Child Custody – Who gets the kids?
5:08 pm in Male Perspective by Reason and Logic
According to Marc E. Angelucci, Esq., president of the Los Angeles chapter of the National Coalition of Free Men, a non-profit group that examines sex discrimination affecting men and boys, laws based on gender are often disproportionately levied against men.
‘Men are systematically and institutionally discriminated against in fathers’ custody rights, domestic violence policies, military conscription, criminal sentencing, forced labor laws, reproductive and parenting rights, dating expectations and more,’ Angelucci said.
However, others believe that these laws are in place to balance out persisting gender inequality.
Hohyon Kim, a history major at UC Irvine, reacted to these findings, saying, ‘Overall, I’d say that women are still being discriminated against more overall than men. I think such laws exist to balance out [gender inequality].’
So to balance out gender inequality, we play with a child’s life? “Sorry Junior, we know you said you wanted to stay with Dad, but men get paid more on average than women for doing the same job, so we have to give you to Mom to balance it out.”
Do you feel the courts are fair in custody cases, or that women always go into it with an advantage?
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Ah well, nice try
lol, I know right,, oh well…I gave it a shot.
Sweet kid!
So sweet and then they growwww into nasty old pervs
Anyway he seems to be forgetting you could rape women in marriage ten years ago. That didn’t favour women very much. Nor does society in general and everything outside a few scriptured laws, e.g. media, work, public houses.
Women know they have the advantage and they know it’s not fair and that’s why they’ve remained silent regarding your honest and intelligent question. Trying to hold women accountable for any wrong doing is like trying to nail jello to the wall
You think you would have atleast received a few ” of course women should automatically get custody of the children because men are sick perverts!” but not even the crazies on this forum are speaking up. .
To be fair and unbias the courts are unfair in most cases. I have seen some really terrible cases where the man should of had the child and instead the child had to suffer due the mothers hate for the father. The child was nothing more than a meal ticket. I believe that if mothers don’t follow the court orders for visitation then maybe if they went without the support they would think twice.
Or if they had to go to jail for violation of a court order it might make them see things in a new light. In the mean time too many children are being denied the right to know their father. This is a general situation I by no means deny that there are cases where the father should not be allowed any where near the child. I raised 3 kids and never asked for support, I worked 2 jobs and paid a sitter. I asked for no support and he never ask to see the kids. His loss! he has also lost out on 14 wonderful grandkids. I never slammed him, the kids made up their own mind and to this day they have nothing to do with him. I have also had many children thru foster care and seen manya sad story. Its too bad, these kids did not ask to be born yet they suffer for others ingnorance to love them the way they deserve. And yes I hate some men too but they are not all $^*&^(&)(*)+)+_!
I think Jason is right. Men shouldn’t get children, aren’t men superbly attracted to youth – thus young children?
You ought to see my dad, he’s constantly staring at my brother’s baby’s pussy when she’s getting her nappy changed. He always used to stare at me growing up, trying to hide it, but the same old perv.
Same with all men. The curiosity of the female body growing up, it destroys them although it’s natural.
They are so nasty. We have to put up with their foulness our entire lives. They are such simple creatures.
I think it is sad that these laws bend toward the mother, regardless of how good a dad the guy is. My friends mom made up awful….like THE worst… lies about their father and had the kids totally brainwashed about him. They cried when he won, but they understand things now (she went MIA too). There are some crazy women out there.
Sometimes I think if a guy is fighting for custody, that automatically says something about him. I’ve never heard of a bad father trying.
Damn right. I was one of the lucky ones. My mom knew she couldn’t take care of me when she left my dad, so she didn’t take me. If she wanted too, she probably could have won custody. Even though she had a history of medical problems, and no college education.
A perfect example of when it was probably better to have the dad raise the kid. A friend of the family, Dan, broke up with his wife. They agreed to joint custody, though Dan ended up having her only four monthes a year. Selma, his ex-wife, had financial trouble for those four monthes. Why? Because she was a bitch who couldn’t do anything, and got all her money from Dan. By the time Dan managed to win full custody through an appeal, Janel, the girl, was just like her mom. She was lazy, an idiot, and tried to steal money from her dad. She got into drugs, and her boy friend is a coke addict just out of prison. She’s already pregnant and is Hiv-positive, though it might be AIDS by now. Its been a while since she’s checked in.
Penelopiss, the attraction may be protective and platonic. Unless you were staring at his crotch at the same time? And how do you know exactly what he was looking at? Due to the ways the pupils catch light, unless he was less than a foot or two from her, he could have been looking just as eaisly at her face. Beyond that, the eye has a tendency to wander. Sometimes, I don’t even notice changing my gaze until after the face. The angle of the face also applies to the apperance of where the pupils look. If his head was tilted, the eyes would move a bit to keep his vision more or less centered. All in all, you would need to be very good, or he would need to be so close as to not even trying to hide it, to find it. Now, if the baby is the size of a ten year old, you might be right. But otherwise, its rather hard to tell.
Reason and Logic, here’s my reply to your post.
http://www.childabuseforensics.org/page/page/1544123.htm
Women and Men are both the blame. The reason women seem to exploit the situation is the hold they have over the father or ‘s of their children. Women make less money than men, are more likely to be raped, passed over for job advancements, men do not physically bear children, or the psycological, mentality that goes with it. I know there are some wicked women out there, but a woman’s past never dies like a man’s does. Women are almost still regarded as second class citizens in the United States. I say ALMOST.
What a load of shit. Women get paid more money, women get better jobs, women get preference in education, Women aren’t the only one who deal with psychological problems when they carry our babies. Women belittle men consistantly and get away with it. Women do as they please. How dare you think you can take our children and all the slanderous remarks you get away with, labelling all of us guys as pervs. Women will be the end of the earth because we are awakening to your biggest game ever and we will not have children with you any longer. You treat them like a possession like you own them. Then go on about love. You abuse children just as much if not more then men. You are all for equality but only when it suits you. You keep coming at guys as you held the child for 9 months and really only half of that if that was disruptive. It is the natural order in which children are concieved. Men didn’t make it that way. You don’t have the right to my half of my child so get a life you discriminative heaps of crap. You say you know what love is but when a man tries to love you just throw it to the garbage tip but then expect us to bow down to your every whim. You women are pathetic. You are creating your own death by ending of humans. You say men rape you but you know that isn’t true. You consented and you all try to get dick wherever you can and some of you do it for ulterior motives of being paid free handouts. Why don’t you blind bitches go live in a country like Saudi where you will see what women having no rights is all about. You self centred lazy liars are due to be dismembered from your schemes. We as men are sick of your stupid mind games and labels. Oh men are no good they cheat but i lkeft him and i have been with 100 men owe but none will settle down with me. Bullshit. I know many men who took the responsibility to stay home and nurture the children while the woman went to work all because she got paid more then he did. You are all liars and hypocrits.
Why don’t you women go and fight in wars us men don’t want to do it. We are made do it. Go shovel shit and get paid pittance for it. We don’t want to do it anymore, we want to stay at home with the kids and get paid from our exes and governments. Take responsibility for your own bullshit. You want equality so live it. Everytime thing get heated with children it all comes down to the burden on you for bearing that child but thats it its a burden when it suits you and yours when it suits you. So which is it a burden or your child. Men just want to be with there children. We don’t care about money like you self righteous bitches. You think we have it so easy. Get in a truck but change your own tyre. Oh and open your own door, we don’t care. Pay your own way but stop denying our right to our children. You have sex when you feel like it as if you are the only ones whgo make consent. Then you scream rape. You say someone sexually harassed you but you instigate it with sexual harassment in the first place. Women do as they please when they please with no equality or common sense. Until men can bear children don’t blame us for the way nature is. If you don’t want children because it is a burden then don’t have sex. Only when it suits you do you what is right. You winge about how someone beat you but it was you who punched first then expect different treatment because you are a woman. In the next sentence you then say you want equal rights. So if you hit a man then under equal rights you would expect to be hit back. Oh and before you get on your high horse i have never hit a woman and rarely a man because violence is not needed only in dire situations for defense. I once thought women were cute and loved how cute they were but now i see evil and vindictiveness at the expense of my child. You want men to treat you like a lady but then want equal rights. Which is it? Want me to flourish you with love and affection and eyes of love or do you want me to treat you like one of the boys. Quite frankly i don’t want to treat my lover as a boy. I want to treat her like she is my princess and most women i know love that. Its only when they don’t get there own way do they say the bullshit they do. And yes i am not getting my own way but in a completely diffent ballgame are other lives at stake. the lives of children who need there dad not judst some vindictive bitch out for revenge when in all it was also her fault if not her complete fault. I still have women friends just like you probably have male friends even though we write all this bullshit. In the words of Cat Stevens “why can’t we all just get along?” The answer is money and no other reason. If money were taken out of the equation i guarantee we would have loving families who would stick together rather then try for rights. I don’t expect my wife to clean as she doesn’t expect me to do the yard. We share and do different tasks for the best interests of our family. If it means she works ands i stay home then so be it. If it means i have to work 80 hours per week then so be it. It isn’t what we want to do but governments have made it this way because we are sheep, all of us and the more we all fight the better off the governments will be. Until all men and all women learn this we will always deny each other our equal rights. Deep down we all know it. Some women say they were raped and some guy beat them or the likes of above. Your dad always looks at your pussy. He may think you always look at his dick. in essence you have no idea what he is looking at and form in your own imagination what you perceive to be true. Has he ever done anything sexually wrong if so then you are right. If not then stop going as far to belittle men that you also degrade your own father. My mother held knives to my throat and subjected me to porn and things but i grew into a decent person only wanting the best. Yes it has affected me mentally but i do the best i can. It isn’t just men who do bad things and when women and government take there heads out of there arses and stop denying this then there will always be a gender war. A war that only advantages government. So i guess they will never take there heads out of there arses. Its like a race to the finish line, it is ridiculous. Yes there are evil out there in both genders but most people are for love. It is ashame that you women have been through pain but yes as a man i have also had my fair share that may just be as bad if not worse then some of you at the hands of the opposite sex. You have to look deep inside your heart and tell the truth. For instance, you got into a fight with your man, he hit you, you leave but then keep his children away. Did he ever lay a hand on that child anymore then you. Tell yourself the truth and then see the damage you are causing your own child, the one you say you love.
I actually think in the overall big picture the courts are fair. If you would have asked me 20 years ago, I would have said that the men maybe at a disadvantage but now a days I believe that you may have the odd disgruntle man or women but most of the cases are in the best interest of the children no matter what sex the parent is.