by minjin
Why me?
12:58 pm in I Hate Men by minjin
One month ago i met this Asian guy, you should know that I’m attracted much to Asian guys. Anyways i lost my virginity with him….we had sex many times, maybe too many times. Doing that often we didn’t do other things like a normal couple. Then the last time i was at his place, after i left something was strange…..he started to say that he didn’t have time, that he had to do something. Anyways after two weeks of me being depressed and crying…and trying to make him come on…he came because of my friend. And that was yesterday, he told me that he doesn’t love me and asked if we could stay just friends. I couldn’t accept that, since i think that after a month you cant love someone. Maybe be attracted but not love. Saying i love you to someone instantly and after such little time is a bit to much, teens do that often. I’m someone who has to build up her feelings for someone, and well i have some or else i wouldn’t cry for him.
After some while of him not accepting that i didn’t wanted to be just his friend. We agreed on continuing our relationship…to know each other better and not have sex. I don’t know how it will turn….i hope that feelings will build up…well i hope that in his case because he was the first one that wanted to meet me cause he thought i was interesting.
What do you think? Can i hope?
Im sorry to hear that. Trust me he is not worth the time. I went threw that in high school. I took me a couple of months to realize it was just sex nothing more. SO i cut him off completely. And thats what you need to do my dear. men and women cant really be friends after sex. We try but it never happens; too many feelings involved.
As women since its our first time and we think we will be with this person forever they are the one. No reality must set in and we need to realize its not the movies. You can do so much better. Take it from me. Just do your thing and dont waste your precious time on a loser.
Well, this is a familiar story. Women in most cases are not like men.We are what we are, men are procreators and women are the ones that care. Women care for most everybody they have in thier lives.Its that part in us that our brians look at men and reflect upon what are children will be like.That is where our sexual attraction comes from. In most caes without knowing it, women will consider what a provider of both seed and well being a man is before she will bed down with him.This is selection, it is normal.Have you ever wondered what your friends see in thier mates and in most cases they really could not tell you.Sure hes cute, he’s sweet or he’s a bad boy.Whatever it is it comes down to the offspring.Thats the way it is supposed to be.
Men on the other hand look at women more and more as a tool needed to get by.Men have lost the need for a women to be socially acceptable.It used to be that a man was not a man until he got married had a family and did right by them.Women think that they have the upper hand these days and unfortunately that is not true. Men have it. No longer are men judged by thier family, no now they are judged by true individual success.With out the need of a family to impress, he is now judged by his car, or his toys.In order to do that children have been takin out of equesion.So, now women are just a tool.Men and women in todays society after having sex can not be friends in most cases.There are several reasons for this.One is you are a tool- if you did not work right or get the job done then there is no need for you.Another is,the tool worked too well and there is achance he wants to keep you so he will not want you for that reason.Men have caught on to this and women have not.It used to be that women had the power cause they have the pussy,that is a pretty old statement that was being passed around when girls were not able to have the sexual freedom they do today.The only power you have is to decide are you going to be a tool.If a man tells you he wants you around after you have had sex with him and he is not interested in a relationship, it means that he still has use for you. Don’t let yourself be a tool.Fuck him you don’t want me after having sex with me fine the other stuff you found important before we had sex you don’t get either,its a package deal or no deal. Do not give any man the pleasure of your company who does something like this.That is where they get the support to be able to say we can still be friends, I have plenty of friends that I slept with that are still my friends.Move on.He made a cum rag out of you.
Sorry, I though this was a site to be true. If you want positive stop dating and achieve personal success.once you have that you are then the modern mans equal.Not to mention, you will not be made a tool unless you want to be. Better to know now then in 5 years and 2 kids later.You want positive go on a date he will tell you all the positives in the world till he gets what he wants.
That guy isn’t worth your time!! He is just too much of a coward to call it completely quits. How dare he take your virginity like it was nothing! Get away before he puts you through more hell!
Lol @ the pic of the asian guy..
Don’t keep crying about him if it’s clear he’s not coming back .Men are like women, you know if someone is so desperate it’s more offputting? Maybe it’s coming off like you’re desperate. Cool it, if he’s interested beyond sex he’ll be back. There ARE men out there who won’t be satisfied with just sex. See I have the opposite problem, I don’t mind ‘just sex’ but the men crawl around me for relationships which I don’t have time for. Pss there are plenty of asian guys in the sea, you should see them at my uni!! lol there in boatloads
OMG!I’m sorry.
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