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		<title>By: Buy Facebook Fans</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/01/15/heartbroken-again/comment-page-1/#comment-24838</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2011 21:17:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2011 04:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kataani the question isn&#039;t what is wrong with him -- the question is what is wrong with YOU?  This man has established a pattern of behavior and demonstrated to you that he is a jerk.  When a man shows you who he is Believe Him.  Whatever he is saying to you to prey on your emotions is just a manipulation tool -- he plays these games to stroke his EGO.  At this point you have to be a real woman and sacrifice a broken heart -- Real woman make sacrifices -- If he doesn&#039;t want to talk to you anymore stop calling him texting him and if or when he decides to contact you do not respond -- No matter what.  You have to make the decision that you deserve better.  

Think of it this way if your daughter was being treated this way would you tell her to continue in an on again off again relationship just to be mistreated?  Just b/c you love someone does not mean you lay down and be a doormat.  Wouldn&#039;t you tell you daughter that she has more value than to be mistreated all in the name of love? So why can&#039;t you see that same value in yourself.  If you have a daughter do you know you are setting an example that tells her this is how a man is suppose to treat her?  I&#039;m a woman and I understand what you are feeling but you can not be weak and allow your emotions to rule you. You know deep down you should leave this man go -- so be a woman of substance and leave him -- be strong.  That is the only thing that men respect --Strength.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kataani the question isn&#8217;t what is wrong with him &#8212; the question is what is wrong with YOU?  This man has established a pattern of behavior and demonstrated to you that he is a jerk.  When a man shows you who he is Believe Him.  Whatever he is saying to you to prey on your emotions is just a manipulation tool &#8212; he plays these games to stroke his EGO.  At this point you have to be a real woman and sacrifice a broken heart &#8212; Real woman make sacrifices &#8212; If he doesn&#8217;t want to talk to you anymore stop calling him texting him and if or when he decides to contact you do not respond &#8212; No matter what.  You have to make the decision that you deserve better.  </p>
<p>Think of it this way if your daughter was being treated this way would you tell her to continue in an on again off again relationship just to be mistreated?  Just b/c you love someone does not mean you lay down and be a doormat.  Wouldn&#8217;t you tell you daughter that she has more value than to be mistreated all in the name of love? So why can&#8217;t you see that same value in yourself.  If you have a daughter do you know you are setting an example that tells her this is how a man is suppose to treat her?  I&#8217;m a woman and I understand what you are feeling but you can not be weak and allow your emotions to rule you. You know deep down you should leave this man go &#8212; so be a woman of substance and leave him &#8212; be strong.  That is the only thing that men respect &#8211;Strength.</p>
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		<title>By: Dawn</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/01/15/heartbroken-again/comment-page-1/#comment-3707</link>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2009 00:55:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well i feel the same way - my husband of 21 yrs and 4 kids later - was working in texas - we or now I live in NY - long story short he decides that he isn&#039;t coming home - he wasn&#039;t even going to tell me - i had to beg him for an answer - i understand women aren&#039;t perfect either but what makes a man just decide to up and leave and never look back?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well i feel the same way &#8211; my husband of 21 yrs and 4 kids later &#8211; was working in texas &#8211; we or now I live in NY &#8211; long story short he decides that he isn&#8217;t coming home &#8211; he wasn&#8217;t even going to tell me &#8211; i had to beg him for an answer &#8211; i understand women aren&#8217;t perfect either but what makes a man just decide to up and leave and never look back?</p>
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		<title>By: gt_nygirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>gt_nygirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2009 05:09:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been in the same boat. Just broke it off with a guy I&#039;d dated 4 almost 7 yrs. I&#039;m only 31 now. I honestly felt like he robbed a better part of my life. But I&#039;ve come 2 realize that it was my fault, not his. I kept believing him nd taking him back. I moved all over the earth w/this guy of my own free will. No one forced me. And, honestly, when I looked at it like I started 2 feel a little better. I finally looked @ it honestly. And I realized that I am the only one that can make me happy. You can do it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been in the same boat. Just broke it off with a guy I&#8217;d dated 4 almost 7 yrs. I&#8217;m only 31 now. I honestly felt like he robbed a better part of my life. But I&#8217;ve come 2 realize that it was my fault, not his. I kept believing him nd taking him back. I moved all over the earth w/this guy of my own free will. No one forced me. And, honestly, when I looked at it like I started 2 feel a little better. I finally looked @ it honestly. And I realized that I am the only one that can make me happy. You can do it!</p>
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		<title>By: reality check</title>
		<link>http://www.ihatemen.org/2009/01/15/heartbroken-again/comment-page-1/#comment-3585</link>
		<dc:creator>reality check</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2009 04:28:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am sorry to hear of your problems ladies.

I can only offer the same advice that I normally offer to women.
If the same old thing keeps happening, try and change some variables.
Another man wrote .&quot;If you find these people in bars, stop going to bars&quot;.
Just change some things.
If you just don&#039;t have luck at all then you may have to look at yourself and wonder if you are lowering your defences too quickly.  Remember that testosterone fuelled men are &quot;dogs&quot; lol  and   have a very bad attitude towards everything.

Make sure you stay strong for yourself.  Before you look for man 2.0 or 3.0 make sure you are of sound mind and confident in yourself.
Not all men are bad.  You have not met all men have you.  I believe at the last count there were easily over.   You may have to play very hard to have lol.  If a man can wait a few months then he just may be quite patient and intelligent enough to have evolved from the bottom rung of the evolutionary ladder.
Good luck with whatever you decide and please try not to generalise too much. 

I know you are in pain and you want to have someone to hug/hold you, touch you delicately, have a sense of humour, be a man  able to take criticism.   Some men out there are actually love shy and will never find a partner because they cannot handle one due to their own minds negative feedback.   Most love shy men will not be found in normal circles as they won&#039;t associate in crowded places or have many friends to hang out with as they don&#039;t want a gay label if they don&#039;t have a partner.  They are practically destined to lead an unfulfilled, empty life of gloom and touch deprivation.  Trust me, I know this for fact.

I really do wish you every success.  Be strong, bold and assertive. Remember, it&#039;s your life, not theirs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am sorry to hear of your problems ladies.</p>
<p>I can only offer the same advice that I normally offer to women.<br />
If the same old thing keeps happening, try and change some variables.<br />
Another man wrote .&#8221;If you find these people in bars, stop going to bars&#8221;.<br />
Just change some things.<br />
If you just don&#8217;t have luck at all then you may have to look at yourself and wonder if you are lowering your defences too quickly.  Remember that testosterone fuelled men are &#8220;dogs&#8221; lol  and   have a very bad attitude towards everything.</p>
<p>Make sure you stay strong for yourself.  Before you look for man 2.0 or 3.0 make sure you are of sound mind and confident in yourself.<br />
Not all men are bad.  You have not met all men have you.  I believe at the last count there were easily over.   You may have to play very hard to have lol.  If a man can wait a few months then he just may be quite patient and intelligent enough to have evolved from the bottom rung of the evolutionary ladder.<br />
Good luck with whatever you decide and please try not to generalise too much. </p>
<p>I know you are in pain and you want to have someone to hug/hold you, touch you delicately, have a sense of humour, be a man  able to take criticism.   Some men out there are actually love shy and will never find a partner because they cannot handle one due to their own minds negative feedback.   Most love shy men will not be found in normal circles as they won&#8217;t associate in crowded places or have many friends to hang out with as they don&#8217;t want a gay label if they don&#8217;t have a partner.  They are practically destined to lead an unfulfilled, empty life of gloom and touch deprivation.  Trust me, I know this for fact.</p>
<p>I really do wish you every success.  Be strong, bold and assertive. Remember, it&#8217;s your life, not theirs.</p>
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		<title>By: Kataani</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kataani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 22:54:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sad as it may sound, makes me feel better to just talk about it on here. Really do appreciate the replies, somehow its hardest to talk about it to the people I&#039;m closest too, I just end up bursting into tears and I never feel like they understand. But keeping it all inside drags me down even more. 
To a414: &#039;I think you did the right thing by saying you didn’t want to be friends anymore.&#039; Am glad you think so too, previously when he&#039;d come back to me I&#039;d say sure, lets just be friends, then it would always end up more than that and after a while he&#039;d just hurt me all over again. I&#039;ve never felt more lonely than I do now though, without him.
Thanks for the kind words :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sad as it may sound, makes me feel better to just talk about it on here. Really do appreciate the replies, somehow its hardest to talk about it to the people I&#8217;m closest too, I just end up bursting into tears and I never feel like they understand. But keeping it all inside drags me down even more.<br />
To a414: &#8216;I think you did the right thing by saying you didn’t want to be friends anymore.&#8217; Am glad you think so too, previously when he&#8217;d come back to me I&#8217;d say sure, lets just be friends, then it would always end up more than that and after a while he&#8217;d just hurt me all over again. I&#8217;ve never felt more lonely than I do now though, without him.<br />
Thanks for the kind words <img src='http://www.ihatemen.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: a414</title>
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		<dc:creator>a414</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 20:11:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Kataani:

I think you did the right thing by saying you didn&#039;t want to be friends anymore.  My last relationship was almost 4 years and ended very badly. He wanted to be friends, but it&#039;s just better to get those times out of your mind, and trust me it does take a really long time to stop having feelings for that person...but it&#039;s better to break the tie when you are in the &#039;healing&#039; process.

Take time for yourself, hang out with your friends! This site helps because everyone is surrounded by relationships and at some point in everyone&#039;s life a relationship has gone bad, but we all learn from them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Kataani:</p>
<p>I think you did the right thing by saying you didn&#8217;t want to be friends anymore.  My last relationship was almost 4 years and ended very badly. He wanted to be friends, but it&#8217;s just better to get those times out of your mind, and trust me it does take a really long time to stop having feelings for that person&#8230;but it&#8217;s better to break the tie when you are in the &#8216;healing&#8217; process.</p>
<p>Take time for yourself, hang out with your friends! This site helps because everyone is surrounded by relationships and at some point in everyone&#8217;s life a relationship has gone bad, but we all learn from them.</p>
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		<title>By: she</title>
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		<dc:creator>she</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 14:25:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s true, they are so... wrong.
I&#039;m gonna be 30 this summer and still didn&#039;t manage by now to have a normal relationship with a men for more than 1, 2 months...
I&#039;ve been single all my life and I&#039;m planning to stay so. Life is hard enough as it is but to have a selfish asshole on my mind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s true, they are so&#8230; wrong.<br />
I&#8217;m gonna be 30 this summer and still didn&#8217;t manage by now to have a normal relationship with a men for more than 1, 2 months&#8230;<br />
I&#8217;ve been single all my life and I&#8217;m planning to stay so. Life is hard enough as it is but to have a selfish asshole on my mind.</p>
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		<title>By: Star * Guitar *</title>
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		<dc:creator>Star * Guitar *</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 19:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Men are always gonna break your heart! So always respect yourself before any stupid man who is going to end up in a grave one day, where you can spit at him and watch his corpse. Wish him a nice time in hell ;P

I wonder what his face will be like as a corpse - hollowed? Will he be so desperate to shove his dick in everything as a corpse? Will he be also reading playboy in his grave? PROBABY

I would dig my exes grave up and shake his bones about in a sack, and let my dog rip his head apart. 

Men die earlier hehe
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Men are always gonna break your heart! So always respect yourself before any stupid man who is going to end up in a grave one day, where you can spit at him and watch his corpse. Wish him a nice time in hell ;P</p>
<p>I wonder what his face will be like as a corpse &#8211; hollowed? Will he be so desperate to shove his dick in everything as a corpse? Will he be also reading playboy in his grave? PROBABY</p>
<p>I would dig my exes grave up and shake his bones about in a sack, and let my dog rip his head apart. </p>
<p>Men die earlier hehe<br />
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		<title>By: Kataani</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kataani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 19:13:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Told him i couldnt deal with being friends, I told myself before that&#039;d be his last chance, now I just dont want anything to do with him. Which is hard cos im tempted alot to just talk to him and i think about him constantly. But hey, what can ya do?
Trying to move on but i think its gonna take a while, I know i deserve better than him atleast..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Told him i couldnt deal with being friends, I told myself before that&#8217;d be his last chance, now I just dont want anything to do with him. Which is hard cos im tempted alot to just talk to him and i think about him constantly. But hey, what can ya do?<br />
Trying to move on but i think its gonna take a while, I know i deserve better than him atleast..</p>
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		<title>By: sparkles</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 19:09:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;having the man you love break up with you and saying &#039;we can still be friends&#039; is like your dog dying and your mum saying you can still keep it.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;having the man you love break up with you and saying &#8216;we can still be friends&#8217; is like your dog dying and your mum saying you can still keep it.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Jess</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 18:53:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What did you say to him??

Makes me so angry men always manage to push the blame on you, the antics of a kid; there&#039;s plenty of other men in the sea anyway lol. Wish you were here at uni with me! Tooo easy to be single, everyone knows men and relationships are a no go.

xx o[ ]o</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What did you say to him??</p>
<p>Makes me so angry men always manage to push the blame on you, the antics of a kid; there&#8217;s plenty of other men in the sea anyway lol. Wish you were here at uni with me! Tooo easy to be single, everyone knows men and relationships are a no go.</p>
<p>xx o[ ]o</p>
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