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]]> By: Gigi http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/why-is-he-toying-with-my-emotions/comment-page-1/#comment-6988 Gigi Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:57:05 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=480#comment-6988 I have been in the same situation, only I was in his shoes and my guy was in yours. Coming from that perspective, I understand how it may seem like he is leading you on. However, I know what it's like to have your trust betrayed and your heart completely shattered (although, good for you for confessing and being honest about the other man. I was not so lucky in my own situation). He genuinely loves you and wants to be with you, but that broken trust and pain always comes back to haunt him. If he can't get over it, just end it. You'll both be miserable if you don't. I have been in the same situation, only I was in his shoes and my guy was in yours. Coming from that perspective, I understand how it may seem like he is leading you on. However, I know what it’s like to have your trust betrayed and your heart completely shattered (although, good for you for confessing and being honest about the other man. I was not so lucky in my own situation). He genuinely loves you and wants to be with you, but that broken trust and pain always comes back to haunt him. If he can’t get over it, just end it. You’ll both be miserable if you don’t.

]]> By: anon http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/why-is-he-toying-with-my-emotions/comment-page-1/#comment-6515 anon Sun, 20 Sep 2009 05:13:08 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=480#comment-6515 He toys with them because you allow it to happen. Do not play into his games. He toys with them because you allow it to happen. Do not play into his games.

]]> By: meandtheultimatedrivingmachine http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/why-is-he-toying-with-my-emotions/comment-page-1/#comment-5476 meandtheultimatedrivingmachine Tue, 23 Jun 2009 17:46:00 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=480#comment-5476 You are right, it seems based on what you wrote that he is still hurting. I think he probably does have feelings for you however the indiscretion is in the back of his mind. Not everyone can do this however; if he truly cared for you, wanted to make the relationship work and have you in his life then he would have sought a way to achieve that. It’s a difficult thing to do sometimes because when there’s no trust, there is typically no relationship. I do not condone him leading you on and making you believe that you both could start anew. I think when you both reconnected, this was an attempt at some type of reconciliation and he wanted to give it a whirl. Thereafter, he may have started to realize that he still couldn’t trust you as he should. I think he did want to be with you like before but it doesn’t seem like he can move past what happened. IF that is the case then he needed to level with you. In my opinion, I think it’s better to be open and honest then lead someone on and play with his/her emotions. That is how someone gets hurt….deeply. I think you’re better off seeking out someone new, who you can start a new relationship with and who will see you for the whole person you are. You deserve a man who treats you right, wants to be with you, have a relationship with you and realize that you are human, are prone to mistakes and hopefully can work with you and the relationship so it lasts. You are right, it seems based on what you wrote that he is still hurting. I think he probably does have feelings for you however the indiscretion is in the back of his mind. Not everyone can do this however; if he truly cared for you, wanted to make the relationship work and have you in his life then he would have sought a way to achieve that. It’s a difficult thing to do sometimes because when there’s no trust, there is typically no relationship.

I do not condone him leading you on and making you believe that you both could start anew. I think when you both reconnected, this was an attempt at some type of reconciliation and he wanted to give it a whirl. Thereafter, he may have started to realize that he still couldn’t trust you as he should. I think he did want to be with you like before but it doesn’t seem like he can move past what happened. IF that is the case then he needed to level with you. In my opinion, I think it’s better to be open and honest then lead someone on and play with his/her emotions. That is how someone gets hurt….deeply.

I think you’re better off seeking out someone new, who you can start a new relationship with and who will see you for the whole person you are. You deserve a man who treats you right, wants to be with you, have a relationship with you and realize that you are human, are prone to mistakes and hopefully can work with you and the relationship so it lasts.

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