Some Men are PIGS
First I want to say I DON’T hate men just like the creator of this blog doesn’t. I do thing some men are pigs though. For instance, there was this guy that I had hooked up with, in the beginning it was definitely just a physical attraction. The more we talked the more I disliked him and the more he liked me. When I first met him we were talking and he mentioned that he had slept with 28 people in his 25 years of life. Personally I thought that was a lot.
About three or four weeks after our “hooking up” he came up to me telling me that he really liked me and could see himself falling in love with me. And that he would love me like no one has ever loved anyone before. He started to tear up and walk away after I politely told him as I had told him time and time again that all I felt was a friendship. The next day I was have a girly day at the mall with my best friend and her boyfriend who is really good friends with the guy I hooked up with and told her something that I needed to know.
My initial reaction was fear of course because I had no idea of what news I was going to hear. My best friend told me that the number that I was told was way off…28 people he slept with turned into 62!
At that moment I felt sick to my stomach, tears filling my eyes, and complete betrayal. I thought to myself, “Could someone be that disrespectful?” At that moment I walked out of the store I was shopping in picked up my cell phone called the guys phone and left an assertive message telling him he needed to call me back. My friend and I hopped in my car as my cell phone rang. I sat in the driver’s seat parked in the lot infuriated and completely torn apart.
The first thing I said was, “ You lied to me about how many women you slept with.” The next thing he said is where I completely lost it when he said, “Now you know what it feels like to be hurt.” I could not believe someone would be so ignorant enough to say that, especially someone who the night before spilled all their feelings to me. I told him that how I hurt him and how he hurt me are irrelevant. His whole demeanor over the phone was cocky and proud of his track recorded. He even had the nerve to say to me, “what is the difference between what I told you and what it really is?” I yelled, “34!”
My best friend and I switched seats and she drove my car home. She called her boyfriend and told her everything that happened and his reaction was, “Love hurts.” At that point I felt all men are pigs even though it’s not all, but at the time I was hurt so badly. Later that night around 11:00pm my cell rang. I look at the caller ID and it was the jerk. I couldn’t believe it, I didn’t want to have anything to do with him, but I answered.
I said, “Hello?” He responded with the same and said that he regrets a lot of things in life, but doesn’t regret what him and I had. I told him that, “ I was just another check on your list and you happened to fall for me to your surprise and now you feel like an idiot and that the apology meant nothing.” He then had the courage to yell at me and say he didn’t have to defend what he did. My response was, “I’m not the one who called, I didn’t even want to hear your voice again.”
The arguing continued for a little while, then I got sick of it and did not have to put up with it. I told him I had to get up early for work and didn’t need to get upset again before I go to sleep. So ladies and gentlemen when you think someone is being honest and genuine think twice you could get hurt.
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Except for my family members, I have to agree, men are pigs, especially bosses. And what is even worse is those women who perpetuate those men to be complete and utter slime balls. Men don’t look for hardworking intelligent women, they look for young, attractive mice. Little enigmas who cow tow to their lowlife existence. I have had it with men who want to control women by demeaning them.
Now that I am older, I see some interesting patterns. Spiritually, psychologically, intellectually: Women get better with age. But men get worse. Wierd huh? Adverse selection is also at play : the ones I don’t want are always the ones who want me. Needless to say, I no longer shop for a mate
My two cents worth: let’s inspire men to appreciate/respect/… women their own age, like they did when they were young and cute. Let’s stop stealing men from other women, show some sister solidarity… Perhaps then we can find some sympatico
THAT ARROGANT PIG! I hope God condemn him to hell with the other male pigs!
not sure why you reacted this way? you only wanted to be “friends” as you said so why the drama. grow up. men lie it’s what they do and maybe he was embarrassed or couldn’t count very well …let it go and move on and NEVER demean yourself by letting a man know you really give a shit.
he was a friend and you were not in love with him..he was disappointed..your reaction to me was over the top drama and silly.
Seriously? You sound extremely naive. You’re “hooking” up with some guy you really don’t know and then you got angry because he slept with twice as many women then he let on? You barely know the guy anyway and whether or not he slept with 26 or 64 what difference does it make? You were taking the same risks. Any one of those women he slept with out of the first 24 could have been infected with some disease. One person or 300 people. And why are you getting mad anyway? Like the last person said you said yourself you just want to be friends. So why do you care? Not all men are pigs my husband is the love of my life and after all of the trash I’ve dated I am 100% confident he is a good decent man. So until you grow up and stop being so naive that is what you will keep meeting. Goes both ways there are decent men out there who keep meeting skanky cheating money grubbing sluts. And BTW Gail you are wrong dead dead wrong. I am 27 years old and up until my husband I dated young men only who were jag offs. My husband is 51 and treats me like a queen.