Comments on: Fell in love with a boy…. http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/fell-in-love-with-a-boy/ World's Largest Women Driven Social Media Website Tue, 07 Feb 2012 23:55:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Done213 http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/fell-in-love-with-a-boy/comment-page-1/#comment-5521 Done213 Thu, 09 Jul 2009 19:39:46 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=479#comment-5521 I am going through the exact same thing as you right now. Just when I thought me and my boyfriend were finally good, he says he doesn't want to be with me anymore. Have you ever hurt him in the past by leaving him? Maybe he was scared you would leave him again and experience that pain again so he just left you instead. Not a smart choice, I know... but a lot of men seem to not make very smart choices. I want you to remember that this is just a break up and it happens all the time, it's not the end of the world. You are strong and beautiful. I can already tell that there's someone much better out there for you. Stay confident and please don't let him back in your life. If he has hurt you this much already, please don't even risk it from happening again. I agree with the meandtheultimatedrivingmachine that you should get rid of everything that reminds you of him. It is the first step of letting go. Also, have a girls night out and go to a bar or somewhere with a lot of guys around. Just have fun and do anything that takes your mind off of him. Remember, sometimes good things fall apart only so that better things can fall together. I am going through the exact same thing as you right now. Just when I thought me and my boyfriend were finally good, he says he doesn’t want to be with me anymore. Have you ever hurt him in the past by leaving him? Maybe he was scared you would leave him again and experience that pain again so he just left you instead. Not a smart choice, I know… but a lot of men seem to not make very smart choices. I want you to remember that this is just a break up and it happens all the time, it’s not the end of the world. You are strong and beautiful. I can already tell that there’s someone much better out there for you. Stay confident and please don’t let him back in your life. If he has hurt you this much already, please don’t even risk it from happening again. I agree with the meandtheultimatedrivingmachine that you should get rid of everything that reminds you of him. It is the first step of letting go. Also, have a girls night out and go to a bar or somewhere with a lot of guys around. Just have fun and do anything that takes your mind off of him. Remember, sometimes good things fall apart only so that better things can fall together.

]]> By: meandtheultimatedrivingmachine http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/fell-in-love-with-a-boy/comment-page-1/#comment-5468 meandtheultimatedrivingmachine Mon, 22 Jun 2009 18:36:45 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=479#comment-5468 It is unfair that he is playing with your emotions like this...a clear indication of his disrespectful behavior and immaturity. Something more is going on with him, whether he is afraid of the emotions he has for you or something else. All I can advise you on is this: Hang in there! Cry if you want to, beat the crap out of a pillow etc. to release your emotions. Next, dispose of any gifts, cards, letters, text messages, pics etc. from the relationship. You need to extricate these memories so it will help you try to move on. Make sure you take his number out of your cell and do not call, text, page or contact him. Your intuition has already told you that is he not a healthy choice. Listen to it. Right now, you’re enveloped in the emotional feelings you have for him. These are the most difficult ones to deal with, process and forget. When someone loves you, he/she is not supposed to hurt you, lie, lead you on, disrespect or play with your emotions. He will want to be with you, build you up, learn everything that there is to know about you, help you achieve your dreams be your best friend….. Take it day by day, that is the bets thing you can do. Some will be easier than others but in the end remember…you will heal. Good luck. It is unfair that he is playing with your emotions like this…a clear indication of his disrespectful behavior and immaturity.

Something more is going on with him, whether he is afraid of the emotions he has for you or something else.

All I can advise you on is this: Hang in there! Cry if you want to, beat the crap out of a pillow etc. to release your emotions. Next, dispose of any gifts, cards, letters, text messages, pics etc. from the relationship. You need to extricate these memories so it will help you try to move on. Make sure you take his number out of your cell and do not call, text, page or contact him.

Your intuition has already told you that is he not a healthy choice. Listen to it. Right now, you’re enveloped in the emotional feelings you have for him. These are the most difficult ones to deal with, process and forget. When someone loves you, he/she is not supposed to hurt you, lie, lead you on, disrespect or play with your emotions. He will want to be with you, build you up, learn everything that there is to know about you, help you achieve your dreams be your best friend…..

Take it day by day, that is the bets thing you can do. Some will be easier than others but in the end remember…you will heal.

Good luck.

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