship – or else you are just friends) don't talk his ear off all the time – BIG common complaint of men as a whole, and DONT expect him to always feel obligated to talk when he don't feel like it and has jack the fuck to say. And outside of complications with money, that's pretty much it. And if his friends are more fun than you, don't think you can keep him from them – “controlling where someone goes” is now considered “abusive” – and even stated in welfare forms, all of which women are often guilty of – ya often hear women trying to keep you from your friends. Normal women don't care. That's my take on “relationships” but then again, they aren't really for me and dont ever plan on having a girlfriend again, cuz sex can be had without them, i like my space on MY terms cuz im stuck in between social and anti-social like normal people – and just have friends.
    Love for me is as or more dangerous than hate and i can't handle that shit anyway. But then there's different kinds of love….LA LA LA.