It’s very hard to say. I’m almost…. in shock. I went out tonight and no married guys tried to pick me up…. just a few girls. So, ok. Here’s a little survey that I would LOVE to hear some responses on… PLEASE!!! If you go to a bar, one that you’d go to with the intentions of possibly picking somebody up, not just the hang with your friends, hole in the wall type place. So let’s say you’re in this bar and you see a chick wearing a long sleeved t-shirt under a short sleeved t-shirt, does this ring any bells? Does it make you think anything is up with this chick? Little by little I have been noticing that every once in a while I’ll see this at some bar or another and something just doesn’t seem right. In all honesty, I get the impression that she’s gay. No harm. I am by no means degrading anyone! I have both male and female friends that are gay or bi. No harm. I am just making an observation. So anyhow, I’ve been hurt way to many times, this last one was the worst and it’s not that I don’t want a relationship, I just am tired of chasing or doing all the work. I have come to realize that if somebody is interested, they’ll make some sort of effort to get my attention. Otherwise, eh, life goes on. Right now, being single is really not that bad, and I have to admit this is a first for me to say that. But I digress… So I go out tonight with about 6 friends or so, some guys, some girls. The place we go to is PACKED! Of course, it’s wet t-shirt night for the ladies and wet boxer night for the guys. But in total, I can’t tell you how many girls were dancing with me throughtout the entire night. Now I’m not gay, bi or whatever you may want to imagine. But I have to tell you that what I was wearing tonight was a long sleeved shirt under a short sleeved one… Go figure. Am I the only one who sees a pattern? Start watching over the next few times you go out to different bars. Just watch and then let me know…