by tmy75
confused about u women
9:13 am in I Hate Men by tmy75
I found this page and frankly I’m shocked. I love men everything about men, and i enjoy living my life for only my man. He moved here from 8000 miles away to be with me and I cook for him every night, run his bath and do anything he wants. You women are just bitter and need a good husband like I have!!!!
troll.
And what does he do for you?
You live your life for only your man? Wow. Isn’t that idolization? Your man is your god. And I feel sorry for any human that makes another human their god.
Maybe a lot of women on this site are bitter. I came here because I was angry and hurt. Expressing thoughts through writing is better than the alternative (performing castrations, pouring hot grits on dudes, vandalization, jail time, etc). Jaded, yes, but I am not a bitter woman.
Rather than logging on and typing like you are delusional about reality, you should be thankful that you haven’t had the types of experiences that others have had that would keep you from loving everything about men.
I dont want to generalize. I have had good experiences with men.. and bad ones too. But what I hate about men is their inability to cope with situations wherein the word “committment” would be involved. Not necessarily marriage. But they love to make women fall for them and once we are in that emotional high, they leave you flat like a rag doll. At first I thought that it was just one man who’d so such a thing. But I do notice that most men are like that. I just hope I’m wrong because if not, then… why are still some men around!!???
wow um whipped? I’ll cook for my guy but that’s only because I don’t want him to die from eating Taco Bell every other day. He can do everything else on his own. I’m not going to be his mommy.
It sad how weak women only feel fulfilled if they have a man. I however, do not need a man to “complete” me. Your life must be so sad.
You should consider yourself lucky that you enjoy your house wife style marriage. I have no problem with it, a matter a fact i would love to do things for the man i love. But do not judge us because not all our relationships have been so fairtale like and some of us, like myself, have been hurt time and time again by the men we have held so dear. If my man had propose a month ago i would have without a doubt said yes, but its a darn good thing he didnt, because i would have been swept away in the idea of having something like you have with the absolute wrong person. Not everyone is like you, and not everyone wants exactly what you have. And for the ones who do want it, it may not be so easy…
YOU SUCK! You’re the reason women continue to be slaves to dumbass men! You’re a freakin’ IDIOT!
You must be FAT!!!!
I absolutely adore my man, He treats me like a princess and I him, blah blah blah. However He knows how to turn on his bathwater. I’d do anything he asked me to, except give up myself to please him.
Here is my novel: I spent 17 years of my life with one man. I was the proverbial housewife. Cooked. cleaned, paid all of the bills, raised babies, blah blah blah. Over time I lost sight of who I was. I don’t blame him for that. I blame myself. He gradually got more and more controlling and I allowed it. At the end of my marriage my parents told me the strong person they had always admired was gone. I teared up hearing it but I knew it was true. My husband and I got to where we never did anything anymore. The final straw for me was when I decided at 37 to take up motorcycle riding and wanted to build a chopper to ride. He told me no I couldn’t take up riding because I’m a mom and it’s too dangerous. Side note: one of the things I loved about him when we were dating was he rode a Harley and a dirt bike. We had so much fun. Next he told me I wasn’t allowed to spend any of “our” money on a bike and then he said I wouldn’t have the ability to learn to build a chopper anyway. Well, I filed for divorce, took welding classes at my local technical school, bought a Ninja to learn to ride on and finally bought a chopper bike kit from Redneck Engineering. During the divorce he would literally cry in my face for hours. I felt horrible but I knew I couldn’t be with him so I continued. In the state I live in I could have gotten full custody of the kids, the house, child support, alimony and half the money in the account. But did I??? No I declined all of it because I didn’t want to “stick it to him” and hoped and believed we would be able to get along for the sake of our two kids. Well right after the divorce became final he turned into Satan. He changed the locks on the house and still to this day has a lot of my belongings, all of the photos of the kids, etc. He has been punishing me and screwing me for the 2 1/2 years since. The list of things he has done is long but just to name a few he badmouths me to the kids, ran off my first boyfriend stalking me at his house. My ex-father in law tried to get my last boyfriend fired because my kids were playing at his fire station during the day . My ex tells my kids that my current boyfriend who they love is a moron, idiot, etc. So to the woman who worships her great man, I hope for your sake he really is THAT good but not likely. He’s got it made so why shouldn’t he be GOOD. As soon as you decide you want more out of life you will see a side of him you never have, just like I did after 17 years.
BTW, since being single again, I have dated a “cured” sex addict who likes to drug women and have sex with them. Didn’t know this until months after dating. He also got someone pregnant while we were dating. Didn’t know this either until 1 year after I broke up with him. Then I casually dated a man for a couple of months who I thought was the bomb. He told me he was divorced but 3 days after I finally slept with him he informed me the divorce was never finalized and he still lived with his wife. She ended up serving him divorce papers at work for real….hmmm. My current but soon to be ex-boyfriend has started exhibiting so many issues himself after 10 months of dating that I don’t even want to go into it. Unfortunately I was an idiot with him because I actually thought he was “different” so I broke my rule and allowed him to move into my home. Now I have to deal with getting his sorry a** out of the home I work my tail off to pay for. So yes I HATE MEN!!!!
Yep, sure you do… I was an idiot once… wait till theat person you have built your life around takes a dump on you… You will have nothing left because all your eggs are in his basket ! What you have is neediness and depandance, not love… love was created by people who were lucky to make it to 21 without being eaten by dinasaurs.
The poster wasn’t a woman….that was a MAN, man!
To AA, I’m so glad you got your life back. I imagine it can become so mind numbing being that subservient… Sorry, if I offended you.
oh please whoever started this topic is clearly a man….only a man would write that and have us believe that there is one woman out there with a perfect man….there are none! just another dipshit man who thought it would be funny to start this new topic…..take your mind games elsewhere penis holder
so what else do you do for him…..wipe hiss ass?you are the sad one….sorry darling but it;s true
Yeahhhh um… all you did was list things he lets you do for him. You can do the same things for a child, a dog, a DOLL… I kind of want to hear why “getting” to do that crap for him is worth it before believing he’s so wonderful BECAUSE you get to be his idiot slave.
I’m sorry, but he’s never going to respect you long-term either. Your doing all this stuff (if it really is one-sided effort… ignore me if he’s doing nice things for you in return) seems like an investment in his guilt later when he gets bored and thinks of leaving and/or cheating. I don’t know why I’m saying this though since a man obviously posted that.
hell yeah…men are total shit baskets.
really? f*ckin really? i’m not sayin it’s for everyone, and i’m most definitely not sayin it’s for me, but would you give this woman a break?! maybe this is how she wants her life to go. maybe her dream for herself was to grow up and marry and have children and play house and the whole nine. isn’t that the american dream? and i don’t mean literally. i mean that the american dream is to become successful however you deem as such. not how a group of catty b*tches deem as such. oh, and JC? YOU’RE the reason women continue to be slaves to dumbass men. it’s women like you all who give us a bad name. we’re supposed to support eachother. we’re supposed to help eachother through both good and bad times. if women aren’t going to help us figure sh*t out then who will? you all should be ashamed of yourselves. you’ve got no right to judge someone for living their life the way they want to.
@tmy75…I haven’t heard anything that you do for yourself. I know he is your husband and all….but I would never get so wrapped up in my man that I forget how to concentrate on myself, but if that’s what makes you happy….I guess that’s watsup then, I guess???????
there’s no way a woman wrote this entry; definitely an angry man on the other side of the keyboard for this one XD
cooks every night? if you are a woman, i feel very sorry for you. you sound like a 1950s housewife slave. let us know how that works out for you
@mm : this type of woman is what sends us backwards into women’s suffrage once again.
instead of acting like second class citizens, let us act like a respectable human being–NOT an obedient housewife.
god, i’m glad i have an education.
well im totally shocked at this woman,
it’s 1 thing loving men but to base your whole life round one seems very extreme and needy!!
my man is a man’s man and i like men like that but there is a limit and the day he starts expecting me to act like an old housewife is the day he is out!!!
The OP is either a man or a “mommie” to a man.
ohh my god.. the first response to this thread actually made me laugh so hard i nearly pissed me pants…. TROLL…………………LOL
You’re pathetic.
Well considering you do everything for him…. just wait sista! You’ll be on here or over at I HATE MY HUSBAND.COM bitching because he’s a LAZY, and expects you to do everything! And you, my dear perpetuated the ENTIRE situation. Have fun with that!
Lol, this is the funniest thread ever…
I believe you tmy75
Where do you live, so I can steal him and kidnap him, and test that unauthorized alien passing as a husband of yours!
I suspect he’s the one sleeping with my sister!
If it ain’t him, tell to us bitter women, how did you got him?Maybe we can really learn something from you. Or be really jealous… specially if you have a career, own your own house, make your own money and get flowers every single day from that husband of yours! Was that you in Bora-Bora last Summer?Was that him kissing your feet?
Unless you are a gay transconfused-man, we could really learn from such blissful woman! Who knows maybe even worship you!
Don’t mind for the other sisters, we’ve been living in the real world for so long, we forgot everything else! The fact is that men are amazing, speacially when they cheat and wash our brain to serve them quietly, and happilly! Hmmm… you’ve never got one of those?They are really amazing, or maybe your husband is just like one of those, is he? I tottally understand why you love everything about them! We bitter woman have been seeing it all wrong!
You are not from anywhere close to Stepford town are you? I heard they have a clone doll exactly like Nicole Kidman, and she is very happy with her husband, just like you!!!
Noooo! I know! You discovered it! You have found a way to make him obedient and completely slave to your wishes… you are using the food, that’s why you love to cook for him!!! Tell us the secret, common don’t be selfish! You are gonna be rich, with the patent!
Or he is stincky rich men, and you are poisoning the food to take the money when he dies, that’s perfect!
Oh and Hugh Hefner is not a husband! But i’m sure you love everything about him too!
Yes…now make me a sandwich.
Hey I do the same thing!! I love my man! Cook for him, run his bath and pick up after him. But my little guy is only 3yrs old!!!!!
I suppose that is what you need to keep a guy, but how will you feel when he dumps you because you became nothing more than a cook and maid. and all of a sudden he is telling you how great some other chick is because she is so worldly and independing. Wake up honey.
I am so happy that I am a strong independent woman now, who has no need for any man in my life. I used to be a sad housewife who gave everything up for a man and what he put me through was so horrific, I will never ever be with a man again. I feel physically sick just imagining a man living in my house expecting me to clean and cook for him. Fuck that. Never gonna happen. I am one selfish bitch now and I’m loving it. I am single, free and no ugly man owns me and treats me like his possession. I could never be a naive disillusional woman again. I would rather slit my own throat and drown in my own blood again then have any man touch me. It’s true men are wonderful and amazing when you’re doing things for them, and making them happy, but as soon as you start thinking for yourself and want more than a sad loser, then out comes satan intent on ruining your life! Honest to god, if any man touches me again I will fucking kill him. Also, I’m not bitter with just my ex-husband, i’m very bitter with every man i ever trusted with a tiny part of my heart only to be seriously disappointed in the most shittiest way. They can all stay the fuck away from me. I just want to live in a woman’s world where men aren’t even needed.
Also, it is so obvious that thread was started from a man. God, they think we are such idiots don’t they. But in the end, they always make themselves look like the complete idiot.
Caz–That is just hilarious. I am actually snickering from my computer in my hotel room right now.