I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: It goes on….

If I want a lay then I’ll take it, nothing more. I can change my own breakers in my breaker box, fix my plumbing, the lawnmower and pay my bills. There’s no one to argue with about it either. They are all pervs, who under the ‘niceness’ ………..really want what’s under your skirt, your best friend’s skirt, your sister’s skirt, oh yea, and your neighbors skirt too. Even the 80 yr old codger across the street who I’ve tried to be nice to since his wife of 50 yrs died, propositioned me to take a trip with him. I thought of him as the respectful grandpa I never had…….until then. He ruined that peception……FUCKER!

Stop lying! Stop leading one! Stop cheating! Stop being wishy-washy! Step up to the plate! Don’t have children if you don’t want them! If you do, pay the price to raise them to be decent human beings! Stop trying to have your cake and eating it too. Stop being rude and disrespectful! Get therapy! Get an education! Get a fucking job! Apologize when you are wrong! Stop the reverse psychology! Think about the BIG picture instead of the SELFISH one. Show that you are capable of being a man! Be trustworthy! Stop playing games. Stop blaming women! Stop hitting women! Stop showing up late! Stop!! Have some fucking integrity to match that of a good woman who wants to partner with you. Stop being cowards. Stop acting like we are all so interchangeable! All you will get in return is a better woman. Stop blaming a woman for not knowing when a man is full of shit. They don’t teach that shit in school.
Wishful thinking that will never happen…

The bravest thing anyone can do is to just tell the fucking truth. Your defining me without knowing anything about me is shallow. I once said a group prayer that addressed Father/Mother God and a few of the guys started laughing… because God is a man… Right?

I AM a fucking victim and because men think with more logic than emotion he would say that it has no intellectual basis…It’s NOT supposed to have intellectual basis. It’s a MORAL basis! RIGHT AND WRONG!

At 46 years of age, this has nothing to do with unproven theories of attracting the negative. I DON’T BELIEVE IN THAT SHIT AS I DIDN’T ATTRACT IT AS A CHILD. Like cold germs, it’s just there…deceptive as hell. The bottom line is that we live in a society that mostly condones a man’s bad behavior towards women with little persecution… socially nor otherwise… unless he has physically hit or raped or murdered. The more subtle injuries are not included but are just as bad. In some places even rape and murder aren’t really persecuted hard enough and the women will even be blamed for it. The whole concept is wrong and unfair and while it’s just life to many, it’s still wrong!

I am sick and tired of being blamed as a woman for falling for or taking on a man who ends up not being good. Men do not come with manuals and the most honest of them admit that men ARE fucking DOGS! When does the campaign begin to burden him with the responsibility? Where is the Alpha males who tell a man he is wrong?!

A woman can forgive and move on and then get another German Shepherd, or a Beagle or Pit Bull. Just another breed…but still a dog non the less. There is a common fucked up thread that runs through ALL men.

A man can kill a woman with fucked up words and behaviors without even hitting her! Or a man can make a woman feel like a million bucks when his consciousness is on straight.

Even the idea of not fucking until marriage, is mostly held against a woman. Do you really think that a woman doesn’t want to get laid? Why does that have to make her a whore? or Loose? If I had followed that in my lifetime, I would have gone 21 years without and I am sure I would have regretted it.

Men have mood swings that can’t even be accounted for by harmones. They just have the freedom to do that. The world is a safer place for men than it is women. Rationalize all you want to but there is something very very wrong with this concept of men and it’s mostly NOT a woman’s fault!

As a very well traveled person, I can attest tot he fact that Disrespect has no nationality. It’s an internationally known concept that doesn’t need a language to be recognized. Everyone knows what it is.

All the rules about how do deal with love are in a man’s favor and there are so many of them to no one can really assemble all of them. My negativity has been re-enforced wit nothing but experience. This shit is so confusing,you can’t even know what a good man looks like. To me? Mr or Ms Right is someone whose faults you can tolerate. Well, I haven’t found anything tolerable in a man and the sad thing is that I do not like women…not like that. I do not chase men either. In every instance that I have taken on a man, he approached me first. Every single one and then someone will tell me that maybe I should try approaching men. sigh… With abandoned children and women comes permanent pain. Men ARE assholes and they SUCK!

Whether you ever trust another man or not, understand if you keep living in your pain you have let him win, you have let him turn you into this. Your negativity WILL reinforce itself as like attracts like and you thoughts shape your reality.

The bravest thing anyone can really do is forgive and move on. How often are the things we should do the last thing in the world we want to? Yeah, life is like that. All we can do is learn from our mistakes, even if for some of us that does mean never trusting a man again.

1) Men who are “bitches about commitment on too large a proportion.” want to give you their heart, but need to safeguard it. Your head games, moodswings, and lack of honesty show us we can’t depend on you to value our feelings, so most of us who date have learned not to have any. If a man is invested emotionally he needs commitment, if he doesn’t seek commitment then he doesn’t care and has learned to be heartless and insensitive. Also men know how horny men are and perceive women capable of easily dumping them and finding another guy with much greater ease then men finding a woman. Its ironic how women are so hard on themselves to be pretty, but it’s not as important to the men who care, it’s impossible to please the ones who will hurt them, and the other kind of men are so horny they will fuck anything that moves.

2) The God fearing man who is “isolated from the world.” He is extremely moral, lawful, loyal, and always tries to do the right thing. He is isolated because when you are like this you see most of the world as evil. If they perceive you to not be moral they will not trust you. If he isn’t moral then hes a hypocrit and thats common with church goers. The deeply spiritual man looks for truth and tends to find happy relationships only with women who are deep and spiritual like himself.

3) The 30 year old virgin. Usually a geek or nerd, he has likely gone his whole life without love, and when he finds it he will give it his best shot. You assume he is scum because women don’t want him, but he would rather be alone then become the confident manipulative man that sleeps around and break hearts. Get to know his values. If he’ll have sex with you right away then he is bad news, if not then he may want a shot at love. This type of person is also likely to be very intellectual and desire mentally stimulating interactions.

NOW here are the types of men YOU are attracted too:

1) The Player: Confident and attractive, he scores consistently and is popular with the ladies. He never lets anything in life bring him down, so he probably isn’t very emotional. He is an expert at manipulation and love is a game to him. If it doesn’t work he could care less, he’ll find someone else faster then you can leave him. He’s probably banging someone else while hes with you!

2) The Executive: He works all the time, gives you everything, and consciously or unconsciously feels you take it for granted. He’ll be charming and devoted in the beginning, then he’ll see that most or all of the effort was his and when he stops you grow apart. He may feel a sense of power coming from pride in his work He likely has little or no time to reflect and is prone to repressed feelings. He is often dull and boring, typical, and not intellectual. He might do anything to climb the corporate ladder including deception, bad salesmanship, and cheating. It is easy for him to become secretive and egotistical.

3) The Typical Guy: It’s pigeonholed in our society that men do not have emotions. Men certainly don’t want to show it with each other like women do, and many in fact aren’t or believe this themselves. Insensitive, pigheaded, abusive, power hungry, you better believe it. Typical people have typical relationships that typically work out badly.

4) The Foreigner: I’m not saying all foreigners are bad or anything like that, but you should learn about their culture and their values. If they come from a culture where men rule completely then don’t expect a whole lot of consideration. The world has had a long and ugly history because of self righteous domineering men and the weak women who put up with them. If there are language barriers or difficulties relating to each other then expect hardships. You really do need communication, commitment, cooperation, compatibility, creativity, and compromise.

FINALLY if you had a wonderful man who suddenly betrayed you then you either grew apart, he was not talking to you, but silently keeping his issues to himself until he finally bursts, you didn’t know him as well as you thought, or you didn’t keep track of how hes changing. Loving someone more then they love you gives them power over you and if they see they can get away with stuff they just might. Again it comes down to their emotions, their beliefs, and their values. Without these they are truly capable of anything, wicked or otherwise.

I don’t know why I’m here. I know that most of you are so deeply grieved you will always see it everywhere and attract more of it. If you aren’t brave enough to learn, change, and set aside your stereotype conclusion of all men, then by all means do avoid us like the plague, because with that level of victim consciousness and belief you are sure to attract more and more of the same.

I TRUELY HATE THEM, THEY LIE, CHEAT, PLAY WITH YOUR HEART & FEELINGS, IN THE END THEY ARE REALLY NOT WORTH IT.
YOU PUT UR HEART AND SOUL IN TO LOVING SOMEONE IN THE END THEY WALK OVER YOU LIKE YOUR DOG SHIT..
NO MATTER HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE OR HOW AMAZING YOUR BODY IS, NO MATTER HOW MUCH MONEY OR PERSONALITY U HAVE.. A MAN WILL STLL LIE, CHAET, PLAY WITH YOU

LADIES LETS MAKE A STAND… FUCK MEN.. FUCK MEN, FUCK THEM!!!!!!!!!!! BUNCH OF DOGS