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So a few months ago my husband tells me. I have been keeping something from you. There’s this woman and we’ve been texting, we’re just friends, but I feel like I’ve been hiding it from you. blah blah blah He says I can see teh texts, funny, but when I go to look at his phone they’re erased. When I check the phone recordes it is 247 texts in two days. So I tell him i’m not comfortable with it and ask what are you texting about blah blah blah. He said she’s buying a car and wants his opionion. She’s married, her husbad knows they’re texting and doesn’t care. He says he will stop texting if it makes me uncomfortable. and does

so I’m trying to be okay with it, but I’m not. Next thing i know i take my computer to go on fb and he’s logged in and there’s a conversation between them on the screen. i’ve never seen him grab the computer so quick away from me and log out. He says it’s his business, i have no right to read it. but to me it appears something is being hidden from me. ok huge arguement.

ends in me saying me or their friendship (btw just started talking the week before at a bar and the texting began, but did know each other as aquitanances.) he says u can’t choose my friends and make me stop talking to someone, nothing is going on. Ends up he says ok i won’t be friends with her. i guess they don’t talk

then today months after it all started he calls me to pick him up at a bar. i walk in to see him with his arms around a girl, her head on his check and the text girl on the other side of him. Two or three other people in the bar. mind u he’s been out since the early morning with lots of people and calls me now? So i walk up stunned, order a drink and sit. he says aren’t u going to be socialable, I say no. i told him u should have called me when u were ready to go. I was uncomfortable so I left. He gets mad. I went back to get him, he refuses to get in the car and begins walking home.

I go in the bar to talk to this text woman and her husband. I was nice and pleasant just explained i left bc i was uncomfortable and i was uncomfortable with the texting etc. her husband said it didn’t bother him, i said good, but did me.

so in the meantime my husband is walking home, i follow him so he doesn’t get hit and he’s yelling and screaming bc i embarrassed him in front of people. i was cordial to her, i didn’t raise my voice or anything.

What it boils down to for me that he doesn’t get, is that if roles were reversed and i did this he would be pissed beyond belief. so am i justified in being pissed? i need feedback…

If you have read a little about this site you will see that ihatemen.org fully supports open-mindedness…

This is not a man hating site, and I do not support misandry. Women may come to this site because they are upset over a man and type “i hate men” into a search engine, but once they come here I want them to see that being a man hater is not going to make their problems go away.

I put a lot of thought into the issues that women face, and try to address it in a fun and support manner. Maybe this is a new concept to men in Poland…

Once again, I’m a red-blooded, heterosexual American male posting on a site titled “I Hate Men”, but I’m not here to bash anyone. I’m here to give structured opinions. Coming from this male…Ladies, DO NOT think you’ll find the right guy in a bar. Bars are for going out with your friends and having a good time, not picking up potential dating partners.

Another thing, if there are any males secretly reading this, guys, you need to be open-minded too. Not every girl has to be 6 foot, blonde and big tits, or dress like a whore…as a matter of fact, stay away from them, they’re nothing but basketcases. If you look for that, expect a one-night stand. And DO NOT think you’ll find the right girl in a bar. Bars are for going out with your friends and having a good time, not picking up potential dating partners.