by qpogger18
Husbands REALLY DO SUCK
10:50 am in I Hate Men by qpogger18
I met my hubby about 2.5 years ago. He was very sweet, texting me all the time how he missed me and wanted to be with me. And all he asked for was a hug. He made me stop talking to all of my guy friends, even the fat and ugly ones I never had a crush on. He was sweet for a while, until after we got married and he used the rest of my savings, which was thousands of dollars. His brother calls me an ugly bitch, and he doesn’t defend me. He looks at porn continuously, even though I get upset and cry every time. He lies incessantly about looking at porn, claiming not to, even when I catch him red-handed. He goes on naked dating sites. He goes on my computer and gets viruses even when I don’t want him on certain sites on my computer. I pay all the bills. When I try to talk to him about how I feel, he tells me I need therapy. Um…women want someone special who will treat them like they are special. I’m a woman and I feel that way. I don’t need therapy. He doesn’t want pictures of me, but he wants pictures of naked women on the internet…etc, etc…
Honey… leave him now. You don’t deserve this jerk. He’s only causing a detriment to your life. The problem is, most men are like that. Men are products of their raw desires, and will seek gratification in any way, regardless of the consequences. Most importantly, you can’t be involved in a serious relationship with a man.
My last boyfriend was similar, although he didn’t spend my money (since I wouldn’t allow access to it.)
But seriously, that guy needs to get lost.
Anyway, good luck.
WOW! Is his name Jeremy? I swear that is my last boyfriend. RUN as fast as you can. It sounds like he is a sex addict like my last one was. He actually received treatment for it years before I came along and swore he was “cured”. Huge red flag right there. I didn’t know this until months after dating him. It is a sickness that from what I understand actually doesn’t have anything to do with sex. You can never give him enough to make him stop so please don’t doubt yourself. I fear he is doing way more than you even know. I am normally a confident self assured woman and he totally screwed me up. PLEASE, I will say it again…RUN!!!
Awww Hun, I Dont Know What To Say But I Feel I Need To Say Something. You Need To Leave Him, Run While You Have a Chance. I HAVE DONE IT. Though My Husband Never Had Access To My Money And I Never Slept With Him The P***k Had A Stack Of Porn and even Cheated With Prostitute None The Less. I Just Think Your Better Off Without. He Doesnt Stick Up For You. By The Sounds Of It Uses You. In My Opinion You Need To leave For Yourself. For Your Own Good. You Deserve Better. And i wish you all the best.
pick up whats left of your self esteem and money and leave… why complain about something you have control over… send him down the road
I’m with Lesia, just a product of their raw desires – i like that! and it’s true.
I remember i let my ex boyfriend watch porn – i personally didn’t see the harm in it…but i should have. I was just so god damn naive! Not only was he looking at porn but he was joining those internet dating websites with profiles that marked him as single and looking for love!!
When i found that out i dumped him on the spot…..but as well, leaving him was a long time coming. For me, that was the final straw. I had already realised before then that i didn’t respect him and therefore without respect how could i truly love him?
Your husband sounds like someone who you probably don’t have a lot of respect for, mainly because he is showing no respect for you. Don’t let that asshole convince you that you’re crazy…..another reason why i hate men, they are sooo good at twisting your own values and opinions and making you think you’re wrong, or hysterical, or …..psycho ring a bell?!
Men drive us to insanity! But don’t let him drive you! Drive his ass out of your life and the hell away from your bank account….
Find the strength you need….it won’t happen right away. Everyone here knows that. It’s not just as simple to make a decision and say “yeah i’m leaving right now!”….You’re attached to him and married to him and you will probably struggle to let go but don’t let that stop you from making the decision. Just know what you want from life and start looking for the means to make it happen.
You are a strong beauitful woman – i don’t care if it’s a cliche because it’s true! Just telling us is your first step….just do what you need to do now….good luck
My boyfriend was looking at porn I was every up set with him I let him k ow that of o ever caught him looking at porn I will leave his sorry ass . Now he is not allowed to use the computer. Sometime we have to stand up and let them know you will not put up with there bull shit.
It won’t matter if he is denied access to the computer at home. He will find another way to see it. I have been through hell on the ‘net with a man for 5 years. I trapped him numerous times in on line sex sites (such as adult friend finder) by making fake profiles, luring him in like the slimy fish that he is, and despite being caught, knowing he broke my heart over and over – and yes, I was an idiot to forgive him that many times – he continued to go on line. It wasn’t that he wasn’t getting what he wanted with me, he just was a greedy SOB who wanted more. I have discovered in my life of relationships with men that they are truly driven by obsessive need for sexual gratification and are secretive and incapable of honesty where this is concerned. So they lie, sneak, deceive, and ultimately crush the spirits of women who love them. Guard your heart well and never believe he won’t find a way to access porn – he just will go out of his way to never be caught again.
DUMP THE STUPID ASSHOLE!