Comments on: The two faced jerk http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/ World's Largest Women Driven Social Media Website Tue, 07 Feb 2012 23:46:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Beesho http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-19159 Beesho Tue, 05 Jul 2011 07:22:00 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-19159 Poor man... Poor man…

]]> By: Lori Donovan http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-7302 Lori Donovan Thu, 31 Dec 2009 03:32:35 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-7302 Baby girl....don't sweat it. I promise you attraction has nothing to do with color or weight. I am a white "Irish" women who is in love and in a relationship with a beautiful black man. I say "Black man " because that's what everyone else says...to me, he is just a beautiful man, smiling full of advise , life and he served his country for 8 years! "Outstanding" Oh and by the way when I meet him over 10 years ago I was 360 + lbs and now I am a healthy 163. He loved me then and loves me now. and I come to you because I dated a guy who was hearing impaired. He is still a good friend!..it has nothing to do with black/white...hearing/deaf it's all about YOU...He is just making excuses for his behavior rather just coming clean and saying what's what...You do You....Best of Luck to you. You as everyone deserves Happiness! Baby girl….don’t sweat it. I promise you attraction has nothing to do with color or weight. I am a white “Irish” women who is in love and in a relationship with a beautiful black man. I say “Black man ” because that’s what everyone else says…to me, he is just a beautiful man, smiling full of advise , life and he served his country for 8 years! “Outstanding” Oh and by the way when I meet him over 10 years ago I was 360 + lbs and now I am a healthy 163. He loved me then and loves me now. and I come to you because I dated a guy who was hearing impaired. He is still a good friend!..it has nothing to do with black/white…hearing/deaf it’s all about YOU…He is just making excuses for his behavior rather just coming clean and saying what’s what…You do You….Best of Luck to you. You as everyone deserves Happiness!

]]> By: hopeless http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-5841 hopeless Tue, 11 Aug 2009 22:23:48 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-5841 I am so proud of you! I know how hard it is to leave those jerks but good for you! You will find someone who will love everything about you and won;t leave you for some dark skinned over weight girl who obviously doesn't respect him or care about him as much as you. Have you ever heard of the 80/20 rule? If not its when a man has the perfect girl and she's an 80 instead of 100% and the same man meets the 20% thinking its the 100% he;s looking for and dumps the 80 then after a while realizes what he did. If he's like most guys he'll pretend for a while that he's happy and one day you'll find him on ur door step DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK! find another man. GOOD LUCK! I am so proud of you! I know how hard it is to leave those jerks but good for you!
You will find someone who will love everything about you and won;t leave you for some dark skinned over weight girl who obviously doesn’t respect him or care about him as much as you. Have you ever heard of the 80/20 rule? If not its when a man has the perfect girl and she’s an 80 instead of 100% and the same man meets the 20% thinking its the 100% he;s looking for and dumps the 80 then after a while realizes what he did. If he’s like most guys he’ll pretend for a while that he’s happy and one day you’ll find him on ur door step DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK! find another man. GOOD LUCK!

]]> By: GG http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-5347 GG Thu, 21 May 2009 01:30:33 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-5347 hey i feel you... men are jerks all the way. but you will see later in the future he will think of you and regret letting you go. men dont realize what we really mean to them until they get something worst.. iam married and have 1 handsome son... to his father it seems like we dont even exist i truely feel fustrated but am too scared to leave but i do have faith in god . i know he has someone good waiting for my son and myself its a matter of time till i receive that blessing from god... have faith god took that guy out of your life because he knew he was not worthy of you.... you will see that you will meet someone better that will love you for who you are and cherish you... one thing dont go out looking for love let it come to you...best wishes. keep your head up. GG hey i feel you… men are jerks all the way. but you will see later in the future he will think of you and regret letting you go. men dont realize what we really mean to them until they get something worst.. iam married and have 1 handsome son… to his father it seems like we dont even exist i truely feel fustrated but am too scared to leave but i do have faith in god . i know he has someone good waiting for my son and myself its a matter of time till i receive that blessing from god… have faith god took that guy out of your life because he knew he was not worthy of you…. you will see that you will meet someone better that will love you for who you are and cherish you… one thing dont go out looking for love let it come to you…best wishes. keep your head up. GG

]]> By: nobodysangel http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-5289 nobodysangel Tue, 12 May 2009 17:17:20 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-5289 Good for you for leaving him! Nobody deserves that kind of treatment. You're a smart woman and will meet someone worth your time. Now it's time to make your thoughts leave this asshole. Good for you for leaving him! Nobody deserves that kind of treatment. You’re a smart woman and will meet someone worth your time. Now it’s time to make your thoughts leave this asshole.

]]> By: Harrie http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-4186 Harrie Sun, 29 Mar 2009 16:15:40 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-4186 Hiya Of course you are suffering Yep He was a hypocrite; And its soo hard to forgive one s self for having wasted so much precious time on a shit I ve been there a lot of times too I now know that everytime it FELT wrong it WAS wrong Simple but we seem to be programmed by society to take this shit and still think its gonna get better You can never ever talk to men rationally They really only listen when they are still into you then of course they don t have to Cause you don t VOICE yr feelings towards them when things are fine And afterwards its just always too late and we are the ones us women that invariably get hurt not them they ve already stuck their dick into their next victim : the only ones that not totally or at least partially shitty are the ones that are already with someone else: My advice to all women don t stick around when it gets bad Trust someone who recently 2 onths ago got tortured for 5 hours gets no support fro anyone apart fro; one or two paid helpers I ;ean doctors qnd a psy<<<< don t let it ever get to the point where it gets BaD cause everybody letting you down afterwards only doubles th e pqin Trust noone I think the :ore ;ilitqnt zo;en q;ong us should for; q group THE KaSTRaTI SISTERS or so;ething Qny backers Hiya
Of course you are suffering
Yep
He was a hypocrite;
And its soo hard to forgive one s self for having wasted so much precious time on a shit
I ve been there a lot of times too

I now know that everytime it FELT wrong it WAS wrong
Simple but we seem to be programmed by society to take this shit and still think its gonna get better

You can never ever talk to men rationally
They really only listen when they are still into you
then of course they don t have to

Cause you don t VOICE yr feelings towards them when things are fine

And afterwards its just always too late and we are the ones us women that invariably get hurt
not them they ve already stuck their dick into their next victim
:
the only ones that not totally or at least partially shitty are the ones that are already with someone else:

My advice to all women don t stick around when it gets bad
Trust someone who recently 2 onths ago got tortured for 5 hours
gets no support fro anyone apart fro; one or two paid helpers I ;ean doctors qnd a psy<<<<
don t let it ever get to the point where it gets BaD

cause everybody letting you down afterwards only doubles th e pqin
Trust noone

I think the :o re ;ilitqnt zo;en q;ong us should for; q group

THE KaSTRaTI SISTERS or so;ething

Qny backers

]]> By: Visionprdx http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-4095 Visionprdx Mon, 16 Mar 2009 12:52:20 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-4095 PS He is my first everything. First boyfriend, first love... PS He is my first everything. First boyfriend, first love…

]]> By: Visionprdx http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-4091 Visionprdx Mon, 16 Mar 2009 06:03:34 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-4091 Hello.. thank you for your insightful comments.. Yall are right I am wasting time.. But its kinda hard, after you spend almost 8 years with someone on and off.. We went though college together, we been though a lot of stuff.. I am not a racist but I guess I didnt state why I mention him marrying someone darker then myself.. Hes a hypocrite, he disliked dark skin women he made fun of them.. Insulted some of my family members, insulted all sorts of people and color was one of them. And I am nothing against his new wife I just feel totally sorry for her, because she appears to be a full cup of coffee, and is a bottom cup of coffee.. Its just hard for me to move on because I havent had much good success.. He brought me to a place and left me out hung to dry. Its been taking me a long time to get my stuff to gather and move out.. I planned soo many things and I end up taking a bad detour and I am suffering in the result of.. So It just pisses me off that I am stuck in the same runt and his life has moved on for the best.. I am a strong beleiver of you reep what you sow.. I am having a Medea Moment.. Hello.. thank you for your insightful comments.. Yall are right I am wasting time.. But its kinda hard, after you spend almost 8 years with someone on and off.. We went though college together, we been though a lot of stuff.. I am not a racist but I guess I didnt state why I mention him marrying someone darker then myself.. Hes a hypocrite, he disliked dark skin women he made fun of them.. Insulted some of my family members, insulted all sorts of people and color was one of them. And I am nothing against his new wife I just feel totally sorry for her, because she appears to be a full cup of coffee, and is a bottom cup of coffee..

Its just hard for me to move on because I havent had much good success.. He brought me to a place and left me out hung to dry. Its been taking me a long time to get my stuff to gather and move out.. I planned soo many things and I end up taking a bad detour and I am suffering in the result of.. So It just pisses me off that I am stuck in the same runt and his life has moved on for the best.. I am a strong beleiver of you reep what you sow.. I am having a Medea Moment..

]]> By: Lunargoddess2002 http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-4086 Lunargoddess2002 Sun, 15 Mar 2009 19:40:13 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-4086 Look, I question your self love to let a man do that to you for eight years. Now you are wasting everyone's time (including your own) on a stupid worthless bastard that none of us could give a damn about. Don't you love your black self enough to tell that fool to fuck off. You sound like you are having an identity crisis or something. Work on yourself and the man will follow. You have a long life to live, you need to be ok with yourself before you go looking for someone else. Sounds like you have a lot of work to do on you. Why are you so worried about your ex's wife. Maybe, she is someone that won't take his shit. Maybe she kicks him in the ass everyday. Don't worry about him or her. Worry about you and move on. Look, I question your self love to let a man do that to you for eight years. Now you are wasting everyone’s time (including your own) on a stupid worthless bastard that none of us could give a damn about. Don’t you love your black self enough to tell that fool to fuck off. You sound like you are having an identity crisis or something. Work on yourself and the man will follow. You have a long life to live, you need to be ok with yourself before you go looking for someone else. Sounds like you have a lot of work to do on you. Why are you so worried about your ex’s wife. Maybe, she is someone that won’t take his shit. Maybe she kicks him in the ass everyday. Don’t worry about him or her. Worry about you and move on.

]]> By: shaundalynchic http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-3992 shaundalynchic Sat, 07 Mar 2009 15:48:59 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-3992 it's possible that you need to re-think your way of finding men -- you sound pretty smart; you had to have known that this wasn't a good guy, even while you were with him. it's just hard to admit stuff like that to yourself. reminds me a bit of some advice i saw recently -- women tend to get obsessed with "the idea of him" and have a difficult time just dropping him and going on solo -- here's the blog I got that from: http://finding-true-love-through-movies.blogspot.com/ it’s possible that you need to re-think your way of finding men — you sound pretty smart; you had to have known that this wasn’t a good guy, even while you were with him. it’s just hard to admit stuff like that to yourself.

reminds me a bit of some advice i saw recently — women tend to get obsessed with “the idea of him” and have a difficult time just dropping him and going on solo — here’s the blog I got that from: http://finding-true-love-through-movies.blogspot.com/

]]> By: Anon http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-3952 Anon Wed, 04 Mar 2009 15:23:41 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-3952 Sorry to hear that this happened to you. He sounds like he has a lot of issues, and you should be happy that he is no longer in your life. I'm not sure what the woman being "very dark skinned" has to do with much at all, but you shouldn't take your anger out on the new woman. She has nothing to do with it, really. And her skin tone isn't of much importance either, black is black. Nonetheless, it seems that he is the type of man that prefers black women, but hopefully you are not that shallow and will be willing to date other races, including your own perhaps. You never know, that might work out better for you. Best regards Sorry to hear that this happened to you. He sounds like he has a lot of issues, and you should be happy that he is no longer in your life. I’m not sure what the woman being “very dark skinned” has to do with much at all, but you shouldn’t take your anger out on the new woman. She has nothing to do with it, really. And her skin tone isn’t of much importance either, black is black. Nonetheless, it seems that he is the type of man that prefers black women, but hopefully you are not that shallow and will be willing to date other races, including your own perhaps. You never know, that might work out better for you.

Best regards

]]> By: Heidi http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/02/25/the-two-faced-jerk/comment-page-1/#comment-3927 Heidi Sat, 28 Feb 2009 01:34:24 +0000 http://www.ihatemen.org/?p=454#comment-3927 You wasted (past tense) time with him? You're still wasting time with him. Stop. Train your brain that every time you want to think or talk about him that you think about something pleasant instead and be aware of how much better you feel. You wasted (past tense) time with him? You’re still wasting time with him. Stop. Train your brain that every time you want to think or talk about him that you think about something pleasant instead and be aware of how much better you feel.

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