Should I keep this going??
I met this guy about 4 months ago. He’s very charming, he is 34y/o and is 10 yrs older than me. He makes me feel really special and is great to me…BUT I goggled him one day…(I know) and all these blogs were saying that he used to be a pornstar and how bad he treated the girls that were in the porn films with him and how he had a 2-week romance with a zillion porn chick!! I tried not to think too much because i thought “oh its just the past..”
The other day I saw 2 empty bottles of Cialis in his trash can in the bathroom…empty???? hmmm…I dont even get to see him that often and these are empty??? Suspicious right?
I really like him a lot though but sometimes I feel like I’m being used and that he doesn’t see just me..I don’t know what to do. I find myself asking this question very often “should I stay or should I go?
He tells me he loves me and all and would ask if I loved him back..he is very sweet but you know what?? sometimes it is impossible to get a hold of him! OMG! When he goes out of town he is literally “gone” i hear nothing from him til he gets back.
Well, I dont know what to do. Any advice please???
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You should never trust an older charming, successful guy’s ‘going out of town’ . Be either prepared for what you eventually find out, or make it impossible for him.
Also, the porn thing. Not good!
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I think you didi ur background check for a reason. Don’t fool yourself. Us girls do that a hell of a lot. the simplest answer normally is the right one. Let him go
Honey, your first instinct is almost always the correct one. Be smart, not just with your body, but with your heart too.
You are only 24, so I’m going to be gentle with you.
First, older men like young women because it’s a huge ego boost. Men also objectify women as sex objects and possessions. They want the latest model, and to be seen and admired by other men.
Second, he does porn and you’re sleeping with him. WHY? Is he trying to break you into the bus? Most men will bang anything with a heartbeat, a guy in porn has an endless supply of women, and possibly other men. Huge disease risk, condoms or not.
Last, but certainly not least, he isn’t going out of town, he’s having orgies. In the age of cell phones and instant access to everything, you’re saying you can’t get in touch with him?? He having sex with others and doesn’t want trouble himself by talking to you. When he wants you again he picks up the phone. It’s that simple.
I’m sure he’s a great lay, and I’m sure he’s charming and fun when you’re together. But you really should raise your standards, you’re young take advantage of that.
Just so you know, there is a daily Cialis men can take.
Your thinking of something like Viagra or regular Cialis. Men take those when they are about to have sex.
Daily Cialis is a pill men take EVERYDAY, so they are always ready to have sex.
That might exlain the empty bottles of Cialis in the trash.
If he loved you, he would be accessible. Period.
If you found all these things online, and you can determine without a doubt that it's him. Then run. You are wasting your time.
…….The other day I saw 2 empty bottles of Cialis in his trash can in the bathroom…empty???? hmmm…I dont even get to see him that often and these are empty??? Suspicious right?
I really like him a lot though but sometimes I feel like I’m being used and that he doesn’t see just me..I don’t know what to do. I find myself asking this question very often “should I stay or should I go?……
I agree with Dave …. run and run fast. The very fact that you ask yourself that question.. and you have seen the evidence means he is NOT the one for you. You will find someone better.
Ummmmmmm…why the fuck are you with a guy that use to star in porn?!?!? That’s fucked up! My God, leave…leave, leave, leave.
If he is using Cialis in his thirties, then he hasn’t left the porn industry. He needs this stuff for a reason, and it probably explains why you can’t reach him when he is “out of town.” PLEASE don’t waste another second with this guy – get out before he gives you an HPV (and a condom won’t prevent it, it is spread through the entire pelvic area.)
Used to be a porn star, is on erection enhancing medication, regularly goes out of town and you can’t contact him when he does… and you really don’t know what to do? Come on, have some more self respect. Guys will use you if you let them. He could have a sex addiction… but it does sound like he’s sleeping around
i wish i dated a pornstar.
yea i think he is doing something behind your back no matter what it is hes lying. if he did love you he would at least txt you to how your doing even if he is ‘busy’. what if something happened to you and your in the hospital? hes gonna come back and be all ‘im sorry baby i love you ‘ thats bs to me if hes hiding shit then hes not worth your time cuz thats not a relationship. im thinking he left the empty bottles in his bathroom trash for you to find if you ask me…