I’m about 23 and in Med School and Math Grad School (The Graduate School is really awesome in letting me pursue my two favorite topics at the same time). I’ll think of marriage (probably through an arranged–dating is just to difficult) when I’m a Resident or something.

Are you sure you aren’t asexual? It is a legitimate sexual condition…

Sounds like all you want is some drama in your life.

Men who think of women as sex objects are immoral, and women who use men for their own pleasure are also immoral.

Yet another fault of society.

Most men think of women every 20 seconds, I think of music every 20 second and I think of women not much.

If a woman starts to flirt with me, I try to change the subject.
And no I am not gay.

I was my ex’s first boyfriend to remember when her birthday is, not to mention I talked to her plenty, we hung out it was all romantic. But it wasn’t “a challenge”, she would never be able to love a guy like me. Hence why she is now my ex.

Sometimes I ask myself if life would be easier if I were an asshole who gets girls like that. Girls like you would constantly complain about me to their friends, but I simply wouldn’t care, because I would be sleeping with girls 24/7.

Life is not black and white. Not all men are assholes. The problem is, those men don’t turn you on. However cynical it sounds.

There are plenty of guys out there that don’t play games and would love you for who you are. The irony though is this: you aren’t attracted to these guys (at least initially) for the very reason that they aren’t willing to play games with you.

It’s very important that you understand this basic principle. Guys pay attention to what you do, not what you say. The fact is (despite what millions of girls think) that girls regularly fall for guys that play these games. They are attracted to jerks that sleep around with numerous women and treat them like crap. You say that you don’t like it. Fact is you regularly fall for it and will continue to. And it’s not necessarily your fault because women are hardwired to act this very way.

The solution is simple. Unless you want to lead a life filled with unhappiness, you need stop chasing these types of guys. Regardless of what attraction you may feel towards them. You need to get smart. Problem is that girls too often confuse these emotions for love because they don’t understand the big picture.

With time you will find this out for yourself. Unfortunately, way too many women will never ever get it. Or by the time they do its too late and they’ve wasted their entire life with a jerk that doesn’t love them. Basically, your Grandmother was right. Find a nice boy. And for the love of God show some restraint… don’t give up the goods to every man-whore that makes your vag tingle.