Just can’t trust anybody anymore.
9:57 am in I Hate Men by bhindblueeyez
I met my ex on a popular MMO as well. He seemed to be everything I wanted, I even bought a passport & was planning to visit him. I for the first time in my life wanted to get married to someone. I felt he was different & THE ONE. In August out of the blue he started to ignore me.Our communication was almost nonexistent & when we did talk it was usually arguing because of how things were. He would accuse me of things which were not true & in the end I’d always apologize for everything & feel like it was my fault.
In Sept he said he had lost his job & has a kid which he kept a secret from me since he knew how much I just don’t really care for kids. Whatever, I was foolish to forgive him & he begged me to come see him so I bought a plane ticket for $462. A week to the time I was to leave he vanished blocked me from his life. So I was hurt beyond anything. Out the blue in Nov he contacted me & he apologized saying he was scared that he wasn’t good enough for me, etc etc. Wanted me to see him in Jan & he claimed he would pay the extra to get me there since my ticket is non-refundable & there were fees attached if I were to use it.He said he would do whatever he could to prove himself to me. Well he sure did prove something, that he is an inconsiderate a-hole. He has the personality traits of a sociopath. After he decided during an argument to talk down to me worse than anyone ever has I ended things. He also claimed that he had a girlfriend, loved someone else, etc etc. Just cursing like a psycho calling me every name in the book.
I deserve better. He was emotionally and verbally abusive & also a liar.
Sorry to hear this. Personally I can’t have a long distance relationship with anyone because I have trust issues. You were really nice and patient ANd I commend you.
Be glad you found out how flakey he is now and move on. Do somehting constructive with your life. Positive energy draws positive energy. When someone sees you doing something for yourself and not running around looking needy, you will attract the kind of man you want. Associate with people that are doing things and going places. This is 2010, get in there and live your life to the fullest.
I wish you would have gotten rid of him when he first lied to you about his child and started treating you as if YOU had the problem. Just be glad that you’re rid of him. That guy sounds like a serious asshole.
i hate how you can go into an argument so sure that you have darn good reasons for being mad and then end up the one apologizing for stupid crap in the end, while the man gets out of the argument apology free. my guy does it to me all the time. i will have a good reason to be mad, i call him up, he turns it around on me, and in the end i am the one crying on the phone and begging to be forgiven. its stupid!