Comments on: I can’t let him go… http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/07/27/i-cant-let-him-go/ World's Largest Women Driven Social Media Website Tue, 07 Feb 2012 22:48:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: paulie.supakit http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/07/27/i-cant-let-him-go/comment-page-1/#comment-6194 paulie.supakit Sat, 29 Aug 2009 07:08:10 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=524#comment-6194 thank you guys for all your very helpful comments. thank you guys for all your very helpful comments.

]]> By: persephone http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/07/27/i-cant-let-him-go/comment-page-1/#comment-6122 persephone Sun, 23 Aug 2009 23:06:31 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=524#comment-6122 I have been in the exact same situation for the past two years. Im still trying to get my life together. One thing that you have to keep in mind, is that if he really wanted to be with you, he would make it happen. If you really were anything more than just fun to him, he would have made an effort. Cry, mourne, and then carry on with your life... i have to ... hope you can too. I have been in the exact same situation for the past two years. Im still trying to get my life together. One thing that you have to keep in mind, is that if he really wanted to be with you, he would make it happen. If you really were anything more than just fun to him, he would have made an effort.

Cry, mourne, and then carry on with your life… i have to … hope you can too.

]]> By: Alma Wilson http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/07/27/i-cant-let-him-go/comment-page-1/#comment-6114 Alma Wilson Sun, 23 Aug 2009 14:42:13 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=524#comment-6114 I can't let him go-Don't you think you're letting your own life go? Why remain an option in his life while you make him a priority in yours? At 23, you have your whole life ahead of you. But the choice: Is this what you want? That is the question. I can’t let him go-Don’t you think you’re letting your own life go? Why remain an option in his life while you make him a priority in yours? At 23, you have your whole life ahead of you. But the choice: Is this what you want? That is the question.

]]> By: a better woman http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/07/27/i-cant-let-him-go/comment-page-1/#comment-5623 a better woman Mon, 27 Jul 2009 15:38:06 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=524#comment-5623 Paulie when you are with a "loser" he is going to do the stuff that losers do. He didn't have anything else to do while he was jobless, and you were fun to him. Giving him the benefit of the doubt...It may be a the case where he can only focus on one thing at a time, and since it is his job - that may be all that he can do. Also, the fact that he is away does not help the situation. Maybe when he returns you may be able to salvage the relationship, but it seems he has other priorities right now. Focus on you... the pain will subside, and you will realize that you can let go. Paulie when you are with a “loser” he is going to do the stuff that losers do. He didn’t have anything else to do while he was jobless, and you were fun to him.

Giving him the benefit of the doubt…It may be a the case where he can only focus on one thing at a time, and since it is his job – that may be all that he can do. Also, the fact that he is away does not help the situation. Maybe when he returns you may be able to salvage the relationship, but it seems he has other priorities right now.

Focus on you… the pain will subside, and you will realize that you can let go.

]]> By: Bonnie http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/07/27/i-cant-let-him-go/comment-page-1/#comment-5621 Bonnie Mon, 27 Jul 2009 14:20:33 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=524#comment-5621 I understand how you feel cause i have been down the road of rejection and feeling lonely but you have to look deep inside yourself and find who you were before you got emotionally involved with this low life. There is one thing you have to learn about men is that most of them look at women as objects and not as partners. We are just temporary to most of them. Many men find it easy to just walk away and we as women are left standing in the dark wondering what the hell did I do wrong? You did nothing wrong. You took a risk at companionship and got hurt and that is what happens when we open our hearts to people whether it be a man or woman or family or friends. Do you want to sit around feeling sorry for yourself or do you want to feel strong and wise? I could go on and on about this but I leave you with this thought "If there was no bad in the world and no pain and suffering we would take the great parts of life for granted" Enjoy life till it is over and stand up for what you believe in and never let them see you sweat. I understand how you feel cause i have been down the road of rejection and feeling lonely but you have to look deep inside yourself and find who you were before you got emotionally involved with this low life. There is one thing you have to learn about men is that most of them look at women as objects and not as partners. We are just temporary to most of them. Many men find it easy to just walk away and we as women are left standing in the dark wondering what the hell did I do wrong? You did nothing wrong. You took a risk at companionship and got hurt and that is what happens when we open our hearts to people whether it be a man or woman or family or friends. Do you want to sit around feeling sorry for yourself or do you want to feel strong and wise? I could go on and on about this but I leave you with this thought “If there was no bad in the world and no pain and suffering we would take the great parts of life for granted” Enjoy life till it is over and stand up for what you believe in and never let them see you sweat.

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