Comments on: Lost in the Texts http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/ World's Largest Women Driven Social Media Website Tue, 07 Feb 2012 22:48:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Linda http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-6297 Linda Sun, 06 Sep 2009 00:42:41 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-6297 ...It's done...feeling angry and empty at the same time... …It’s done…feeling angry and empty at the same time…

]]> By: Linda http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-6281 Linda Fri, 04 Sep 2009 23:09:26 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-6281 I'm really hating men right now...! I’m really hating men right now…!

]]> By: Linda http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-6280 Linda Fri, 04 Sep 2009 23:08:04 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-6280 having a rough time with my mother being ill...She's 78..my dad drinking to much...omg...told him my frustrations about my neighbor not wanting to sleep w her husband... told him they just don't know what they have... said he doesn't know either that it's starting to go away..he had no clue what I meant. told him our "non relationship" relationship was starting to go away..he had no clue...I asked my man what i've been waiting for for the past two years (which he initially asked for)...he wasn't able to answer.... having a rough time with my mother being ill…She’s 78..my dad drinking to much…omg…told him my frustrations about my neighbor not wanting to sleep w her husband… told him they just don’t know what they have… said he doesn’t know either that it’s starting to go away..he had no clue what I meant. told him our “non relationship” relationship was starting to go away..he had no clue…I asked my man what i’ve been waiting for for the past two years (which he initially asked for)…he wasn’t able to answer….

]]> By: bonnie http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-6232 bonnie Mon, 31 Aug 2009 20:54:28 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-6232 I read your post and my advice to you is to get back to square one (you). Here is an example of what needs to be done. If you meet a guy that you think has potential start off slowly. If he talks about sex tell him politely that you are not that type of woman and that if he is that type of guy then bye bye. Have tons of respect for yourself I am speaking from experience that most men will not pass up a chance to have a one night stand. There are lots of men that are only looking for sex aand they will tell you everything you want to hear just to get it. I know disgusting right? Well you just remember that you are 1 in a million and its due time to start feeling like it. Everyone gets lonely and depressed so you are not alone but when you feel that way dont you dare lower your standards to get a man. If he does not want you because you wont sleep with him then what makes you think you would want to be with a selfish pig like that. I want you to do one thing find a song and listen to it over and over it is called I choose by India Arie Good luck sweetheart and keep your head up I read your post and my advice to you is to get back to square one (you). Here is an example of what needs to be done. If you meet a guy that you think has potential start off slowly. If he talks about sex tell him politely that you are not that type of woman and that if he is that type of guy then bye bye. Have tons of respect for yourself I am speaking from experience that most men will not pass up a chance to have a one night stand. There are lots of men that are only looking for sex aand they will tell you everything you want to hear just to get it. I know disgusting right? Well you just remember that you are 1 in a million and its due time to start feeling like it. Everyone gets lonely and depressed so you are not alone but when you feel that way dont you dare lower your standards to get a man. If he does not want you because you wont sleep with him then what makes you think you would want to be with a selfish pig like that. I want you to do one thing find a song and listen to it over and over it is called I choose by India Arie Good luck sweetheart and keep your head up

]]> By: Linda http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-6042 Linda Wed, 19 Aug 2009 02:44:31 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-6042 I know how you feel...my friend, whom I've had a relationship with for the past 1.5 years but does not acknowledge that we have a relationship.....just sexual,,,just texts me...no phone calls....he's known how I've felt about him for the last year...I'm so in love with this man... but I'm soooo willing to end it because it's not a good thing for me.... I just need to be strong and say no when he comes to town.... I know how you feel…my friend, whom I’ve had a relationship with for the past 1.5 years but does not acknowledge that we have a relationship…..just sexual,,,just texts me…no phone calls….he’s known how I’ve felt about him for the last year…I’m so in love with this man… but I’m soooo willing to end it because it’s not a good thing for me…. I just need to be strong and say no when he comes to town….

]]> By: Julie http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-5644 Julie Wed, 29 Jul 2009 04:22:35 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-5644 I think he has a girlfriend I think he has a girlfriend

]]> By: FedUp22 http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-5527 FedUp22 Tue, 14 Jul 2009 16:03:26 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-5527 Visit www.fedupwithmen.com Visit http://www.fedupwithmen.com

]]> By: Done213 http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-5522 Done213 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 19:50:38 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-5522 I think he's scared of being put on the spot and not knowing what to say, that's why he doesn't talk on the phone. But honestly, it sounds to me like you were his bootycall and now he doesn't want you to hate him so he's just talking through texts to make sure everything's fine. Don't ask him out on dates anymore, he needs to man up and ask to do something with you. Next time you two spend time together, play hard-to-get a little so you can see what his intentions really are. I'm not saying be a bitch but don't buy everything he says. I think he’s scared of being put on the spot and not knowing what to say, that’s why he doesn’t talk on the phone. But honestly, it sounds to me like you were his bootycall and now he doesn’t want you to hate him so he’s just talking through texts to make sure everything’s fine. Don’t ask him out on dates anymore, he needs to man up and ask to do something with you. Next time you two spend time together, play hard-to-get a little so you can see what his intentions really are. I’m not saying be a bitch but don’t buy everything he says.

]]> By: Sara http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-5478 Sara Tue, 23 Jun 2009 23:04:06 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-5478 Pretty nice post. I just stumbled upon your site and wanted to say that I've really enjoyed reading your blog posts. Any way I'll be subscribing to your feed and I hope you post again soon! Pretty nice post. I just stumbled upon your site and wanted to say
that I’ve really enjoyed reading your blog posts. Any way
I’ll be subscribing to your feed and I hope you post again soon!

]]> By: ihateallmen http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-5451 ihateallmen Sat, 20 Jun 2009 06:57:00 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-5451 The guy is not ready for a mature relationship quite yet. Sounds like he lives in the basement of his parent's house. Let the guy go and spend more time on yourself rather than pursuing men. The guy is not ready for a mature relationship quite yet. Sounds like he lives in the basement of his parent’s house. Let the guy go and spend more time on yourself rather than pursuing men.

]]> By: jenny http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/19/lost-in-the-texts/comment-page-1/#comment-5448 jenny Fri, 19 Jun 2009 19:11:13 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=508#comment-5448 Don't take this the wrong way but you teach people how to treat you. My little secret is that all of the cliches about men "not buying the cow if they get the milk for free" are completely true. In other words most men are intrigued by women that don't have sex with them until they're in a fully commited relationship (at least 3 months with lots of dates and deep meaningful conversation). Men love innocence... Contrary to what cosmo and other girl magazines say. So don't kiss on the first date. In the mean time stop worrying about men and start developing yourself. Read books that teach you about subjects that intrest you. Learn an instrument. Take up painting. Make yourself into a more exotic and interesting girl... men will be less likely to pursue you for sex and see you as marriage and mate for life material. Lastly... Ask yourself if these guys that decieved you were really what you wanted... I mean come on! They were players and players are boring idiots. You're going to be way out of these guys leage and won't even attract them anymore once you've done some self reflection and realized that you're a magical interesting woman. Good luck! (this worked for me.) Don’t take this the wrong way but you teach people how to treat you. My little secret is that all of the cliches about men “not buying the cow if they get the milk for free” are completely true. In other words most men are intrigued by women that don’t have sex with them until they’re in a fully commited relationship (at least 3 months with lots of dates and deep meaningful conversation). Men love innocence… Contrary to what cosmo and other girl magazines say. So don’t kiss on the first date.

In the mean time stop worrying about men and start developing yourself. Read books that teach you about subjects that intrest you. Learn an instrument. Take up painting. Make yourself into a more exotic and interesting girl… men will be less likely to pursue you for sex and see you as marriage and mate for life material.

Lastly… Ask yourself if these guys that decieved you were really what you wanted… I mean come on! They were players and players are boring idiots. You’re going to be way out of these guys leage and won’t even attract them anymore once you’ve done some self reflection and realized that you’re a magical interesting woman.

Good luck! (this worked for me.)

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