Whose fault is it anyway?

Hating a gender seems to take on the very characteristics of hating a race. Racism? just a little?
However, I think Hating Men and/or Women never started like Racism did. Racism just sort of happened cause some people didn’t like the way another set of people looked, but Sexism became a big issue due to each others actions.
A lot of men claim: it’s all women’s fault!
and many more women claim: it’s the men’s fault we are the way we are!

It’s not one person or another faults we are the way we are or that things became this way. It happened because one person decided to do it one way then another decided to follow and yet another and more; now everyone’s got issues with each other.

Men are naturally primal, therefore proud one-sided creatures. They think of themselves before they can manage to think of others. It’s their nature. Sorry girls. Exceptions? Hmmm, hardly none. Gay men, i think would be the only one.
However, it doesn’t mean they have no hearts or they don’t care. it just mean they don’t think. Their mind is on a different wave link. IQ levels are usually low. I have to say that. Those with amazing IQ levels tho have so social skills whatsoever. It’s hard to find anything either way. The “head” they mostly think with isn’t where a woman’s usually is. It’s a downfall, but Women cannot claim to be anymore special either…

Women are naturally domestic. staying at home, taking care of children, doing housework, blah, blah, blah. That’s a lot of what I have seen too growing up, but now in Today’s Time, Women are taking matters into their own hands: getting degrees and working careers. Lala Lala Lala…
Here’s maybe our downfall then. We have become so successful that we developed the Bow-Down-To-Me attitude. When a man, being himself, doesn’t, We scream, I HATE MEN! The End.
Ever think, He doesn’t think like that… How do you present yourself?
Example of how I present myself:
Serious, but a hint of playful.
I have a No-Bullshit attitude with a face to match it, but be straight up and honest with me with everything and BAM! New Best Friend.

You have your exceptions who wanna blow their husbands money cause they think of only themselves, but then they think like their husbands. Don’t they?

Men know what loyalty is, they just don’t see the importance in it when with a woman. How loyal are Die-Hard Fans to sports teams? Sports is their primal-feeding addiction. They have to be loyal. Temptation like another woman is a weakness.
Women are loyal naturally only because they are content with being at home. Women who are given a way out even if it means being unloyal, will occasionally take it, but most likely not only cause they want their life to stay As IS. That is a weakness.
We are only as strong as our weakness, aren’t we?

Now that of all I have said I still cannot give the proper advice. No one really can. People will surprise you. One way or another. What works in one situation cannot work in every situation. We must adjust. So I do not say side with one or the other. Hating or loving, but simply work with what you have. Expect the worst, Hope for the best.

My Best…

This post was submitted by Annastasia.

http://n/a JustSingle

I’m sick of hoping for the best and getting the worst. As women are progressing in the work-force and standing up for their rights, men are lagging behind. I ask, where are all the progressive men out there? Sad truth is men want a hot loyal dumbie at home and women don’t want to get old alone. As long as women keep pushing themselves, eventually men will have to adjust their perspective of what it means to be a valuable female partner. I guess that is the best that I hope for in the future.
Alan Brockman

I don’t think it either the men’s fault or the women’s fault. I think that us men do not know what and women do not know what we want because we don’t think the same way as women think and women don’t think the same way as we think. I’m a man of 51 years old and have had a couple of relationships with a woman. One seven months after breaking up with the other one. I have had a lot of female friend in the past and I still don’t understand women. I don’t know what they expect from me. I’ve always treated them with respect whether they past girlfriends or just friends. I’ve always been a gentleman with them. Every one of them were pleased with my good manners in the beginning and then after awhile nothing I’d do would please them anymore. Every woman that I was involved with at the time would tell me that I’m not the way I used to be and the compliments that I used to get would turn into insults. I’m still the same person as before. I just don’t feel comfortable with the woman that I am with because I don’t know how please her anymore no matter what I do. I just can’t get things back to the way it was no matter how much I try. That’s been every woman that I’ve ever been involved with. I’m sure I’m not alone in this. I’m sure all you men who treat women with respect have gone through the same thing as me.Maybe we’re just trying too hard or maybe we are just thinking at a man’s point of view of what pleases a woman and we might just be way off base resulted in getting insults of praise we think we’re going to get. I don’t know what the problem is but I know that if men understood women and women understood men we would all be in great relationships.