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		<title>By: Susan Miller25</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-23131</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan Miller25</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 00:51:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>pathetic you are no one is responsible for you other than you god help this poor sap for having put up with your narcisitic nonsense in the first place get over your self princess he`s best of out of it and you better get over your controlling narcascitic behaviour quick smart if your having a baby  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>pathetic you are no one is responsible for you other than you god help this poor sap for having put up with your narcisitic nonsense in the first place get over your self princess he`s best of out of it and you better get over your controlling narcascitic behaviour quick smart if your having a baby  </p>
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		<title>By: Janie</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-7067</link>
		<dc:creator>Janie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 08:10:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is such a deeper issue. Scares me to say it because I find myself sitting in the same boat from time to time. If your self esteem is in the pits, you will keep losers like this in your life. And it&#039;s a self-fulfilling cycle: the more you keep gameplayers in your life, the more hits your self esteem takes, thus the more likely you are to take the gameplayer back. Either you break the cycle and get some help to build up your self esteem and work on yourself, or it keeps happening.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is such a deeper issue. Scares me to say it because I find myself sitting in the same boat from time to time. If your self esteem is in the pits, you will keep losers like this in your life. And it&#8217;s a self-fulfilling cycle: the more you keep gameplayers in your life, the more hits your self esteem takes, thus the more likely you are to take the gameplayer back. Either you break the cycle and get some help to build up your self esteem and work on yourself, or it keeps happening.</p>
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		<title>By: Jess</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-6961</link>
		<dc:creator>Jess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 13:04:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Know what tell him to go fuck himself, i think a lot of women are scared to get rid of these men, i&#039;m proud of geting rid of my moronic ex who had given me alot of abuse, makes you feel good for standing up for yourself</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Know what tell him to go fuck himself, i think a lot of women are scared to get rid of these men, i&#8217;m proud of geting rid of my moronic ex who had given me alot of abuse, makes you feel good for standing up for yourself</p>
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		<title>By: Vanessapeniscruncher</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vanessapeniscruncher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 21:49:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The sign of a truly mature man - sex games! 

 honny just play along! Men need sex more than we do anyway, the stats show they get diseases if they don&#039;t get it 3 x a week. Explains their UFO behaviour!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The sign of a truly mature man &#8211; sex games! </p>
<p> honny just play along! Men need sex more than we do anyway, the stats show they get diseases if they don&#8217;t get it 3 x a week. Explains their UFO behaviour!</p>
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		<title>By: jon</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-6398</link>
		<dc:creator>jon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 20:21:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the women her are shitbags</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the women her are shitbags</p>
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		<title>By: Anon</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-6397</link>
		<dc:creator>Anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 20:19:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Anonymous Legion, I could not agree moar.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anonymous Legion, I could not agree moar.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous Legion</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-6391</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous Legion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 10:51:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;He truly thinks women are second class citizens&quot;

What a patriot. A true man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;He truly thinks women are second class citizens&#8221;</p>
<p>What a patriot. A true man.</p>
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		<title>By: Marge Temple</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-6208</link>
		<dc:creator>Marge Temple</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 02:35:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This kind of &#039;he will change behavior, he didn;t mean it, or if he says, &quot;I won&#039;t do it again,&quot; is why women get ran over.  Men know there are  more ladies than men and they take advantage of it.  It&#039;s like plalying the numbers, they will keep going through women that are smart enough to get rid of them until they meet one that&#039;s too insecure to let him go. I&#039;ve heard men saythey would be with a less attractive woman because they feel more appreciated and the woman is willing ot do anything to keep them.  The &#039;dumb&#039; we will have with us always.  Women just have to face reality, because this is the ay it is. Alot o fhtem are Mama&#039;s boys, not what I call men.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This kind of &#8216;he will change behavior, he didn;t mean it, or if he says, &#8220;I won&#8217;t do it again,&#8221; is why women get ran over.  Men know there are  more ladies than men and they take advantage of it.  It&#8217;s like plalying the numbers, they will keep going through women that are smart enough to get rid of them until they meet one that&#8217;s too insecure to let him go. I&#8217;ve heard men saythey would be with a less attractive woman because they feel more appreciated and the woman is willing ot do anything to keep them.  The &#8216;dumb&#8217; we will have with us always.  Women just have to face reality, because this is the ay it is. Alot o fhtem are Mama&#8217;s boys, not what I call men.</p>
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		<title>By: Jadeee.</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-6196</link>
		<dc:creator>Jadeee.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 07:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well yeah sometimes it is hard to get over someone when you know its gonna hurt so much when you leave them. Its scary. I went through the same thing with my ex for like 2 years. He was like my first everything so that made it even harder. I did everything for him you wouldn&#039;t believe how low I went just to make him happy hoping one day he&#039;d realize one day that I really do love him and we do belong together. But I just kept suffering. It was really hard on me and I like cried everyday. I couldn&#039;t believe the situation I was in sometimes. He just looked at me like a very good friend of his and he had feelings for every other girl but never me. Its a long complicated story but what I&#039;m trying to say is that I did move on. I met a cute nice guy. He was like a blessing because he was so wonderful with me that after so long I moved on from my ex. He actually had respect for me and cared about my opinion we always had great conversations and everything. I can go on for days explaining how great he is but my point is that when you meet someone who is right for you you will finally be able to move on from the wrong one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well yeah sometimes it is hard to get over someone when you know its gonna hurt so much when you leave them. Its scary. I went through the same thing with my ex for like 2 years. He was like my first everything so that made it even harder. I did everything for him you wouldn&#8217;t believe how low I went just to make him happy hoping one day he&#8217;d realize one day that I really do love him and we do belong together. But I just kept suffering. It was really hard on me and I like cried everyday. I couldn&#8217;t believe the situation I was in sometimes. He just looked at me like a very good friend of his and he had feelings for every other girl but never me. Its a long complicated story but what I&#8217;m trying to say is that I did move on. I met a cute nice guy. He was like a blessing because he was so wonderful with me that after so long I moved on from my ex. He actually had respect for me and cared about my opinion we always had great conversations and everything. I can go on for days explaining how great he is but my point is that when you meet someone who is right for you you will finally be able to move on from the wrong one.</p>
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		<title>By: coo (muppet)</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-6071</link>
		<dc:creator>coo (muppet)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 02:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think i am pregnant wiith my exes baby, he gets close to me then backs off, he does have this stupid ego/reputation to upkeep, which always stops him from being human, man has a flaw, but sometimes it is not in their control, ie the way we become emotional over things and no man understands. it is a blessing that there is mystery but when we meet men like this, there is a &#039;bad boy&#039; attraction (ive tried and tested this!) i think the lesson is; you can have the thrill but not the heart of a bad boy, age does NOT matter, its mystery and passion that grabs me, :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think i am pregnant wiith my exes baby, he gets close to me then backs off, he does have this stupid ego/reputation to upkeep, which always stops him from being human, man has a flaw, but sometimes it is not in their control, ie the way we become emotional over things and no man understands. it is a blessing that there is mystery but when we meet men like this, there is a &#8216;bad boy&#8217; attraction (ive tried and tested this!) i think the lesson is; you can have the thrill but not the heart of a bad boy, age does NOT matter, its mystery and passion that grabs me, <img src='http://www.ihatemen.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: bj</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/06/17/addicted-to-a-loser/comment-page-1/#comment-6026</link>
		<dc:creator>bj</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 08:57:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seems you are the one with the problem.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seems you are the one with the problem.</p>
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		<title>By: angel</title>
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		<dc:creator>angel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 13:56:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All women should read the book titled &quot;Why Does He Do That?&quot;, by Lundy Bancroft. It is the Bible on manipulative, controlling, lying men and their games, tactics, modus of operandum, as well as how to get away.....A MUST READ!!!

Blessings to all the other &quot;Angels&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All women should read the book titled &#8220;Why Does He Do That?&#8221;, by Lundy Bancroft. It is the Bible on manipulative, controlling, lying men and their games, tactics, modus of operandum, as well as how to get away&#8230;..A MUST READ!!!</p>
<p>Blessings to all the other &#8220;Angels&#8221;</p>
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